In Dream of Red Mansions , is Wang Xifeng a good wife?

Wang Xifeng is a very important character in "A Dream of Red Mansions", her importance is no less than that of Lin Daiyu, the heroine of "A Dream of Red Mansions", but her character is very complex, she has done a lot of things in her life, there are good things and bad things, there are things that should be done and things that should not be done. Perhaps it is precisely because of this that she will receive more attention and controversy from readers. Wang Xifeng has always been the image of a very shrewd and capable strong woman in front of people.

But at the same time, she is also a woman, a wife, a mother. So, is Wang Xifeng a good wife? Seeing this topic, many people will smileBecause as a wife, Wang Xifeng's deepest impression is two words - jealousy.

She once designed to frame Second Sister You, because Jia Lian secretly fooled around with other people's wives behind her back and the husband and wife quarreled, but this is not very worth discussing, after all, from a modern point of view, this cannot be a reason to blame his wife. The ancients were also human, and jealousy and anger were also normal manifestations of a woman discovering her husband's extramarital relationship between men and women. It is undeniable that Wang Xifeng is a good wife most of the time.

When Jia Dairu's grandson Jia Rui seduced her in every possible way, she not only did not waver in the slightest, but also tried every means to make Jia Rui repent. Isn't that necessary, one might say? Ancient society had such strict requirements for women's chastity, how dare she?

She didn't dare, but her "don't dare" was different from that of ordinary women. In the thirteenth chapter of the book, Qin Keqing had just died, and the hostess of Ningguo Mansion, You Shi, couldn't get sick, and Jia Zhen was suffering from the funeral of no person in charge, so he came to Rongguo Mansion to ask for someone, and when he came to Rongguo Mansion, there was a description like this: "Mrs. Xing, Mrs. Wang, Sister Feng and the relatives of the family sat together.

Someone reported: "Uncle is in." The frightened mothers-in-law sighed, hid back, and Sister Dufeng stood up.

The reason why the female dependents panicked was nothing more than to avoid suspicion. Wang Xifeng is a young daughter-in-law and one of the people who need to avoid suspicion, but she didn't rush to avoid it like othersInstead, he stood up to greet him generously.

She also often laughs with Jia Rong, Jia Qiang, etc., and Jia Lian also complained in the twenty-first episode: He guards me like a thief, and only allows him to talk to men ......He doesn't care about the little uncles and nephews, the big and the small, talking and laughing, he is not afraid that I will be jealous. Wang Xifeng does not shy away from contact with men other than her husband, but as Ping'er said, she sits upright and is not restrained, but she has her own attitude, which makes people dare not despise half a point.

With such a wife, although Jia Lian complained a lot, he couldn't help but feel a little proud in his heart.

An important feature of Dream of Red Mansions that distinguishes it from many legendary stories is that the author does not isolate the love story of Baoyu Daiyu, but produces it in a noble, large and complex family.

In fact, the author Cao Xueqin uses the prosperity and decline of the four major families of Jia, Wang, Shi and Xue, among which Jia Mansion is the center, to be the mirror of the ruling class in the Kang, Yong, and Qian eras of the Qing Dynasty.

I think Wang Xifeng can be regarded as a good wife, because although she looks strong, she is still very good to her husband, and when her husband makes mistakes, she does not choose to speak ill of her, but tolerates.

You must know that there are really too few women who can tolerate her husband.

The marriage status of the two of them is not particularly good, the two of them seem to be very affectionate on the surface, but in fact, there is no relationship in private, and all that exists is interests. Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai's marriage is also a tragic marriage, the two of them do not have any previous relationship, and the two of them are also inseparable after they get married.

In fact, the relationship between the two is not good. Then in "Dream of Red Mansions", the marriage of Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu. It is also a tragedy.

The marital status of these two people is also a tragedy, and after the fall of Jiafu, the two of them finally came to an end; Some of the tragic marriages in Dream of Red Mansions are the marriages of Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai and so on.

Jia Lian and Wang Xifeng couldn't change each other, nor did they want to change themselves, and the result was a chicken feather. Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai's love and marriage tragedy.

Baochai. Because Baochai is knowledgeable, thrifty, and very beautiful, I think Baochai is more suitable to be a wife.

If you want to be a wife, many people will choose Baochai, although Baochai is the least brilliant of the three, but her emotional intelligence is very high, the housekeeping means are also very high, and her personality is also very gentle, this should be the best wife candidate in the hearts of men.

It's so decisive that it's Baochai, beautiful and capable, Daiyu is a little too childish, and Wang Xifeng is too shrewd, if it were me, I would choose Baochai.

I think it's definitely Baochai, because she is a very wise woman and very good at handling family affairs.

Yes. Wang Xifeng in "Dream of Red Mansions" is Jia Lian's wife, a noble young grandmother, she is not only beautiful, but also capable. She is in power in the Jia family, in charge of the huge financial expenditure of the Jia family, hundreds of people have to pass through her hands, if there is no decisive killing, shrewd character, how can she get the trust of Jia's mother, under the pressure of people, stand up in the Jia family?

Because Wang Xifeng is the housekeeper of the Jia family, her personal prestige is relatively high, and she treats people very strictly, so they all regard her as an enemy.

This part of Jia Rui's illness is a repetition of Qin Keqing's story, as the saying goes: Illness is life, if you cure the disease, you will cure your life, if his nature is a tragic character, in fact, it can't be cured. So how to find a doctor, it's useless, and then you can eat it alone, a person's ginseng soup is a traditional Chinese medicine, I used to think that the supplement was a vital thing, of course, it was also said that Gary had collapsed and did not write a book, the author specially arranged this passage, and used Gary's question to ask Feng, Gary is actually dead and not open, until he died, Feng is open, Feng did not give him a reference in the end.

This is the most puzzling part, because I don't understand why it's so hard for her not to give it to him. I think we should understand Wang Xifeng's character.

Wang Xifeng's knot is that she respects Jia Li and hates Jia Li, and the reason why she hates Jia Li is because of her pride, because she thinks that I am such a person, why do you chase me. Once a person has pride, he cannot untie the knot. In fact, it is not easy for us to understand why Wang Xifeng hates Jia Rui so much.

Isn't everything under control? Isn't that strong? Why do you hate Jared so much?

But it's hard for us to understand. Psychologically, once you feel different from this person, this person will even insult you by chasing you. Can you learn something like this?

<>We often see some aristocratic families, there will be people who think that I have a high status, why are you talking to me. In fact, Wang Xifeng has pride in her heart, so she hates Jia Rui very much, because she feels that if Jia Rui chases her idea, it will be an insult to Wang Xifeng. The most wonderful thing about Dream of Red Mansions is to see the various tragedies of human nature.

In fact, it is not easy for you to see that Wang Xifeng definitely does not know that he has the pride of a small aristocratic family. In fact, it was her tragedy.

Although Wang Xifeng is very pungent, Wang Xifeng is very capable of doing false things, if his character is very weak and lacks the ability to do things, he can marry a poor woman like Wang Xifeng as his wife.

Yes, because Wang Xifeng's pungency is not rude, but empathetic and delicate.

Wang Xifeng in "Dream of Red Mansions" is Jia Lian's wife, a noble young milkman, Bi Hunger is not only beautiful, but also capable. Wang Xifeng is the most associated with the male world among the female characters in Dream of Red Mansions.

No, because my personality is relatively quiet and calm, and the character of the spicy ant Jianzhou is difficult for me to resist, so I prefer to find girls with a similar type of personality to self-deprecation.