When you are desperate in life, what sustains you to live?

First: There is a good leader, even if there are many unpleasant problems between people at this time, but as long as I think of my work, there is a wise leader, and there is a better development platform, I feel very satisfied.

Second: the support of my family, every time my mother's nagging pushes the words I don't like to hear the most, often these words are the most used, the words that move me the most, encourage and support me, this is the invisible power.

I want to prove myself, I want to live a meaningful life, even if I die, I have to die a chic and tragic death, so as to highlight the value of my existence, otherwise I will come in such a vain, what is the meaning? will be spurned by everyone and looked down upon.

If you can't live, you don't necessarily want to die, but you do think about the word death. I thought at the time, if I die, I don't exist, I can't gamble with my life on the true existence of the Pure Land of Bliss or Heaven, it's better to live well, as long as I have to eat, so many delicious things can't be wasted, and the people who cook for me can't live up to it. It's better to cheer up than to steal a living, there's nothing worse than now.

After figuring it out, the mentality is good, the mentality is better, and the state of life is better.

Family, of course.

When I almost got sick in the hospital last year, life felt boring, and my wife was always with me, and she never showed disgust. It's false to say that I am not moved, and I hope to live better for them.

Supporting my parents and raising my children, my family should be the driving force for me to live now.

When I was desperate in life, it was my dream that made me persevere, because I had my own goals and directions, I must insist on not giving up, giving up is equivalent to giving up on myself, I don't think about myself but also think about my parents, I want to repay their kindness to me!

At that time, my life suffered a big setback, I thought about whether to just end my life like this, or simply give up on myself and live a day to survive, but my parents cheered me up again, I was their only hope, and if I fell, they would not be able to support it, which was the last thing I wanted.

I think it's that faith, to live to enjoy the beauty of the world, sigh the wonder of all things, I still have lovers in life, children, parents, they are all my most important people, if I don't have them, how can they live, thinking of this, I tell myself that I must live well.

When I feel hopeless, I really think about whether I won't feel pain when I end my life, but whenever this happens, I always think of my father's deep love, my mother's nagging love, looking at two young children, so innocent and lovely, and my husband working hard for a better tomorrow. Life is hard, but with the family who loves me and my loved ones, I should believe that the future is beautiful.

First: start from scratch, don't be afraid of losing face Combined with yourself, when a person is down, he must be in debt, desperate, and have no extra money to maintain family and feelings, and sometimes, we can't even take care of ourselves. Life has become a problem, we are constantly worried about debts, unpaid money, endless worries, and sometimes we think about it, and we fall into deep thought.

We may doubt ourselves and our lives, and sometimes we can't turn the corner, and we can easily reach a dead end, and we can't get out. Some people may want to get rid of all their suffering by leaving. Some people may use alcohol to kill their sorrows, while others blindly avoid it.

Although we are all ordinary people, we can't be irresponsible for ourselves, the more others look down on us, the more we have to work hard. The more others want to see us sinking, the more difficult it is for us to live a better life than them, and there will always be a time when the clouds will see the light of day. Start from scratch, barefoot people are not afraid to wear shoes, find a serious job, start by supporting yourself.

Where there is life, there is hope! I believe that one day, we will overcome the so-called mid-life crisis through our own efforts.

Step over all the downfall, come on! Second: Be prepared to continue to endure hardships Who would have thought that most of the desperate life comes from the family", yes, in fact, the reason why we are desperate and scarred is not because of a responsibility, this responsibility refers to our willingness to pay for the family and be willing to endure hardships for the family.

Remember, at this time, face is a fart, because no one cares about your face, living to give yourself an explanation, to give your family a future, to give the creditor a confidence, is the foundation of a comeback. A man's tiredness is never physically tired, but mentally tired. The reason why our hearts are tired is because we are not understood, which makes us want to run away from this home, because it is really tiring to live like that.

As a middle-aged person, I can understand Otsuka's thoughts very well. That's how I came over, I did everything I had for my family, but in the end, I hurt myself. But at the same time I also recognize:

In this world, no one can be relied on except yourself. This world, more difficult than us, more pitiful than us, is much better. But others are still living bravely, how dare we give up on ourselves first.

It's not terrible to be in debt, it's terrible that you lose the courage and confidence to live on, and you feel hopeless. There will always be some unsatisfactory in life, when you are in debt, you must cheer up, you must hold on, life must go on, your only way is to give your life a Jedi counterattack! Come on!

Every failure is because of our inadequacy! Quitting bad habits is the only way out!

The reason that can support the life of people in despair must be responsibility and inseparable family affection, which is the most important emotion in our lives.

It must be parents and family, and secondly, it may be your own faith.

It's because in fact, it's not even the time of despair, and people who are still looking for reasons don't really want to die

I was very desperate, the marriage was arranged by my parents, they had a serious patriarchal mentality, the husband was too stupid, he didn't care about the family, he often committed domestic violence, and he didn't even care about his son. In despair, pain, and helplessness, I simply broke down.

But seeing my son's smart, cute and sensible appearance, I cheered up and took on the responsibility of raising my son, managing my son well, educating him well, and cultivating him well, so as not to let my son grow up and have the kind of regrets I had in the past, my parents and husbands should not know them in this life.

And now, I'm proud of the fact that I've raised my son very well.

Find the motivation to live, and have motivation to live.

Every failure is because of our inadequacy! Quit Chong and get rid of bad habits is the only way out for Xian Song! Scattered and vertical.

Our lives are imperfect, and at different stages of life, everyone will encounter some negative life events, or stress events, such as birth, old age, sickness and death, marriage and love breakdown, career setbacks, and so on. These stressful events can cause many people to feel pain and despair, and they cannot extricate themselves.

When we have to face the pain and despair of life, what kind of mentality can we survive in a desperate situation!

First of all, the setbacks and blows in life are also part of normal life, do not indulge in pain and despair, but actively find resources and reconstruct reality. If you can get out of the pain and find happiness, this experience will undoubtedly be a treasure in your future life, and you will no longer be afraid of the wind and rain of life. Some people may say that when encountering a blow like this, it is inevitable to absolutize the pain, but looking at the Sanglan and the Paralympics, who can say that when we encounter a blow to life, we can only choose despair?

Philosophy says that there is only one kind of true happiness, that is, to be happy in suffering, if Xiao Gang can be happy in suffering and face life positively, then he will be rewarded with life.

Second, people in pain and despair must learn to vent and learn to seek support. There are times when the person concerned inevitably has a painful experience, and confiding in well-meaning relatives and friends, crying, punching a punching bag, giving them some outlet for their emotions, and making them feel that the world still supports them, will undoubtedly have a positive impact on them.

Third, don't close yourself, but go out as soon as possible, and continue to communicate with people, live and work whenever possible, so that you can distract yourself from the pain, and do things with emotions and your emotions will naturally calm down. Some people will feel that they are already in such pain, how can they do things? However, if you pay attention to the pain and despair in your heart all day long, you will fall into bad emotions all day long, and doing things in itself can dissolve bad emotions.

Fourth, if the patient's pain and despair cannot be escaped, you can seek help from a psychologist, who will help the client regulate himself, vent his emotions, and support the client to overcome the stress. Especially if the person's crisis has reached the diagnosis of a psychiatric problem, such as depression, neurosis, etc., it is recommended that the family immediately take the person to seek help from a psychiatrist.

Read. When I was a freshman, I was at my most helpless stage.

And friends and family are not around, so it is really painful.

In fact, I knew that this was wrong at the time, but I still felt bleak every day, and I couldn't go back.

lived in a state of confusion, barely feeling that I could hold on. Really, I feel like I don't have any regrets for my family. So I walked down carefully step by step, this day of walking on thin ice, in fact, I didn't have much certainty, and I might suddenly leave everyone one day.

I was scared of that, and I knew exactly what I was in. So I hit my family **, in fact, the existence of my family is sometimes really a very dangerous existence.

Later, I chose to study because sometimes I couldn't figure out the questions myself. There are also some questions that the family can't give answers to, and you may be able to find them in the books.

I started looking for books about it, and I started thinking about what celebrities my age were doing.

Later, in the book, I found out.

In fact, those celebrities, like me, are also confused and overwhelmed at my age.

When I was reading Haruki Murakami's work "Tazaki Saku Without Color and His Year of Pilgrimage", I realized that Tazaki Saku, who was a sophomore, also thought about suicide at one point.

And Tazaki Saku, who is also a principle Nagoya, came to Tokyo alone to study. We are in the same situation, and when I read this book, I tried my best to hold my throat, because every change of mentality described by the author really resembles me.

It is true that we face different problems, but we are the same age, the same don't know how to choose, and even the same mentality.

We can find a book in times of despair, and the protagonist of that book has experienced similar despair. Whether the protagonist comes out of despair or not, you can find references and directions in them.

But most of the books will give you a clear direction.

There are many times of despair that can occur in a person's life. When I was a child, I would despair if I couldn't eat delicious food, despair if I didn't look at myself if I liked him, and despair if I couldn't wear beautiful clothes if I was fat. When I grow up, I always smile at the corner of my mouth when I think back to those years.

The young man doesn't know the taste of sorrow, and he is worried about the new words. When I grew up, I realized that there are so many hurdles in life, and I can no longer cry or give up at will.

There was a period of time when Party A was very sad that Party A made all kinds of difficulties and even insulted personality in the work docking; Working overtime until late at night every day, family members will quarrel without understanding; In my professional growth, I feel that I am stuck professionally, but even so, those who are far inferior to themselves rise to the top because they are good at performance.

Seeing the arrival of 30 years old, my career is still so painless, and I don't dare to have children because of economic problems and career problems. It was a very painful time, and I really felt that I couldn't hold on anymore, and I had to pretend to be happy in front of my colleagues and family every day.

After accumulating for a certain amount of time, this negative emotion finally broke out, and finally I quit my job, and after resigning, I went back to my hometown and stayed with my mother. Seeing her busy in and out, the fireworks at home finally calmed me down. As the only daughter in the family, I actually didn't have the right to be willful, and even if my parents had a pension, I understood my responsibilities during that time.

Because of this responsibility, no matter how desperate you are, you can't give up, you are not your own.

No matter how big the bumps in your life are, please don't give up, face them positively, and leave the pain to time, time will heal your pain, make you pick yourself up again, and be a strong person, a fearless person...

If you don't believe it, you can take out this sentence when you are most desperate and want to give up, maybe you can pick up a dog life for yourself.

When the school just stepped into the society for internship, I felt that I was very lucky, I went to a small state-owned enterprise, the salary was average, but the treatment was not bad, including food and accommodation, three meals a day, free of rent, water and electricity, regular salary every month, never a minute late, a variety of festivals, all kinds of days that are not festivals, there will be a fairly generous RMB to the account. Sometimes I talk to classmates who go to other places about salary income, and I find that I am really much better than others (I will earn more than half of my income), and every day like this is simply leisurely for me, eating, drinking, and having fun, and nothing is left behind.

The good times didn't last long, and I didn't know what happened to me, so I handed in my resignation report and left here. Later, when faced with looking for a job by himself, there was nothing that went well, and at first the family said: It's okay, take your time.

But I also waited for me to take my time, I was at home for nearly three months, and my family was also anxious, because it was the Chinese New Year during that time, and many units almost did not recruit. I'm anxious myself, I'm anxious that the original money has been taken to be chic, there is no deposit around, and I see that the circle of friends for the New Year is either **travel or**party, and I am penniless, so I have to count the days at home, not to mention how aggrieved such a year is.

Therefore, I often warn myself that "it is better to die than to live", and I find that every time I say it when I am desperate, the whole person is resurrected with full blood. It's a great feeling