Why is it that the older I get, the more I feel that nothing matters?

When we look back on yesterday after maturity, it seems that everything we care about today seems boring.

For example, when we were children, we thought that the streets were very prosperous, when today we have seen more prosperous cities, and look back and think about those streets as old as if they were a century apart, in fact, people grow up not to feel that nothing matters, but when they grow up, their thinking is different from the past, so the perspective of understanding has also changed a lot.

Personally, I think there are two main reasons why people become indifferent when they grow up. The first is to become accustomed to losing, and the second is to explore the essence of life.

Accustomed to the loss of a beloved toy when we are young, we will cry bitterly and be very sad, but when we grow up, we find that there are many uncontrollable losses that we can't control, and we can only force ourselves to accept the pain, and over time we have developed a numb habit, and when something is lost, there is not much emotion, so it seems that it doesn't matter.

When we were young, we were always used to getting, getting life from our parents, and then asking for it all the way, we didn't need to pay too much to get a lot of what we wanted, these are not obtained by ourselves, but as we grow up, we will find that this society is very realistic, and it will not be transferred by my subjective will, and some losses are inevitable, those who can't keep and those who can't change the facts, and finally force us to learn to accept loss.

Accepting what can't be changed, changing what can't be accepted, is also a kind of growth.

The exploration of the essence of life is born with a characteristic of exploring the essence, when we are alone, we will think about a question, what is the meaning of life, family wealth can not escape the loess, people are going to die after all, no matter how rich people have to face the life and death of their relatives, everything will eventually be lost, after seeing through these things, people will feel that everything does not matter.

That's because the older you get, the more mature your mind becomes, so you don't think anything is important.

Because I have experienced a lot of things when I grow up, I think that things that are big things don't matter, but they are just small things.

Because the more we grow up, the more we find that there are many things that we can't control ourselves, so we can only let them develop.

When I was a child, I fought with my table mates for a piece of eraser; For the sake of a marble, you can splash and roll around and play scoundrels; Take the things in front of you very seriously. Because we are still young, our minds are immature, and we do not have the ability to think deeply. It is not until we go further and further on the road of life, learn, see, and experience more, broaden our horizons, mature our minds, and we look at problems more and more comprehensively and calmly.

Slowly you grow up, people say that you are rational and indifferent, because they don't know that your feelings for the world have not faded, but deepened, to the depth of the blue place 500 meters below the surface of the sea, and one or two dazzling and beautiful splashes on the surface of the sea no longer mean anything to you.

Because we have seen through it, we are no longer like when we were children, and we are no longer as concerned about everything as we were when we were children, and in our eyes, many, many things are not as important as the family and friendship between us. It's not that there is a saying that people who like to check out don't care about money, but think that money is not as important as friendship, in fact, my experience is that sometimes if you are a little more generous, you will find that your world is different.

As people grow older, they see through everything, their minds are broadened, and they see through the red dust, but in fact, the facts in the world are like that, and they feel that it doesn't matter.

Rather than saying "the older you get, the more indifferent you are", it is better to say "the older you get, the more open-minded you become". Growing up here should not refer to the growth of age, but to the perfection of the mind, of course, there is also a situation - some people as they grow older, can not adjust their mentality well during the adaptation of society, resulting in a cynical psychology, a kind of boredom with people and things, so that many things do not matter, do not care, this kind of psychology is an imperfect mind, is a manifestation of going astray, and needs to be adjusted in time.

When I grew up, I felt that all the "incredible things" had become "things that I took for granted". He is lazy all day long, confused, and calls himself a "Buddhist boy". There is no need to be "tempted", no need to be "emotional".

I think I've seen through all the "routines", my stupid heart, and there are no waves.

As we grow up, we go through more and more things. In our lives, we have priorities. At this point, it feels like a lot of things don't matter, because we have more important things to do.

A lot of roads, walking and walking, a lot of things, thinking about it, just get through, some things, after experiencing it, you can see it, and it doesn't matter if you experience more, because you want to open it.

When I grow up and mature, I naturally see it, it doesn't matter, because I don't care about it, I think it's a small thing and I shouldn't live my own mood, etc., I don't think it's important ......