How can people escape from reality, and how can people who escape from reality save themselves?

Well, occasionally avoid what is necessary and let yourself relax and pull down, but the reality still has to be faced, after all, we all live in reality....

Today's topic Why do you always run away and be hypocritical Hypocrisy is just a mask in the heart Now I take off your mask with my hand In the sunlight I can see your face clearly You look basically the same as me Why hypocrisy Why choose to escape Live above board Is there anything wrong yes My rap Let me go to the end Reality and illusion That's the two things Reality always has a fashion force But I want to tell you I can not pretend I can't let everyone like me Live to save face Death My friend Do you feel it I have long ago Putting down the mask of hypocrisy, even if I was forsaken by God, I wouldn't have put that mask on.

People who escape reality are actually very many in life, because sometimes the reality is too cruel, and the results of reality can not be accepted, when people feel that there are situations or emotions that are not conducive to themselves, they will want to escape, this is a very normal thing, and their idea may be to try not to think about those unhappy things in reality, they do not want to contact things in reality, for the unfavorable places for themselves, they are naturally unwilling to accept it. However, escaping reality cannot be conducive to their future development after all, so people who escape from reality must learn to adjust themselves after all, so how to adjust themselves? <>

In fact, I think that people who escape from reality are too focused on themselves, and they are not willing to endure hardship, they are not willing to let themselves put in some effort, get some things they want, because there are many difficulties ahead, and they are not willing to face them, so the result is to make themselves worse and worse, they may get temporary happiness, but then they usher in endless pain. <>

I think the first thing people who escape from reality should do is to recognize the reality, in fact, they can think optimistically, in the direction of the results of their own efforts, instead of thinking about the worst results, thinking about things that are beneficial to themselves, but definitely not to let themselves not accept the reality, but to move forward with the reality, in this case, they need to have an optimistic psychology, because an optimistic and positive attitude may allow them to escape from the bad reality. <>

To dare to bear the consequences of their own behavior, often escaping people, they do not want to bear the bad results, but their own affairs are responsible, bearing the consequences of their own actions is a very normal thing, in the process of bearing the consequences can also have their own beliefs, such beliefs may be able to help people who escape reality bravely stand up and bear the consequences, for the future development consideration.

They feel that they can temporarily close themselves off and want to temporarily numb their hearts. If you want to adjust, you should face reality and tell yourself that you are the best.

Probably thinking that after escaping, there is no need to think about this problem, and then this problem does not exist, and people who escape reality should let their friends around them remind themselves, telling themselves that they can no longer escape from reality, and they also need to give themselves some psychological hints, which can be adjusted.

These escapists tend to be so addicted to their fantasies that they don't want to communicate with others, and the best thing to do is to force themselves to socialize, which will alleviate the symptoms.

Summary. Dear, have you encountered any problems, can you tell me, maybe I can solve your problems, people can't always think of escapism, sooner or later they have to face it.

What to do if you can't accept reality and escape from it.

Dear, have you encountered any problems, can you tell me, maybe I can solve your problems, people can't always think of escapism, sooner or later they have to face it.

We must have the courage to face it and take responsibility.

Will you tell me what happened.

It's a student who doesn't want to accept the atmosphere of the school, and is always running away, and even suspended from school now.

The atmosphere at school is sometimes really unacceptable, and when I was in high school, I wore a school uniform, cut my hair short, and was not allowed to leave the school, and I was in a race against time all day long, which was super stressful.

I was still like this when I went to college, the time in college was still very tight, and I had classes every day, and it was not as easy as other universities.

I don't let me into the dormitory during normal times, and I don't know how to overcome it.

It feels devastating, being managed like this all the time, there are no easy moments, indeed. It's hard to accept.

But every school has its own rules. Think about it. We are here to learn, not to enjoy life.

This is still in school, and after you go out of society, you find it more difficult for people to accept it.

But for the sake of life. You have to accept it.

Otherwise, it will be eliminated by society.

But why can't we overcome it?

You don't have to think about these rules all the time, you have to work hard to overcome them.

Have you ever thought about studying seriously. Instead of complaining about life.

Put all your energy into studying, and you'll be much better.

Learn more and care less about life.

Only by studying hard can you become better in society and have the right to choose, not that life chooses you.

But I just can't learn.

You can recuperate for a while and think for yourself that you may be too stressed.

It's been a year off, and I still can't accept it when I go back to school, it's hopeless.

You can go to see a psychiatrist, you have a little bit of a problem with your mentality, you don't want to face life, reality.

A psychiatrist may be able to help you.

Is it psychological counseling or medication**?

Psychological counseling is fine.

Hello, hello, I'm a consultant at Mido. It's nice to meet you in space, and after reading your description, how can people who escape from reality save themselves? First, we need to recognize the reasons for escapism.

The second is to know what the possibilities will be if you face it. Third, you must have a strong enough heart, that is, you must build your self-confidence. Fourth, if the situation is serious, you can also seek resources and help from outside, such as doing professional counseling for the blind.

Fifth, seriously feel the meaningful and meaningful emotional parts of life. Sixth, persevere in after-school practice.

1. Learn to solve problems and face it

When encountering a problem, first of all, we must be calm, analyze the cause of the problem, find out the key to solving the problem, accept the inevitable facts, and take action to solve it. Don't feel that this is a problem that cannot be solved at all, maybe the problem is solved very simply, and it is you who make the problem difficult.

2. Learn to solve problems correctly in the service and tomb

When encountering a problem, first of all, we must be calm, analyze the cause of the problem, find out the key to solving the problem, accept the inevitable facts, and take action to solve it.

3. Bear the consequences of your actions

If a person has no sense of responsibility for himself, he will not be responsible for others. You can let him start with small things, such as grocery shopping, cooking, and laundry at home; You should go out to earn money, and you can't wait for your family to support you; To have a goal in life, you should be self-reliant, and you should affirm yourself.

4. Treat life with a positive attitude

When you feel pain about something, you should find a way to channel these bad emotions and don't accumulate these emotions in your subconscious.

Once too much is suppressed, the subconscious mind will faithfully follow the message and achieve some extreme behaviors when the situation comes, so as to free oneself and cause misfortune.

5. Learn to shed the foundation to get rid of the misfortunes in life:

The happy ending of a person is not a plain and stable joy, but a vigorous struggle against misfortune. Accept the inevitable and let time go to the pain; take action to resist adversity; concentrate on helping others; Make the most of your life during your lifetime; Count the happiness we have.

Be brave to face it, maybe this stage you think is a big thing, it is because you are in it, only persevere, everything will pass. Tell yourself that even if I'm not the best, I'm going to try!

It is normal for people to care about their words and deeds on occasions they care about, but if they care too much, they may not be able to move forward because their self-esteem is not satisfied in reality and they are not confident enough. If you think of escape from time to time, then you have to change, the way to change is to first accept your own escape, and then to feel the pain caused by the difficulty of escaping, when you can calmly face the pain caused by escape, you can begin to prepare to face the reality, then you will be able to get the happiness of not escaping, bravely facing the happiness of people The reason why people who escape is actually unwilling to face their true self and bravely accept their true self.

In fact, the landlord has never thought that no matter the people of ABC, it is impossible to treat you sincerely, except for (family. Bosom friends. Companion for life).

Even family members will have times when they can't be trusted. I mean no one can believe it anymore. It's just that we have to learn to be self-reliant.

It's learning to rely on yourself. Don't rely on others all the time. Even if others can't help it, forget it.

Sometimes I really can't help you, and I can't help it. It's still the same old saying: it's better to rely on others than on yourself.

In the face of the future, they all report such an attitude. Go with the flow. What matters is the course of things.

As a result, we have no choice. Don't expect too much from anything. Look at the problem objectively.

Got it? Just because they don't help you doesn't mean you can treat them in the same way, if it's just a gesture, you can still help, and you can earn a favor by the way. It is convenient to make it later.

Hehe. When it comes to your own interests. Think twice and weigh it yourself.

You can think about the fact that you are running away now, and what will be the big bad effect on you in a month or a year? If not, then be brave enough to face it. Anyway, even if you feel sad now, it won't make any difference later.

Be brave!

1.Put yourself in the right position, you are not a hero or some very good person, don't expect to be praised and adored by others out of thin air.

2.Don't blindly do things that don't make sense. (As for what makes sense and what doesn't, it changes as people's perceptions change, such as online games).

3.Be positive and optimistic about things. Some things don't try to forget, but think of them plainly.

4.Take action, no matter what you do, once you make up your mind, even if it's impossible, try hard!

5..Dell. Carnegie's book to read. The weakness of human nature, the strength of human nature. (It doesn't cost twenty dollars to buy a few pirated copies).

6.Be valued. The ultimate goal of everything people do is to be happy. To live for oneself is the most important thing.

Confident, brave and calm!