My boyfriend who has been talking for 5 years threw away my photos, how do I find a balance!

To be better than him, happier than him, happier than him, is the greatest balance.

If you don't forgive him, you don't forgive yourself. The sooner you let go, the sooner you can find a life that can really bring you happiness, the sooner you will be liberated.

All I can say is. Don't be silly.

When he loves you, he also truly loves you.

When he doesn't love you.

You don't want to get tangled with him anymore.

Both of them are tired.

Let it go.

Since he doesn't love you anymore, you still care about these things.

He's going to break up with you, and your stuff doesn't mean anything anymore.

If it's really hard for you to get rid of your anger, then you tear his ** off and tear it to him.

It's a pity that my girlfriend and I have only been three years and haven't even half of you.

But it's a pity, it's been a lot in three years, 7 years! It's a shame.

Not only you, but he also lost 7 years of beauty, and I was sad to die, and I was very depressed. . .

7 years is not easy. No wonder the old people say don't talk about love for so long, the more you talk, the more problems you have.

It's not easy to be together, if he really still cares about you, you give him a chance, and you also give yourself a chance, after all, women don't have so many 7 years to waste.

However, there is another point that a man who betrays (or even deviates) for the first time will have a second time, and such a man is very unreliable.

Ultimately, it's up to you.

If you are very angry, then it is better to be angry with him, ask him out, and leave the things he gave you in front of him, and then say: Bah! Then turn around and leave!

Hahaha... I'm so poisonous!

Give him a chance, just once.

After all, there is no one who does not make mistakes.

It's been 7 years, and it's not easy.

Now that they're all back, what else can you say? You love him, he loves you, there is love, there is everything, we are not afraid of people making mistakes, we are afraid that he will not change.

It's good that you throw away his ** too!

The balance is that you have to forget him, I used to take love very seriously, but now it seems to be nothing, really.

What is his ** who is still you, such a person, think about it, if you marry him, if he doesn't want you anymore, what should you do, now you should forget everything about him. I think it's hard, but you have to do it, because that's the only way you can live your life anew, and don't put your mind on it. Whoever doesn't have it can live well.

Be strong. Tell yourself to live better, and women should be good to themselves.

Don't think too much about men, it's a bit unworthy.

In fact, you can see that you love him very much, but he doesn't love you.

I think you should understand the saying: someone who deserves your love will not make you cry, and someone who is not worthy of your liking will often make you cry for him.

You don't have to rush to find a new boyfriend, but now you are in a hurry to find one, maybe it's not as good as the one you used to have.

Man: Oh... It's not worth it.

Feelings are inherently unfair, no one can tell, who loves whom more, so if you want inner balance, it's also impossible, why bother so much Since you broke up, it means that your life has started again, isn't it?!Let's find a new one, better than before

Men

Hey, there were 2 times at one time

Tell him "don't love me, let me go".

If there is a beginning, it will not end, so it is better to walk away as soon as possible.

Time passes by like water, passing by everyone.

The old does not go, and the new does not come.

Pack up your mood and prepare for the next beautiful love.

Nothing! Don't you think it's a pity? What's a pity, men really don't a good thing!

However, you can also find a boyfriend and fall in love again right away, as long as you feel comfortable! If it doesn't work, then burn his ** too! Turn it to ashes and make him disappear from your memory!

I was also just thrown away by my girlfriend, we have been 6 years, and I have been in the same mood as you in the past three months, but people have to look forward! Don't let yourself live in pain, what you lose is not necessarily the best, I believe time will get you better! Try to control yourself and don't think about him anymore.

There are many good men!

Yes, after all, after so many years, it has long evolved into a family-style love, and it is really difficult to adapt to the life of two people to one person all of a sudden, and time will dilute everything.

You are very brave, I admire you for your rational breakup, and I believe that you can get through it.

Try to do something else and don't dwell on it all the time.

Give up early for the better!

I don't know how many times I've been betrayed, I don't know how many times I've been betrayed, what's there?

As long as you don't give a single bit to this man in the future.

The future is bright, and being kind to yourself and loving yourself is more important than anything else.

Men are all about the new and hating the old, and time will make you forget everything. Forget about him

Continue to the 1st floor and send ** to the world.

Like you said, he doesn't love you at all. I threw your **, and I didn't want to see it and think of something.

For him, it's like covering his ears and stealing a bell, thinking that he can not think about it if he throws it away.

Since you can betray, don't say anything about feelings!

Now that we've broken up, why bother with that? Change the mood, or change the environment, and start over.

Make your life wonderful.

It's been 5 years, is this child's play?

It's been 5 years, and you just gave up so casually, oh? Nothing else, just a pity ......Perhaps, give up on him, you can find a better one, then I bless you.

But I want you to give him a chance.

Give him 1 year or half a year, let him start his own business, at least he can support you, right?

Don't give up easily, otherwise, you will regret it years later.

Whether it's a relationship, a job, or a life, don't give up easily.

There are many rich second generations, but the money is all from their parents, not earned by their own hard work.

No one has the right to ask our parents to give us anything, they gave us life, and that is already the greatest gift.

Give him and yourself a chance and time to fight.

The most tragic time is if there is still nothing. And he is still not self-motivated, and he has no sense of struggle, so let's announce the ending.

Let's see the persistence of the individual. If it were me, I would give up... Although money is not as good as love, but without money, no matter how good love is, it will be polished out Now you have not reached the point of living completely independently...

But in the future, all kinds of tribulations may wear out your feelings, but it may be too late to regret it. My friend's boyfriend is from the countryside and the family is very short... In the future, if you get married, even if he makes a mistake, maybe he will say that you are wrong...

It's just a personal opinion, and I hope you think about it carefully, after all, it's a lifelong thing.

My boyfriend and I are very similar at the moment.

He said that he would work hard, but I couldn't see his efforts, and he didn't even have a plan for the future, thinking about getting married early.

However, I really love him, and I will always be with him no matter what, but I also made it clear to him that it is impossible to get married in the last two years.

Give yourself a little time, think about it, what is your relationship with him, whether the future is bitter or sweet, if you can do it without regrets, then give him a chance, of course, it is best to get married slowly.

If the economic foundation is indispensable to you, then it is okay to give up decisively, people have the right to choose a better life, and love is sweet but not food.

If you really decide to break up, then his disagreement will not change your decision.

Living is a very real problem.

If you really love your boyfriend, share the ups and downs with him, urge him to grow up as soon as possible, and take on family responsibilities.

If you don't love so much, and you can't see any improvement or potential for your boyfriend, and the reality factor has surpassed the emotional factor, then divide. Long pain is better than short pain, after all, poor couples mourn everything, and there will be a lot of conflicts when they need money in the future.

The marriage itself is done by mutual consent, so just because he doesn't agree to break up with you, do you have to accommodate him? It mainly depends on what you think in your heart, and don't hesitate to make up your mind after thinking about it! The more you drag, the more troublesome it gets! ~

Ridiculous, is there love at all this time? Love is a few cents a pound, cut! What can you do, don't break up decisively!

If you don't starve, don't starve.

Tell him 88 very clearly

Disconnect.

Seriously, if a man doesn't love you, he will have all kinds of excuses, he will make excuses when he is tired of you, they are not the same kind of creature as women, they have few feelings, if you want to attract them, you have to work hard to improve your charm, get your image good in all aspects, and cultivate your personality well, gentle, sensible and intelligent, even if he doesn't want you, there will always be good men who will want you.

You have been together for so long, it should be time to calm you out, you don't need to contact him more, just care about it occasionally, don't be too low, otherwise they will ignore you even more, cheap, men are like this, you suddenly become beautiful, life is very exciting, he will regret it.

Of course, you know him best, if there is a problem between you to get along, you have to adjust it well, don't contact frequently, recall what problems you have with each other, calm down and think of a solution.

I think after a month of calming down, I can get used to appearing in front of him, dress up nicely, and probe his tone. But reconciliation is best mentioned by him.

The other party takes the initiative to not want you, which means that you are not suitable, and it is basically impossible for you to get back together, even if it is possible, then the marriage will not last long, and in the end your body will give the other party, and the marriage will fail, which is equal to the emptiness of both people. It's still rational to be a man, there are many men in the world, not to mention that the ratio of men and women is so imbalanced today, and there are even more men.

I think you can not contact him at all, you have to love yourself during the period of not contacting, you have to make yourself better, men are like this, when you become better, he regrets it, but if you lower your posture, then he doesn't take you seriously, and even if he doesn't regret it, then you have nothing to regret, what you lose is just a person who doesn't love you, but what he loses is a person who loves him, so his loss is greater!

It can only be said that after 5 years, if he is really dead to you, you should also let it go, don't continue to water a tree that has withered, and miss the flowers around you.

Now that your boyfriend has left you, you have to learn to slowly get used to the days without him, accept the reality, and have been with him for five years, not the habit of being together can be forgotten overnight, although it is difficult for you, this is understandable, you can try to find something that interests you, do it when you are bored, and don't let your time be free.

Don't think about whose fault it is to break up, don't think about what you did wrong, and don't think about the good times you had together, just live so well, work hard or study, let a lot of things fill your life, and it will get better slowly.

After all, it's a 5-year relationship...Maybe you're really going to change yourself.

You have a good talk with him about the end of the day, you have to change.

Ask him why he broke up, the 5-year relationship may be used to each other, he doesn't love you and won't talk to you for 5 years, there is nothing that can't be solved, talk about what the reason is, it's not so easy to divide after loving each other for 5 years, I hope you solve this matter as soon as possible.

Since he has proposed to break up, it means that he doesn't love you anymore.

Only separations can be accepted.

Find a good one again, angry with him, remember that the Chinese population is more men and fewer women, saying that there is a situation where wolves have more meat and less meat, it is easy for women to find men, and it is more difficult for men to find men, so what? Let's find another one!

When we started together, we broke up because of trust, and the reason was also because of trust.

Now that he has decided to make great strides forward, let him drift away all the good memories of the past in the wind......

Well. It's finally out of my mind. I told you to do it earlier. You can't do it. It's also a shame that I used the agitation method. If you say that, you'll be fine. Let's go to the house.

A marriage certificate is more than just a piece of paper, it is at least a guarantee of love for a large group of people.

So if you miss it, it's best to divide it, congratulations.

It's been a long time and I feel bored, I'm just hahaha.

Why don't you believe him?

Men should get married, women should get married! It's a good thing to have a boyfriend! Because Mom already knows, in order to avoid the embarrassment of not being able to explain clearly to Dad, you can make an explanation to Dad through Mom and ask them to choose a time for Dad to meet.

When you reach a certain age to talk to someone, Dad will be happy, is there anything difficult to talk about???

Let's just say that you have a boyfriend and want him to help you check the checks.

You're old, your dad should be in a hurry, he didn't ask now, he thought you were still young.

Tell him directly, Dad, I have a boyfriend who has been with me for a long time, and I want to take him to meet you when I have time.