The person who loves you or the person you love, which one will you choose???

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Well. How to say it.

    Shall I give you a personal example?

    When I was in a relationship before, I was bothered by this same question, and I asked my mom the same question.

    My mother replied to me

    You know, before your dad was gone, he was a notoriously nice guy.

    Everybody who knew him said he was good, he was good to me, and he didn't have to worry about anything, even the clothes he bought for me. But after your dad left, I was with your dad for 16 years, and I was always buying him clothes, taking care of all the chores for him, and working hard for him, so do you say, is it better to find someone who loves you, or is it better to find someone you love? "

    I listened to my mom and it dawned on me.

    I think you know what to do, right?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Choose the right one. Hehe, I wish you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Choose to love yourself. Especially girls, this is important.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love your people if! There is a certain degree of batching you can consider it! If you love someone, don't love you or love someone else! I believe that you will not be a third party.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    These are the two directions of emotion, and there is no right or wrong.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This is best when both of them like each other.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This question cannot be summed up by a simple answer. That's an age-old question.

    If you want to be happy, then you can choose the one who loves you. He will care for you in every detail, ask for warmth, and your happiness is his happiness.

    If you are willing to pay for love, then, you can choose the person you love, you are willing to give his youth for him, be obedient to him, and your contribution is also your happiness.

    It would be great if the story was a little more perfect, and the people you love are also the people who love you. ^^

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The person who loves me, so that you can live comfortably, maybe you will fall in love with him, but if you choose the person you love, you will expect him to fall in love with you, but is there such a day when I have no bottom in my heart, it's terrifying, it's terrible to be scared all day long, you should have watched so many TV series, it's very painful for the person you love not to love you...

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

    We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Loving others will make it hard for you, but at the same time you will be happy.

    Being loved by others will make you enjoy it, but at the same time it will be boring. It is best to have both, and there are too few people in the world who can have both.

    Loving and being loved cannot be absolutely simply said, which is happier, for the vast majority of people, it is a matter of trade-offs, which one you hope for more, you can choose which one, and at that time, happiness will come to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Be happy to be loved.

    If I had to choose, I would choose to be loved, because being loved is happiness, if you don't love him, feelings are slowly accumulating, and getting along slowly may be better than going to yourself, if you choose what you love, you may be tired, you choose what you love, you will take care of him for a lifetime, if you choose to love you, he will take care of you for a lifetime, just like the old man before, he was not loved and did not love his person, and then people were not also a lifetime, some things are fateful, because even if you choose what you love, you will not necessarily be together, Maybe you choose to love you, maybe you will be together, people are destined, not who says who will be together, I wish you can find someone who loves you and the person you love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love is to give, to be loved is to return, love and be loved are equally good, since you pay true love, then you will definitely be loved, maybe it's just a matter of time, even if you can't get it in the end, or the result is not what you want, but you have paid, your heart will be solid, if you have been deeply loved by a person, even if you lose it one day, or leave, you will have a sense of happiness back in your memory,!

    So, to love is just as happy as to be loved...

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Instead of finding someone who doesn't love you to be awkward with, it's better to find someone who can love you and tolerate you, don't you say?

    But to love is to be loved as much as to be loved

    If you have to make a choice, choose someone who loves you! ~

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1.It's like the song that sings, "Those who love me have no regrets about me, but I cry for those I love." "Whether it's someone who loves you and you don't love, or someone you love and doesn't love you, it will be painful for you to be with either of them.

    2.The perfect ending is to find someone who loves you and you to spend time with, now see if you can turn one party into a person who both loves you through time and your own efforts, if you can, then of course it's best, if you can't, give up, don't leave the pain for later. If it's the latter, give yourself some more time.

    Go find the right person. You may think that it is cruel to refuse to love, but long pain is better than short pain. And if the person you love will not fall in love with you, with him, you will be very miserable in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The people who love you will always care about your every move.

    The person you love touches your heart all the time.

    Choose someone who loves you.

    You probably don't have to think about anything.

    Someone for you to think well.

    But is that love?

    Why not find someone you love and have a vigorous love.

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