How do you know what you really want?

Let yourself despair to know what you want.

Psychological suggestion has a very strong impact on a person and can bring many positive or negative things to people.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Each type of person has its own sense of happiness, and I think this sense of happiness is not the same, just like Lu Xun's predecessor Acorn said: The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, I only think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.

First of all, you have to make one thing clear in your mind, and finding the answer is a process that requires continuous refreshment of cognition and reversal. In this process, you have to keep questioning yourself, according to your reading, thinking, experience, experience, self-observation to modify your initial idea that may not be mature, in this process of modification, you can continue to clarify what you want, this feeling is like disassembling a mess of ball of yarn, you have to find its source little by little, this process takes time, but also requires practice and a lot of reflection, self-observation.

How do you know what you really want?

Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you, don't talk nonsense, go straight to the dry goods. How can you figure out what you want? First of all, you have to make one thing clear in your mind, and finding the answer is a process that requires continuous refreshment of cognition and reversal.

In this process, you have to keep questioning yourself, according to your reading, thinking, experience, experience, self-observation to modify your initial idea that may not be mature, in this process of modification, you can continue to clarify what you want, this feeling is like disassembling a mess of ball of yarn, you have to find its source little by little, this process takes time, but also requires practice and a lot of reflection, self-observation.

I think what people want is different at different stages, young people want a good marriage, this is a certain condition, to have a good job, need a certain economic strength to run a marriage. Adults need a good unit and a good leader to have the ability to take on their own home. And for me, an old lady born in the 40s, what I need most is good health and family harmony.

At this age, the child is basically independent, and the economic conditions are stable, in this case, what people need most is good health and family harmony. Only in this way can you do whatever you want, travel if you want to, make watermelons, study, take pictures, and experience life in nature, so as to make a good **. Only when we are healthy and have a harmonious family can we avoid causing trouble to society and children.

So to determine what you want, different stages, different identities, different needs.

Hello! First of all, you have to make one thing clear in your mind, and finding the answer is a process that requires continuous refreshment of cognition and reversal. In this process, you have to keep questioning yourself, and modify your initial ideas that may not be mature according to your reading, thinking, experience, experience, self-observation, etc., so that you can continue to clarify what you want.

It feels like unraveling a mess of ball of yarn and you're going to have to find it little by little.