How can I find a good boyfriend?

For independent women, a boyfriend is just an accessory; For women who prioritize their families, boyfriends are dependent and belonging. Either way, girls generally want to find a good boyfriend.

Everyone's evaluation of "excellent" is different, according to the requirements of the public, the most important are 3 criteria:

1. Wealth. 2. Looks.

3. Character (character, talent).

Regardless of their appearance, wealth, and character, girls generally hope to find 3 good partners. Then men also have the same psychology, so if you want to find a good boyfriend, you must first become excellent. This is a bit more general, but in detail, it depends on your definition of "excellent":

1. If wealth is the most important: first of all, you need to understand what kind of girl a wealthy boy likes, or have a favorite object, and work hard according to the type he likes.

2. If you pay attention to your appearance: first of all, you have to pay attention to your appearance, handsome boys are generally more inclined to girls with neat and beautiful appearances (except for idol dramas).

3. Focus on character: first of all, your own character should be ***, and then prescribe the right medicine according to the goal in your heart.

"Door-to-door" is not only about money, on the contrary, compared with the door-to-door pair in terms of money, the three views and personality are more important.

Of course, sometimes human effort is useful, but sometimes emotional effort may not be as effective as expected. Because for love, there is also the word "fate" between liking and getting.

Need to make yourself less bad, find the right position, and then meet like-minded people. 1.The vision is too high.

You always look down on the people around you, whether it is a boy or a girl, probably since middle school, you will often complain that your peers are too naïve; When I grow up, I will complain that the opposite sex in my social circle is not good enough. You can't look down on ordinary people of the opposite sex, they don't have cool work experience, they don't earn enough, and their families are too mediocre.

You feel that the other party is not white and rich enough, gentle and considerate enough, and not virtuous and interesting enough. When you look up, you will find that there is a good enough group of people who meet your needs for a mate, but they are unlikely to treat you as a real person.

2.Your sense of need.

Your sense of need is too strong to be scary.

I met a guy at an event. The boy was polite and polite, but before the two could talk a few words, the boy immediately began to praise the girl and say a lot of sensational and sensual words. My friend was scared to death, and he wanted to run away on the spot (obviously the two had no special relationship).

Although there will be happy endings in movies and television dramas, in real life, others will treat you as a psychopath.

3.You're really too lazy to be saved.

In today's highly developed technology, even if you hide at home every day, you can still live well. You can scroll through Weibo, watch American dramas, play games, and have a dazzling array of undisciplined hardcore anime.

Unfortunately, scientists have yet to provide a solution for falling in love at home, so be sure to get out and socialize and find true love.

The first thing to do is to mobilize all the resources around you, and you can make more like-minded friends through one person; Secondly, you can participate in some industry gatherings, which will not only expand more career opportunities, but also meet many like-minded friends. If you feel that your social circle is small, you have to socialize; If you feel fat, you have to go **; If you feel that it is not good, you have to move. yelling every day, but can't stick to one thing, that is, really lazy, the most common outcome of lazy people is no career.

The other party was very active in chatting with you at the beginning, and then felt that he couldn't pursue you, and then immediately deleted you, indicating that the other party is a three-minute hot person, and when the enthusiasm is not there, then he will leave quickly, so it is a good thing that you choose not to be with the other party.

So let's take a look at how to find a great boyfriend.

1--Girls should recognize their shortcomings. Girls should be educated, love to learn, love to work, virtuous, sensible, thrifty, and have a good family education. Girls have to overcome their shortcomings such as love and tantrums.

2--Girls should be aware of the friends they come into contact with. Among the friends that girls come into contact with, they have to look at their families, their knowledge, their jobs, and whether the boyfriends they find can stand on their own feet.

3--Girls and close friends should talk truthfully. If a girl has a close friend, she should talk to her best friend about the boyfriend she found, and let her close friend give her opinions and suggestions.

4--Girls should talk to their mothers about what is in their hearts. All girls are mother's "close-fitting little padded jackets", so when girls are looking for a boyfriend, they must tell their mothers about all their boyfriends, so that their mothers can put forward opinions and suggestions.

5--Girls should be self-reliant and self-reliant. Girls must be self-reliant, self-reliant, and able to support themselves in order to find their own good boyfriends.

Become better yourself, and leave the rest to time and fate.

A qualified boyfriend needs to possess the following qualities:

1.Trust and Honesty: Trust and honesty are the most important foundations for a stable and healthy relationship. A qualified boyfriend should be trustworthy and envious and honest.

2.Respect: Respect goes both ways. A qualified boyfriend should respect the wishes of the partner and respect his hobbies and lifestyle. This also includes respect for each other's borders.

3.Supportive: A qualified boyfriend will support the partner at all times, including persistence, encouragement, help, and support.

4.Independence: A qualified boyfriend is not a dependent type, but has his own goals and plans in life. He was able to make his love life very harmonious and balanced with his personal life.

5.Mature expression and communication skills: Able to express inner needs and ideas, and be able to be a mature communicator. Be able to communicate openly and honestly in any situation and avoid unnecessary embarrassment or disputes.

6.Positive attitude towards conflict: A qualified boyfriend should have the ability and willingness to solve conflict. If there is a conflict with your partner, you can actively listen to your partner's opinions, pay attention to the problem phenomenon, and resolve the conflict reasonably.

Finally, it is worth mentioning that a good boyfriend needs to understand the needs of their partner and pay attention to their emotional well-being. A page of ability and quality pills is not a secret recipe, but the pursuit of firm and multifaceted behavioral values.

First of all, the screening is carried out, and the last thing to get along with people is morality.

It is not required to be like a saint, but the following kinds of people must not be wanted.

1.People who don't know how to be grateful are not allowed to make a lot of noise to those close to them.

2.People who are rotten all day long, stay away from negative people, and reduce internal friction.

3.People who can't see the good of others, this shortcoming determines the highest peak.

Find people outside of these three categories and believe that your life will not be too bad.

In the second step, you should follow your heart.

For example, what type do you like, career-minded or humorous, optimistic, etc., list what you imagine, and have an understanding of yourself first. Look for it again and take your seat.

Thirdly, you can find someone you think is good, and take your time.

Feelings are all out of business. You may quarrel over trivial matters and feel that your personalities are not compatible. Is it really because of personality incompatibility?

The essence of a quarrel is that the needs of the other party are not being met.

It means that the other party's needs are met, and the relationship can be run very well.

Give everyone a few steps, a scene, and you feel very uncomfortable with what the other party asks you to say. Most people will argue that what you said is not right, and if it is more intense, it will become an argument.

1.Meditation is a very crucial step. Quarrels arise when emotions are out of control. You know you love each other, you want to manage the relationship well, and you can't hurt the other person.

This is a very important step, but not many people are able to do it.

When you want to speak, don't say anything and calm yourself down.

It can be seen that the importance of controlling emotions needs to be cultivated slowly.

Consciousness is the beginning of the change of the wild rift. You can see here, you're already more than most people.

2.Learn to apologize and not distinguish between right and wrong in front of your lover.

Don't care who's wrong, you first said that I didn't handle what happened just now, I'm sorry it's all my fault.

Maybe a lot of people want to spray me, isn't my status low when I say this, especially many girls. If you think so, please quit, we have different values.

There is another situation, I really am not wrong, why should I admit my mistake. The idea is quite right, even if it is used outside, it must have its own position.

But it's different, the other party is your lover. You want to make the other person happy, you love him, you can't hurt him.

Remember, whoever wants to change takes the initiative first.

Maybe you're really right. But you realize that you want your relationship to be brighter and better, and you know that this step can make you better, so why not.

3.Express your feelings, reminisce about that incident with the other person, and what you just said makes me very sad.

The other party is likely to realize that he will definitely make progress slowly and get better little by little in the future.

Probably a little off topic, it doesn't matter.

I will give you how to choose a good lover and how to manage a relationship well.

I wish you to find the people you love and love you and to have a wonderful life all the time

Go to the imported Liang Gaoxiang supermarket, the average man can take the initiative to appear in the supermarket to buy things, which means that the man is more homely and can do housework, and visiting the imported supermarket shows that the conditions of the economy are not bad, and there is a certain economic foundation, so the living standard together should be good.

First of all, you need to have a quality circle.