Do you still have a crush on your boyfriend when you know that his promises to you are all false?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-24
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm a very pragmatic girl, and I understand very well what a boy's intention is to say some sweet words and promises, so I won't take his promises seriously, that is, just listen to them as a nice word, and I won't say that like some girls, I put the boy's promise in my heart, and then expect the boy to really fulfill his promise, I won't do this.

    Of course, whether a boy I will be good to him is not based on whether he can fulfill his promise to me, I will take whether I love him or not, and whether he is worthy of my love, if a boy he says a lot of promises, but he may not be able to do it many times, but I like him, then I will have a good impression of him, but if this boy I don't like him so much, of course I will not have a good impression of him.

    Sometimes girls are like this, in fact, she understands that the sweet promises that boys say are just words, because some promises are impossible to fulfill when you hear them, aren't they, but she still loves that boy and still has a good impression of that boy, so she doesn't care if the promise he says can be fulfilled or not.

    Of course, I'm a pragmatic girl, I don't want to talk big, some boys who only talk sweetly every day, I think such boys are actually not worthy of my liking, or not worthy of my trust, so why should I waste my feelings and waste my time on such boys.

    Men's mouths are sometimes unbelievable, since they can't be believed, then why tell him, and in my opinion, boys who say some empty words every day are really attentive, and obviously they don't like people very much, not to provoke pragmatic girls like me, but they are very provoking girls who like to listen to sweet words.

    I don't really have a soft opinion of this type of boy, and I don't even want to get close to them.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Girls like to listen to sweet words, if you just really love him, maybe you will care a lot about the truth of the promise, and your favorability towards him will gradually decrease; If it's just about looks or something else, maybe just listening to it won't change your opinion of him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think if you can't do it, then don't commit. If you promise, you must do it. Because girls really believe and expect commitments. But if you can't do it, the girl will definitely be disappointed.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I still have a little bit of a good impression of him, because we have been together for a long time before, and we still have feelings, but I can only forgive him once, and if I do it again next time, I may be disappointed.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, I especially hate people who promise and can't do it, and I feel that since I can't do it, I shouldn't promise, so as not to give me hope and disappoint me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If I knew that my boyfriend's promises to me were all false, then in that moment, I must not have a good impression of him, and I would only have hatred for him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't have a good impression of him anymore. It only makes me feel particularly disgusted, and I also feel that this relationship is not worth going on.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, when a person can't be honest with you, you can't have a good impression of him anymore.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When in love, most people will actually make promises to their other half, and some boys will often give girls some promises, so as girls, should we take our boyfriends' promises to themselves seriously?

    First of all, this kind of promise, he is actually illusory, although he promised some things, but it does not mean that he will be able to really do it in the future. I think at this time, it may be better to take this promise as a deaf ear, and in this way, you can also make yourself better in this relationship, and you will not care too much about his words and promises. Sometimes if we pay too much attention to his promises and take them seriously, we will have an expectation of him, and we will even blame him when he doesn't do it.

    It is precisely because of this that I think it would be better for us not to take it seriously, and it would be better for the relationship between two people to be more stable, because these promises may take a few years to be fulfilled, but often in this process, it is possible for two people to break up. If we take this promise seriously, then it is possible that he will become a regret in the relationship between the two of us, and even an opportunity for us to blame each other. So in this kind of promise, girls don't take this promise seriously, and often they can live better.

    And if we don't take this promise seriously, if he does it, it gives us a sense of surprise. So at this time, my suggestion is not to take your boyfriend's promise to you seriously, although this kind of commitment can make girls happier and make them feel as if they care about themselves, but if the boy just paints cakes, it will make the girl more sad.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course, you should take it seriously, if you don't take it seriously, when your boyfriend fulfills his promise, your boyfriend will be very sad and will feel that you don't care about him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should take it seriously, if your boyfriend makes some very important promises to you, you can take them seriously, probably after he has made them after careful consideration.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You should take it seriously, and only when you are serious about your commitments will you experience happiness in this relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When a boyfriend and girlfriend are in love.

    Sometimes when the mood comes up, one thing will be done is to like to make some promises, whether it can be achieved in the future, say it first, and talk about the rest later, at least in the present time she is happy, then it is enough, so in the eyes of girls, boys' promises do not have a little credibility, and over time, girls do not think that some of the promises made by boys are true, on the contrary, they will increase their sense of loss.

    There is a saying on the Internet that when a man promises you something, wait until he takes a specific action to believe it, for example, he promises you to take you on a trip, just wait until he puts the plane ticket in front of you and then choose to believe, otherwise it is just a joke for him, but you take it seriously, so in a situation, don't believe some promises made by boys, because they don't believe in themselves, and how can they really be realized.

    Secondly, when your boyfriend makes a promise to you, you can also choose to tell him the truth, because if he says something, you will believe what will only add trouble to yourself, because it is destined to not be realized, the funny thing is that you have taken it seriously, and directly said to your boyfriend not to make a commitment easily, when you decide to do something, take out your actual actions and let me see, I find it hard to believe you in empty words, although it is a bit ruthless, but it is better for yourself, Don't be stupid and believe anything.

    In the end, the promises that a man's mouth says are generally not something that goes through his own brain, so a man doesn't take it seriously, but a woman is a very serious person, and she will only feel lost later.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can listen to the boy's promise, don't take it too seriously, once you can't fulfill it, you will be disappointed.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think promises can be trusted, because boys are genuine when they make promises.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Just take it as a joke, but keep it in mind, and once he does it, you'll feel very happy and feel like you're not choosing the wrong person.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I feel that if you feel that he is very sad about your words every time, then it is not saved, and if it is not, you should not have great hopes.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is a saying that a man's mouth is a deceitful ghost, sometimes you can believe it, but it still depends on the situation.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Can men's promises be trusted?

    Women are always soft-hearted creatures, once someone says something about love, they feel that he really loves me too much, but there is a saying that is good, a man is drunk and deceitful, whether a man's words should be believed or not, follow us to find out.

    Can men's promises be trusted.

    In promise, men are very generous. The promises a man makes to a woman in his life are so numerous that he almost forgets himself. Men know that a woman's love is inseparable from commitment, and without commitment, there is no future.

    If a man does not make a promise to her, the woman will inevitably think that the man is only looking for a moment of pleasure. A man's promise, no matter how gripping and heart-wrenching, is inseparable from the guarantee of a woman's life. To the woman who is in love, but there are many men who sometimes promise too much to their own ability, always make promises about things that cannot be done, maybe he is trying to do well but can never achieve it.

    So instead of believing in a man's promises, look at his actions.

    Is a man's promise credible Can a man's promise be trusted.

    Can a man's promises be trusted.

    Don't believe too much in men's promisesDon't believe too much in men's promises, even if he points to heaven and earth, you can only believe a little, and you can only believe once, men's promises are mostly lies, really love you, and do what you promised to do now, instead of giving you a timetable. Don't say love to a man easily, even if you love him very much, don't say it easily, leave some leeway for yourself, and don't let him think that you can get it easily.

    Is a man's promise credible Can a man's promise be trusted.

    Men's commitments.

    If he has promised you forever, it is because he himself is not sure of the affection between you; If he says that you are the deepest (only) love of his life, it means that he must have said the same thing to another woman; If he breaks the appointment and gives you some reasons, don't believe it, a man is a master at making up reasons, and his reasons come down to only two words: excuses. Men are sincere when they promise, and they are sincere when they betray.

    He doesn't love you anymore, obviously because he has changed his mind, but he only thinks that the qualities that attracted him to him in the first place are gone.

    Is a man's promise credible Can a man's promise be trusted.

    Why can't boys commit easily.

    Men never know that maybe your casual promise is the driving force for us to insist, because promise we fantasize about the future, promise is the best dream that men give women, but how good the dream is, how painful the truth is, when the dream wakes up, you know how cruel the reality is, you should think about your future!

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