Let s talk about the wedding gift money. Very depressed

Updated on society 2024-02-08
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Gifts are a Chinese folk tradition, and the default rule in terms of gifts is how many gifts to receive and how many gifts to return gifts, and it is necessary to make a record when receiving gifts for reference in the future. However, in real social life, the amount of gifts will change accordingly due to factors such as status, income, relationship closeness, changes in personal financial status and even inflation. Although the amount of the other party's gift is not completely equal to the total amount of your gift, the amount of the other party's gift is limited to your wedding gift, and it is not excluded that the other party will also give a gift when you have children in the future, so there is no need to worry about it.

    In addition, gifts and returns are also time-sensitive, and many factors such as migration, resignation, death, and estrangement will also determine whether the return gift after receiving the gift is timely or whether the return gift is realized. When people are in a society or group, it is important to look at the development prospects or survival conditions. It's a good idea to take a long-term view and build friendships or connections is more important than a temporary gift.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't do it in the unit, don't give it, it's not worth it, the year is still reciprocating, since he doesn't want to continue, he won't continue, but if you plan to do it for a long time, and you're afraid that the leader will wear small shoes, then there's no way, there are customs and habits in some places, but it doesn't seem to be in what you said, anyway, that's the case.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    So you still make 100See if you want to keep doing it. If you want to do it, you have to be courteous.

    Friendship depends on movement, let alone leadership. If you don't want to do it, you have to behave better and leave a good impression on others. I can't be colleagues anymore, maybe we'll see each other again in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's nothing, it's still a courtesy, not everyone can do what you think, look away.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then you buy some food for his children, visit him in person, and return the favor, and now that the price has risen, it will be a few hundred more, no problem!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Go, it's a courtesy exchange, not to mention your superior.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why don't you go, it's strange not to go.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    We have always had a local custom here that the man pays the dowry and the woman pays the dowry.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Gotta go unless you change companies or directors are laid off and fired and retired.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    We will give it when we notify you, and pull it down if we don't.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Wait until you have a child and invite him back to earn it!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What's the solution! Who called him your boss?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It doesn't matter, just be happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As much as you give to others, others will give you as much.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't be sad about the 100 bucks.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Gift money is actually an interest-free loan.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Haven't you had a baby yet?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I told you that I could help.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then you are like him?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    1. How to write a red envelope blessing for marriage.

    1. I wish the newlyweds a happy marriage and a united heart forever.

    2. I wish the newlyweds a happy marriage and an early birth of a precious son.

    3. I wish you eternal love and eternal happiness.

    4. I wish the newlyweds a happy and heart-to-heart.

    5. I wish you a hundred years of good harmony and love each other.

    6. I wish you a good understanding and fly with wings.

    7. I wish you a happy and good relationship, and the flowers will bloom and be rich.

    8. I wish the hand of the son and grow old with the son.

    9. I wish Lang a talented woman and a good couple.

    10. I wish Tongde to work together and fly with wings.

    11. I wish the flowers a good moon and a hundred years of old age.

    12. I wish the husband and the wife to sing, and the love will be eternal.

    13. I wish you respect each other like guests and a happy home.

    14. I wish a sweet home, and the white head will make a covenant.

    15. I wish you love each other and be a fairy couple.

    16. I wish the flowers to bloom and stalk, and the fate is determined to be three lives.

    1. If you have time to attend the wedding of the newlyweds, it is best to go to the scene to send blessings to the newlyweds, because it is said that the more blessings the newlyweds receive, the happier the married life will be after marriage.

    2. If you really don't have time, you can explain the reason to the newcomer in advance, and I believe that the newcomer can understand, especially now some people may have no way to go to the scene because of work reasons, such as a business trip or going abroad.

    3. Even if you don't have time to pass, you still have to prepare the money, and now the network is very developed, so you can transfer money directly through WeChat, and send blessings to the newlyweds through WeChat transfers, and directly say happy newlyweds and early birth of precious children, or some other blessings.

    4. If the relationship with the newcomer is relatively close, you can also say some creative or funny blessings, and pay attention to how much money is more appropriate.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    One. The price of the wedding gift.

    Lowest - Ever been to the arithmetic type: 200 for one person, 500 for two people, 800 for one family

    Standard - Courtesy exchange: 500 for one person, 800 for two people, and 1000 for one family

    Breakdown: (1) Ordinary colleagues and friends: 200 yuan to 300 yuan is more moderate, and if the relationship is better, add more. Colleagues can also piece together an auspicious number package and a "big" red envelope.

    2) Crotch pants friends, friends: not less than 600 yuan. Whether the number is going to go up further depends on your purse.

    3) Relatives at home: more than 1000 yuan. The relationship is very close, and the elders in the family have good friendships or even tens of thousands, which is not possible.

    Two. Pay attention to the gift money.

    1) The number of the bonus money is as pleasing as possible to the jackpot, preferably in pairs and so on. "Three" is homophonic to "scatter", do birthday and marriage taboo this day, birthday celebrations, congratulations and gifts are also taboo "three" this number. "Four" is homophonic to "death", and this number is taboo for wedding gifts.

    Five" homonym "nothing", some places taboo this number, there is a "childless" saying.

    In some places, women are taboo about the number "seven", because in ancient times, women who committed seven articles were to be punished. In addition, it should be noted that in some places, you don't need to get married with "8", because it is two "4s".

    2) Bridesmaids and groomsmen generally do not need to give gifts. Sisters or buddies who have a good relationship can buy a wedding gift.

    Three. When will the gift money be sent.

    Generally, there will be a sign-in desk at the entrance of the banquet hall of the wedding banquet, where the guests who come to congratulate will pay the gift money and leave their names. However, if there is no check-in desk, or if the guests who miss the check-in will have to find their own opportunity to hand it over to the newcomer. Usually before the official start of the wedding, when the couple greets the guests, or in the second half of the wedding, when the couple toasts, it is more appropriate to give a gift money when the bride and groom are happy.

    If it is not a last resort, it is recommended to send the gift money to the newcomer by hand, and try not to let others transfer it on behalf of others. Of course, try not to transfer gift money for others.

    Special reminder: Now everyone will put a small red envelope for the gift money, but don't forget to write some blessings and your own name on the back of the red envelope, so as not to remember who sent it after the newcomer is busy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Hello, dear, wedding gifts should wish you a happy marriage, happiness, and growing old together

    Marriage refers to the civil juristic act of both spouses to establish the relationship between spouses in accordance with the conditions and procedures prescribed by law, and to assume the rights, obligations and other responsibilities arising therefrom, which is called the establishment of marriage in law. If the marriage registration authority meets the requirements for marriage, it shall immediately register and issue a marriage certificate; For those who have been divorced, their divorce certificates shall be cancelled. However, for registration applications for Chinese citizens and foreigners, registration formalities should be completed within one month of receipt of the application, and a marriage certificate shall be issued.

    The marriage certificate of a foreign-related marriage must be affixed to both the male and female parties**, and stamped with the special seal for marriage registration of the people at or above the county level who handle the registration of foreign-related marriages.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Marrying a daughter-in-law is not marrying a great god. Offering at home. I really can't look for another one. It's not certain what it will look like to marry into the door. It's better to be careful.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The key is to discuss the two of you, both of you are alone, whether you want more or less is just a matter of form, if her family wants more, it means that your relationship with her is not good, not to that extent.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then you will give according to the normal gift money on the woman's side, ask the woman how much money her family has, or give it first, don't wait for the woman's family to say how much you can give, there are too many places where you need money for marriage, and the woman's family will not be difficult for you, don't think too much, don't be angry, I wish you happiness

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This is going to make your girlfriend communicate with your father-in-law, maybe they won't be able to face you well. Actually, it doesn't matter, they're all only children!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Maybe they don't want it, you can do whatever you want. It's annoying that the lion opens his mouth, and the root sells his daughter.

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