When I filed for divorce, my husband asked me for a youth fee of 20,000 yuan, but I didn t have that

His request is not justified, please ask the court to decide, of course, you have to have favorable evidence in terms of child support.

If he wants a child, you have to give him 20,000 yuan, if he says that the child wants to keep it by himself, then you have to go to the court to lie down, do you know what I mean?

Are you illiterate or legally illiterate???

He is really excessive, according to the normal way of the law, he should pay you alimony and children's education fees, which should be paid by him, why should you pay him youth fees, if you want to protect your legitimate rights and interests, just find a lawyer to sue him, women are not easy to mess with, you can't bully him

You don't need him. Such a person is not suitable for raising children.

I advise you to complain, we have to believe the law.

Try to give your children a happy life.

I'm a kid now, so I know how much parents influence us.

If you want to consult a lawyer, this ** may help you.

Little girl, let's think about whether to divorce first If life really can't go on, you talk to him well After all, it's still good to get together and disperse! Don't make a fuss, if you can't do that, then you can ask the court!

This man is too careless. Why should you follow him!

There are also such shameless men, how old is your child, if it is not more than two years old, it must be betrayed to the mother, if the child is older, it can also be chosen by the child, besides, if you raise the child, he will have to pay child support.

Why don't you ask him for youth money.

Hehe, I've never heard of a man asking a woman for a youth fee.

Now that they are divorced, what else is there. Consult a lawyer.

Hello friends!

You can talk to your lawyer first! See what you can do to minimize your costs and have custody of your children! It's signed!

If it doesn't go so well, you have to ask for custody as the bottom line! Let's find a way to adjust it again!

I really hope you have the best in your life!

How long have you been married? In fact, it is best to consult a lawyer to give you the best answer.

There are men like this! I guess you didn't handle it well! No way, others don't know the situation! It's hard to say.

If both of them want to have children, then let the court decide, if the child belongs to you, he wants you to give him money, which is impossible, not only will he not get the money, but he will have to pay for the child's living expenses.

First of all, you have to look at your financial situation, if you have the ability to have a stable job and income, then you can ask for legal aid, go to court, and fight for custody. There is also the fact that your husband's request is simply unreasonable, and once you get custody, he must also provide part of the child's living expenses.

Divorce in accordance with Chapter IV of the "Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China".

Article 37: After a divorce, the other party shall bear part or all of the necessary living expenses and education expenses for the children raised by one party, and the amount of the expenses and the length of the period shall be agreed upon by both parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment.

An agreement or judgement concerning the maintenance and education of the child shall not prevent the child from making a reasonable demand to either parent, if necessary, in excess of the amount originally agreed upon in the agreement or judgment.

1. What are the specific items of child support?

According to the Supreme Judicial Interpretation, child support includes expenses such as child living expenses, education expenses, and medical expenses.

2. What criteria does the court use to determine alimony?

In divorce cases, when the people's court determines the amount of child support, it generally determines the amount based on the following three criteria.

1. The actual needs of the children.

2. Affordability of both parents.

3. The actual living standard of the local area.

3. How to determine the specific amount of child support?

According to the judicial interpretation, after the divorce of the husband and wife, the child support can be paid according to the following standards;

1. For those who have a fixed income, the child support allowance can generally be paid at the rate of 20% to 30% of the total monthly income. Where two or more children are responsible for raising expenses, the proportion may be appropriately increased, but generally must not exceed 50 percent of the total monthly income.

2. If there is no fixed income, the amount of child support allowance can be determined according to the total income of the current year or the average income of the same industry, with reference to the above proportion.

3. If there are special circumstances, the above proportion can be appropriately increased or decreased.

4. How should child support be paid?

1. If conditions permit, a lump sum payment can be made.

2. If the conditions are not met for the time being, it can be paid monthly or regularly, or quarterly or annual according to income.

You haven't divorced yet, are you ready for divorce, have you considered the ownership of the joint property of the husband and wife and the custody of the children?

One possibility is that he is more irresponsible, so from "he has no feelings for you" to "he has no feelings for children";

There is also a possibility that he is just bored with you, so he has long wanted to divorce you, and he still loves children.

Legally, child support is a must, either as a lump sum or for a fixed period of time, and you can discuss and sign an agreement carefully.

It depends on what the divorce settlement looks like between you.

Legally it is meant to be given, but in practice it should not be given. You weigh it, 20,000 yuan is not a big amount, if a man can open his mouth and say that he wants two people 10,000 yuan, then this person can't be trusted, let's divorce first.

If the child is underage. You have an obligation to support.

If the son is not over 18 years old and is now divorced, the Marriage Tobacco Law stipulates that the party who does not have a child must give the other party to support the child, which can be paid on a monthly basis or in a lump sum. 20,000 yuan doesn't seem like much. If it's a lawsuit, it seems that it's tens of thousands (for ordinary families).

If you think that your husband is not asking for money to raise the child, he will definitely not give it. I don't know why you want to divorce your husband, so I can't jump to conclusions and think it through for myself. After all, marriage is a major life event, and divorce will have a greater impact on future children.

Give, tell him to write a note. lest it be ruined.

Did you do something right?

I think it's best for you to consult someone who understands the law...

1. In accordance with the laws of our country, the principle of freedom of marriage shall be implemented;

2. The freedom of marriage includes the freedom to marry and the freedom to divorce, so it is your right to choose to be together or leave, which is protected by law;

3. If your husband's request is not protected by law, you can refuse his request that you pay him 20,000 yuan;

4. As for the 10,000 yuan you mentioned, because it should refer to the wedding gift, if you have registered your marriage, or have lived together, or the 10,000 yuan has been spent, you don't have to pay it back;

5. As for what he said about cheating marriage, you can tell him: "You go and sue, anyway, this marriage is divorced", because there must be evidence to sue for cheating marriage.

6. Finally, it is recommended that you seriously and calmly consider whether to take the step of divorce; If you decide, as long as you or a lawyer ** are prepared to spend more than a year, you can go to the court to sue.

If you don't do something to be sorry for him, don't give it to him. Go straight to the courthouse.

If you two still have feelings, don't leave... Probably nonsense.