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In psychological learning, what we are most afraid of is to follow the map and pull it hard, which is not beneficial to health.
You said it very clearly: if you meet more than 5 criteria, you are not enough of this standard;
One more point: (2) an unstable and strong interpersonal relationship, characterized by a shift from extreme idealization to extreme debasement***** which is a fault that all young people are prone to, and many of the clients I consult with have such extreme thinking;
Also, the development of borderline personality has a lot to do with early childhood trauma, insecurity, borderline personality, all use the 2-5 year old processing model to deal with things. You didn't mention your childhood.
Also, in daily life, with a little more confidence, everyone has one kind or another problem. In interpersonal communication, be more tolerant and peaceful, examine your parents' strengths and weaknesses, accept their experiences and lessons, and follow your own path in life.
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As for the first point, if you are abandoned, you can only abandon yourself, who can abandon you?
The second point is that if you don't ask too high, it's okay, why should the relationship between people be extremely idealized, and why should you belittle people too low?
Point 7 and point 8 are not a problem, many people have them. Isn't it a saint or a strange thing.
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You don't have many friends, but that doesn't mean you don't have friends.
Just because you're reluctant to talk to others doesn't mean you're not talking to them.
You have a very pessimistic mood, but that doesn't mean you haven't had happy moments.
Your social circle is limited to daily life, but some people can't even do it in daily life.
You see, you're no worse than anyone else.
You seem to have a feeling of not trusting others, you have to learn to trust, there is a saying that even mom can't believe it, we still have to believe in the world. Otherwise, the world will be too dark for us. What you need at the moment is to believe in a person, one thing, one goal ......
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I feel that it doesn't matter if it's a borderline personality or not, it's important to solve the problem, eliminate this feeling, and get out of this state. The best way to solve your problems quickly and effectively and thoroughly is to have a professional psychological problem, and if the psychological work can be done properly, your problem can be solved.
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Borderline personality disorder can affect normal social interaction, so what are the symptoms and methods of borderline personality disorder?
People with borderline personality disorder have difficulty controlling their emotions and have emotional instability. At the same time, the interpersonal relationships of borderline personality disorder are more special, and they usually constantly alternate between extreme idealization and debasement. Borderline personality disorder has difficulty identifying oneself.
Usually borderline personality disorder requires taking antipsychotic drugs under the doctor's order, along with psychological **. It may be caused by genetics, domestic violence or emotional and physical neglect in childhood, or it may be caused by abnormalities in the structure of neurochemical transmitters, or it may be caused by frequent criticism by parents when I was a child, or when I was abused. You need to go to the hospital for a psychiatric examination and then treat the symptoms**.
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There are three main aspects of borderline personality disorderThe first aspect is the drug**
Emotional uncertainty is the main feature of borderline personality disorder, generally taking lithium carbonate, valproate sodium, carbamazepine, phenytoin, etc., mood stabilizers can improve the patient's mood, if the patient has anxiety, can take anti-anxiety drugs to improve.
The second is psychological. Psychologically important for borderline personality disorder. It is usually through in-depth contact and establishing a good relationship with the patient to help the patient recognize the personality defects of others' personality disorders, and even point out that the personality defects can be changed, and encourage the patient to build confidence.
The third point is education. Through personal training, the best effect is achieved.