Four years of relationship, give up or persevere??

You have entered a state of mind where, in a given situation, the only option you have is to quarrel to solve the problem. I don't blame you or him, if you live together for a long time, it will be dull, he doesn't go to work, it's very wrong, men still have to see the future for their women, even if it takes a long time, but women need hope. If the soap bubble bursts, love may fade, but the traditional thinking of the Chinese will entangle you and it will be difficult to separate.

A friend of mine, who has not been to work for a year and a half, graduated from his bachelor's degree, does small things online every day, and can't earn a few hundred dollars. I like online games. Girlfriends often change jobs, of course, the salary is getting higher and higher, and I want to break up, in fact, I understand that love needs romance, and it needs bread to solve the problem of food and clothing.

Women should encourage more at this time, if there is still love between you, the man is in this state, you must encourage him, otherwise self-confidence will die. That's what you don't want to see!

After being separated for a while, we all calmly think about it, and if there is still love, we can do it again in the future.

Love him, honest people are hard to find, life is difficult now, but you have to persevere.

Love is worth it.

Have you ever thought you might find a better one?

I want to ask you what love is, love is watching, not abandonment, lovers can't even experience poverty, what is it called love, it should be considered a companion, I have nothing to say, I can only say that you have changed your mind,

Love is together, don't wait until you lose it to regret it!

Men are no better than women.

If you want to be successful, you can do it.

If the opportunity does not come, it may be a long time to wait.

It's up to you.

Your life is meant to be shown to others.

You don't have to wait.

If it's for yourself.

It's worth waiting.

My situation is similar to yours now, hehe, I also want to give up now, but I still love each other, and then I think about it, if I love each other, let him continue, no one knows what will happen in the future, maybe today you love him, tomorrow you will be with someone else, right. Believe in each other and hope you go further.

People are pathetic! Often the people around you don't know how to cherish! Especially women, from my personal point of view, it is much better for women to find a man who loves them than to find a man they love!

Of course, both of them want to love, so naturally it is better! I think he really loves you, he just doesn't know how to be humorous! And you're just confused!

You can't get out without money, no house, no job、、、 mainly no money! You should face the reality, I believe that as long as there is love in your heart!

You are all under pressure, he doesn't love you, he wants to love you, but the reality does not allow it, he will feel very irritable, he said that the ability is unintentional, I hope you don't take it seriously, as her girlfriend you have to be by his side, when his career is not satisfactory, comfort and comfort him, if you really love him, don't let him be so stressed, I know you also have pressure, you may have to control yourself, life is like this, but don't be depressed, believe that people will win the day, there will be a rainbow after the wind and rain, where the blessing of misfortune rests!! 1

Learn to understand each other, speak openly, and give him a little more comfort and warmth! Learn to care for him and take care of him. I'm sure he likes you, otherwise he wouldn't be so submissive, talk to him! I don't want you to be separated!

In fact, you have to be together.

Imagine the difficulties you will face in the future.

Of course, getting married is not falling in love.

But if you're sure he has the money.

You're going to be nice to him.

It is he who you love.

Or just want to live a good life.

Actually, it's like you guys say.

You're all young.

Ability to make money.

So the difficulties now are not difficulties.

This world is a reality though.

But I always believed that as long as I chose each other.

It's going to be all the way to come.

Besides, you're all young.

You love each other so much.

So why break up.

Even if you break up. Are you sure that the rich people you find will be the ones you can rely on for the rest of your life?

After the financial crisis.

The conditions for girls to find a partner have changed.

It's not about whether the other party has a deposit.

Is there a car or a house?

It's about whether the other party has a good ability to work.

Because by this time.

Money will go down the drain.

Only the ability to work is the most popular.

I talk a lot of nonsense.

But I feel like it's really for you.

Values that can be referenced.

You have to cherish your relationship.

Facing life calmly.

Stop complaining about poverty.

I don't work my own.

How to be rich.

You say if you work hard.

How can it not be fulfilled those wishes of yours.

How can you raise your head in front of your relatives.

Don't complain about how he is.

Know Bu.

If that's the status quo! I suggest breaking up! People say that this life is long or not, and whether it is short or not, do they really have to quarrel for a lifetime? It's going to be tiring! Even if you get married, it won't last long.

Perhaps, he still loves you very much, but, it can be seen that you are all tired, and no one is wrong, just tired. You just can't bear this feeling, but you're just unwilling to forget it. Call me, and I'm not reconciled.

This is just my personal opinion, and in the end it is your own thoughts and decisions.

Love tends to bow its head in front of reality and family affection;! If you really love it, it's best, if not, it's better to give up and find yourself again.

If you think it's worth it, stick to it, or give up. It's not easy to choose, but it's even more terrible to choose the wrong one.

It's not easy, it will be easier to look at emotional problems rationally, and it may feel very tiring when dealing with problems if you are too mixed with feelings, so it's best to calm yourself down when you are doubtful and hesitant, be rational, and be less emotional, so that it will be better and less troublesome. Personal experience, hope it helps.

The two fall in love with each other, age is not an issue.

If you really love each other, don't give up, if you give up now, you can only say that you don't love her at all! How deep is the relationship between buddy for seven years, and it won't be your parents living with you in the future! It's your lover even though I don't know why your parents don't agree ·!

You can slowly make parents accept her, there is no parent in the world who does not love their children! If you give up on her now, will you find anything like this again? After all, after seven years, I have experienced a lot of tribulations, and it is time to talk about marriage, isn't this the result you want?

Wish! You grow old together!

More than 4 years is not the key The point is whether it is really suitable to go through a lifetime of decades, and don't use the past time to fight for the future life.

Good landlord. Give it up. Why? Because what else can you do but give up?!

For nine long years, in this pain, in fact, you have already understood all the great truths of human feelings and sophistication, and you don't need others.

But you don't know how to "love yourself".

Allowing yourself to live in misery is a bad abuse of the self.

You just lost the ability and courage to love because you failed once and didn't come out.

But if you really like her, then you have to continue Answer Supplement Since you are reluctant to give up what to do, if you want to like it, try to love.

As long as you treat her well, you can strangle her, and if you want to do so much, you will only get more and more annoyed the more you think about it.

As a boy, you're going to be more dead-faced, maybe she likes you too, but she can't say it.

Oops, you're going to have to keep going anyway.

Dear, do you think it has a reason for you to stick with it? If there is, you should continue to persevere, otherwise I believe that there is a better love affair waiting for you, and you don't have to give up the ...... of the whole forest for the sake of a treeThink about it a little more clearly......

You're using an exclamation point, and I think you're actually really struggling, but the real thought in your heart is: hold on! You don't need to worry about whether you can do it, you just need to know one sentence, it's not that you can't! You don't dare!

Don't give up what you should insist on, don't insist on what you should give up.

This shows that the other party does not value the feelings between two people。Giving up love for the sake of a career may seem like a very great thing in the eyes of a man, but this decision is painful for a woman. There are many girls who cry bitterly after experiencing similar things, and don't understand why their boyfriends for many years have always given up on this relationship, in fact, this can only show that the relationship between the two people is not in place, or that the other party does not attach so much importance to you.

First, the feelings are not in place.

In men's hearts, there will be such a scale, on the left side of their career, on the right side of the relationship with their girlfriend, if this balance starts to tilt to the left, they will think of giving up the relationship. This can only show that the relationship between two people is not deep enough, otherwise it is impossible for a man to give up on you so easily. So there is really no need to be too painful in this situation, because such a man is really not worth continuing to delay his time, instead of crying here, it is better to think about how to find the next true love.

2. Find a reason to break up.

The reason why some men say this is mainly to find a reason to break up, after 5 years of love, men may find that two people are not suitable, but they don't know what reason to break up, so they say such a high-sounding sentence. On the one hand, you can find a little comfort in your heart, and on the other hand, you can also send your girlfriend away, which is definitely a double thing.

3. Give up decisively.

In either case, the girl should choose to give up decisively, because it proves that the boy does not value you. Maybe I have a very deep relationship with a boy in the heart of a girl.,But these are just things that I take for granted.,Or it's wishful thinking.。 Giving up decisively is the best choice for both yourself and the other party.

When we don't know how to decide, we might as well look at the whole thing from an outsider's point of view, and maybe you will get a different answer.

Some things are irreparable, so he can't give you happiness, just let others give you happiness, let go is the wisest choice, always be alert to yourself to start over, and live a natural life will be very happy!

Giving up is your wisest choice, and not giving up is the most pitiful thing for you.

Don't give for someone who doesn't deserve it.

That's just your superficial...

You should adjust your normal state of mind.

I hope that one day I can proudly walk in front of him.

Even if he is still to you ...

Maybe you don't feel anything anymore.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who really love you may not say many words that love you, but Gao Qi will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't pick Qi Xuling are always the brightest, and the small fish that slips away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

It is a kind of happiness to be understood in feelings, and it is a kind of loneliness to wait to be understood! If you don't love someone, let go so that others have a chance to love her. If someone you love has given up on you, let yourself go so that you can have a chance to love others. ­

There are some things that you like no matter how much you don't belong to you, and some things you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, there are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm. ­

Some fate is destined to be lost, some fate will never have a good result, love a person does not have to have, but to have a person must love him well. ­

The man cries because he really loves; The woman cried because she really gave up. ­

I want to let go but I don't have the courage, and I feel tired to continue. No one can help him decide, and when he comes to this point, he can only blame himself for being too persistent, and it depends on himself what to do, and I am the same. Don't know what to do.

In order to reduce the quarrel, I try to endure as much as I can, although I don't like to quarrel before, but I always feel that my feelings are weak. Every relationship is like this, there is no freshness of falling in love at the beginning, even if you find a new one, you will experience the same thing, let it be, it is really irreparable, no matter how much you don't want to, it's time to let the Yan faction go.