I, freshman. How to face the opposite sex with a healthy attitude?

College is a paradise for people you have to adapt to one day apart.

I don't think it's good to go with the flow in college, and you want to go to the top, maybe the other side also thinks about it, and if you are too entangled, maybe the other party doesn't think you're like a man, go ahead and do it, there's nothing disgusting or disgusting.

I think pure friendship between men and women still exists, and what is the point of falling in love because of loneliness?

Find the girl you like to confess or get along silently, as for whether it's pure or what, the decision is up to you, I hope you spend your college years happily, as long as the two of you are happy, then it doesn't matter how it will be in the future, isn't it?! As long as you cherish and respect your life, then your life is healthy.

Don't be afraid, increase your self-confidence, believe in yourself, and you will have the day to conquer the girls.

I can understand and understand your mentality.

What if you try to think like the opposite sex when a girl talks to you?

1 Let's talk about it and see if it fits.

2 What kind of girls do I like?

3 Why do you like this girl?

If you find the reason for item 2, I don't think you will be too shy.

It feels like you're an introvert ... Hehe.

Personal conjecture: You see girls as too mysterious, too noble, and too distant.

In fact, not every girl is like Cai Wenji, Li Xiuning, Li Qingzhao, and Lin Daiyu, who are the darlings of heaven and the beauty of the earth. More girls are very ordinary, and they can't even be pink skeletons after death.

There's no need to face any girl with a pilgrimage mentality, unless she's your true love. There is no need to hint at what special mentality you want to use to face girls, just respect is enough.

This situation is a matter of mentality, to face it with a different attitude, you are just like this to the opposite sex, you may try to treat women as men, not to perfunctory yourself, but to change your mentality.

There are many discomforts in life, such as: the weather, when we can't adapt, we have to change ourselves. Our abilities and energy are limited, so it's good to get used to everything.

The content is relatively simple, I hope it will be helpful to you.

Since you know your own shortcomings, you should try to change yourself, in fact, you are just used to your old self.

Some things can only be overcome on your own.

Believe that you can do it.

The psychology of wanting to find a partner, good looking, not good, talkative or not, whether to talk or not depends on your degree of loneliness, very lonely and long generally talk about it, or long not good but talkative, generally lonely and good but not talkative, not lonely Then it is necessary to be talkative and good-looking, unless he She only pays attention to appearance, but this is not good, falling in love is expensive, just for a face, that's not love, it's just lustful.

Let's have a bite to eat, go shopping, and talk about our ideals and outlook on life.

If I look good, I will be very nervous, and if I don't grow well, there will be nothing, it is more natural.

If it grows good, talk about it, and if it grows bad, pull it down.

Growing well is like chasing if you don't look good, and you wish you didn't come.

Treat girls like boys.

The other is self-hypnosis, thinking that I won't be with her.

Usually socialize more, and it is best to make one or two good female friends.

Don't be too heavy about gains and losses, start with good friends first.

You can hold on to the mentality that I'm about to fall in love.

Stupid, what's there to be shy about, you won't be able to make more friends, I'm a man, are you also shy.

No need to be nervous! Just talk to them more.

Treat the opposite sex as a peer. As long as it's not too polite.

When you go to university, you enter the society and give full play to your abilities.

Of course, you have to take the exam well, study hard, make a plan for yourself, lay the foundation for graduation, don't be obsessed with online games, ruin yourself, come to me.

It's time for the exam, so of course you have to review and prepare!

I don't know about your situation, but before I entered the university, I heard many people say that the university is just mixed, and you can just study as you like. Perhaps, this was true in college before, but it is definitely not like this now. All kinds of evaluations in the university must be linked to grades, and you must also test some of the things you usually learn when you are admitted to graduate school.

Therefore, at present, universities should still focus on learning.

The freshman study has not yet involved your professional knowledge, but if the freshman grades are good, it will definitely help you in your future studies, and you must not be careless.

I'm the one who has been victimized by that kind of gibberish. I hope you'll take this as a warning.

The freshman year courses are very simple, and you just need to do your homework seriously. If it doesn't work, bring a little cheat sheet... You'll be an old fritter next year.

I've been working for a year and a half after graduating, and most of the skills I usually use are what I learned after working, so I can't explain anything about my high or low scores in university exams. Don't fail, it's fine. It's better to get a scholarship.

However, English listening and speaking skills and computer operation skills are necessary. Be sure to learn by heart.

What do little girls do in general, the characteristics of extroverted girls, they love face.

There is the girl I like. He obviously has me in his heart, but he deliberately doesn't approach me. I'm teasing her, he's still very angry, and sometimes he cries and cries, such a girl has a really weird personality.

There's a guy in my dorm who is just a guy, he likes a girl, but he's duplicitous.

I haven't met it, and I know wow, but if you love her, don't give up, persist and win, I wish you happiness.

There's a song called I can.

In fact, we often express ourselves in front of other people, and if you think that this person of the opposite sex is better, you can express yourself appropriately. In front of the opposite sex, you can talk about some topics that you are more interested in, or you can consider him as your friend in your own mind.

It is also better to smile naturally, not to be in a hurry to express, and to be gracefully silent than to express yourself eagerly.