Is it okay to do one thing persistently? Attachment is not a good thing

Dear landlord, I'm glad about your question In fact, to tell the truth, the wounds of the soul can only be healed with the heart, and you can only let yourself hide in the corner and use time to heal slowly, return to nature to heal the wounds of the soul, and wait for the wounds to heal. In fact, to tell the truth, love has hurt and hurt, it is not easy to completely forget, and there are a few people who can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, and they are also deceiving themselves, some memories can only be buried deep in the mind forever, just use time to slowly forget, love can be a momentary thing, or it can be a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love.

It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love? Just learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past.

Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart. When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves.

In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something. Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

Love is caring, not pampering, love is blending, not unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors, not all sweetness. Embrace everything, embrace the stories of the past, tolerate the happy memories and sad feelings of the past. Love is someone who shares it with you when you are unhappy or happy, someone who can always be by your side to share every day with you!

It's to let each other give up, let each other hurt, let each other be happy, tears always fall inexplicably, love, even if they are together, they miss him every second. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart.

I often do things for three minutes, and people say that 21 days to develop a good habit macro key, this word does not work very well for me.

For example, I once went home every day to dance Douyin to school**, and I insisted on it for two months, and then I put it down one day, and I have put it down since then.

So far, one of the things that has been insisted on for the longest time should be bookkeeping, which has been insisted on for about four or five years, but people keep accounts for financial management, and I really keep accounts just to know where I am spending my money.

In my impression, one of the most persistent things should be breastfeeding, there was no breast milk at that time, and I was like crazy, watching my child drink milk powder like drinking poison. Reading other people's posts every day, watching other people's hard experience of chasing hail milk, constantly cheering for themselves, the supplements that can be drunk, the medicines that can be eaten, and the milkmen who can use them all tried again, even if they didn't feel much stuffy during pregnancy, in order to chase milk, they ate a lot of staple food every day, drank a lot of tonic soup, and people didn't go to their hearts if they gained more than 20 pounds. Of course, it was really successful later, so I breastfed the child for 19 months, which is the most persistent and persistent pursuit of one thing in my life.

In fact, there are many things that will always be understood after experiencing it, how to protect yourself after the emotional pain, how to persist and give up in a timely manner after being stupid, and we slowly understand ourselves in the gain and loss, and there are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. In fact, life does not need such indifferent attachments, there is nothing that cannot be abandoned. Learn to give up, and life will be easier; Learn to give up, turn away before you cry, and leave a simple figure;Learn to give up and bury yesterday in your heart;Make good memories;Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable, it is not easy to come over the deep and shallow love, gently pull out your hand to say goodbye, you don't have to let yourself be hurt deeper, every gratitude is very beautiful, every companionship is very intoxicating.

Is it a pity that you can't have it, whether it is missing makes us feel more nostalgic, feelings are questionnaires without answers, the hard pursuit can not make life more complete, maybe a little shock, a trace of sadness, will make this answer sheet longer, put away the mood and go, miss the flower you will harvest the rain, who said that you must have if you like a thing, sometimes, some people in order to get what he wants, go to the extreme, maybe he got it, but in the process of chasing, the lost things are also incalculable, and the price paid is irreparable, maybe those costs are heavy。

You may not necessarily succeed, because there are many people in the world who have worked hard and have not been rewarded accordingly, but you will at least not feel guilty if you work hard, because you are not someone you dare not pursue.

Persistence is a kind of success, sometimes don't care too much about the result, in the process you do what you want to do is a kind of success.

It doesn't have to be successful, and if you do something that is completely beyond your ability, no matter how much you persist, you're doomed to fail in the end.

It may not be successful, but only if you have been persevering in the struggle, it is possible to create your own Yangguan Avenue.

It doesn't have to work out. But as long as this thing is right, although it is not successful, I will not regret it, because I have been working hard for this thing, and the process is also very important.

Not necessarily, because sticking to one thing is not a necessary condition for success, it may be due to your lack of strength, or the starting point is too low, and you will not succeed in the end, but if you don't work hard, you will definitely not succeed.

Not necessarily, but you can be worthy of yourself, worthy of your own heart, at least you have worked hard for it, struggled, you have no regrets.

It should be, this kind of thing is not easy to say, it depends on what you are like, whether you are very serious about this matter, and work very hard, otherwise you will not succeed.

I believe that it will, because where there is a will, there is a way, as long as we are firm and persevering, and work hard, you will definitely succeed in what you insist on.

If you stick to the right direction and your approach is right, plus you have a good attitude, you may be able to succeed.

The most persistent thing is **, this is the only thing I insist on, it is precisely because of this persistence that I have today's good figure.

It has persevered for 11 years, and has remained at about 90 from left to right. Among them, there are also floats, the thinnest 85, the fattest 100.

In order to **, even quit drinking, once loved the wine. The two girlfriends share a bottle of liquor, which is the norm for dinner. Then the energetic mahjong started.

It's too hot in summer, sit in the corridor with friends, drink a dozen small twigs as a drink, nag until midnight, and then sleep when it's cool.

Now I don't get a drop of alcohol.

Tried almost all the best methods, and did everything. Including eating cotton ......

People who can sit and never lie down, and who are lazy to fly, exercise is never in the scope of consideration.

Eating is definitely about calories. Quit sugar, starch, and meat. (It was quite scary in the early stage of quitting starch, and I lost a lot of hair, but now my body has adapted to it and it doesn't fall off).

The daily intake will not exceed 600 calories, and once it exceeds it, the heart is extremely panicked, and even insomnia.

If you are too greedy, take a few sips of zero-degree Coke or zero-calorie Sprite, or make water with sugar substitutes, or pure black coffee.

As long as you weigh more than 100, you won't want to go out at all, you feel stupid and stupid, and you will be disgusted by everyone! Retreat until the weight regains to at least 96 before daring to go out.

The daily meal is basically boiled in water or eaten raw, dipped in fermented bean curd or vinegar or homemade chili sauce.

Watermelons are on the market, and they are watermelons every day, and they can eat as much as they want.

If you don't have self-discipline, you can't really lose weight if you don't insist on it, even if you lose weight through medical intervention, but if you don't discipline yourself, you still can't control your appetite.

One of the things I am most obsessed with is that I am still looking for what my true self likes and what my spiritual life needs, and this is also a question that I have not yet found the answer to.

The thing I was most obsessed with was that when I was in high school, I studied hard every day in order to get admitted to the prestigious university of my mind, so that my mind could be completely focused on studying.

It's a job, although I have graduated now, but I still want to find a job that I am satisfied with, I will consider signing a tripartite agreement, I don't think I will find a job at random, and then sign a contract, I think the first job is very important for the future.

It was at that time that I was very persistent in chasing my ex, because we were together after that, and I lived a very nourishing and beautiful life because of him.

I am obsessed with reading, I have never given up since I was a child, although they always say that college is over, what books do you need to read, have fun, and come out to work in a few years, but I think there is a problem with this concept, can you stop reading in college, isn't it necessary to have an attitude of lifelong learning?

**, but it has not been reduced again. Because I can't control my mouth all the time, I can't move my legs when I see something delicious.

The most persistent thing is to read, when I was a child, I always liked to say that I didn't read, but how could I really not read? So I still carry my schoolbag to and from school.

One of the things I am most obsessed with is to keep exercising my body every day, because I dream of being in good shape and having muscles until I am old.

Buying a house is something I have been obsessed with for the first half of my life, and it is also a common wish of our whole family, but fortunately, it has come true.

Simple and a little vulgar but extremely real, no matter how good I go to the toilet, I always choose the innermost pit.