Love is love, it will never become family affection, do you agree?

Of course I agree with such a thing, it makes too much sense, if two people have love, it is impossible to become family affection, because love and family affection are two different things.

I don't agree, because after getting married for a long time, love will gradually be consumed by the details of life, and only family affection remains.

In fact, I agree with this sentence very much, because I think love is love, because only love will make two people more affectionate.

I don't agree, love may be short-lived, but if two people get along for a long time, there will be family affection.

Love becomes affection, and the place of love is vacant.

I think the most terrifying theory about Lu Bang in marriage and love is: "Love will eventually become family affection." "Could it be that now I wear a beautiful shirt and makeup to go out to an appointment, travel hundreds of kilometers to surprise another person, cry and laugh for him, and talk about Kai only to have a brother and sister who is watching TV at home with me in the thirties?

I don't. I understand that any relationship will tend to be flat, but the picture in my mind about each other is always two people snuggling together, and when I was 50 years old, he would buy flowers and take me to my favorite restaurant.

Instead of the story at the end, everyone killed the romance together, and no one felt sorry.

Excerpt from People's Night Reading.

Many years ago, I thought that falling in love was about getting married. But in fact, people need to experience how to love others and how to be loved. Two people change from strangers to lovers, not simply becoming a couple.

The most pitiful thing is that falling in love is because two people begin to attract each other, and under the effect of hormones, they will magnify each other's advantages and ignore or care less about each other's shortcomings. But after a long time, if you live together, many unknown habits and problems will appear.

But we love someone, and at the same time, we have to accept their shortcomings, because no one is perfect.

So, if you have successfully changed from strangers to lovers, to each other's marriage partners. So what pitfalls to avoid?

First: Before getting married, you must understand the relationship between him and his parents, the way they get along, and the way they get along with their parents.

If they are in the house, they let their mother do all the housework, and if they think that the woman will cook and do laundry. Even if your boyfriend is not like this, it is difficult to say that the coexistence of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not cause you trouble in the future.

Second: Before marriage, regarding the bride price, if the other party's conditions are poor, give an appropriate amount according to the situation, but you can't refuse to give it. Of course, if the other party is still reluctant to give or unwilling to give if the other party has good conditions, then he will not cherish you much. Let's think about it.

Third: Observe how your boyfriend will deal with your relationship when he is angry. It is still a great reference for your future life. If the cold war is over, it won't coax you and get out. I'm afraid it's not very suitable for marriage.

Select the object you want to select:

1.The three views are the same.

2.Fully respect your opinions (such as who to go to for the New Year, it is negotiable).

3.The elders in the family do not favor sons over daughters.

4.The in-laws are not stubborn, easy to get along with, and character is very important.

5.Don't be a mother, be assertive.

Do not cohabit with a man for a long time (more than 3 years) and have no intention of getting married. You have to stop your losses early. Otherwise, the cost of silence will make it difficult for you to choose, you may know that you can't get married, but you don't want to take the initiative to separate.

Time is a terrible thing. I hope you find happiness and choose someone who likes and appreciates each other. Choose the person who becomes good with you, if you are together, you have become depraved, even if it is not a good love!