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Topic: Believe in yourself and believe in others.
The mediocre believe in others and doubt themselves; Fools, believe in themselves and reject others; A wise man, believe in himself and believe in others.
Inscription. Someone said: "The authorities are confused, but the bystanders are clear." So trust others and let others decide for themselves.
It has been said, "Only you know yourself best." So he closed his eyes and listened, and sank deeper and deeper into the mire of mistakes.
Believing in oneself and listening to the opinions of others seem to be two contradictory sides that cannot be reconciled, but they have a unified side, just like our left arm and right arm, one is indispensable. In today's fierce competition, we must not only believe in ourselves, but also believe in others.
Believing in oneself is a full affirmation of oneself and an endorsement of one's ability. Who can a person who doesn't even believe in himself believe? When you have a sober and rational understanding, you should "go your own way and let others do what you want."
Chen Zhonghe, the head coach of the Chinese women's volleyball team, was under a lot of pressure and had a heavy task when he reorganized the women's volleyball team, and many people persuaded him to take "insurance" as well. However, he overcame public opinion, believed in himself, and used new generals such as Feng Kun, and finally reorganized successfully and regained the trophy that had been lost for 17 years. If he had taken someone else's suggestion, who would have won the gold medal?
It was at the critical moment that he believed in himself that Chen Zhonghe achieved remarkable results.
However, there is a limit to everything, and "too much". As much as we believe in ourselves, we also have to believe in others. This is determined by the variability of things and their own limitations.
Many times, our gaze is confined to a narrow range, "short-sighted" and "self-righteous". At this time, the observation and evaluation of others from multiple angles are more objective and true, and we must trust others. Tang Taizong accepted the advice of Wei Zheng and others, so there was an enlightened and prosperous era; Zhu Yuanzhang accepted Zhu Sheng's suggestion of "building a high wall and accumulating grain", so he also made the country and the people safe.
On the contrary, the stubborn Ma Tan ignored Wang Pingzhong's words and thought that he was "familiar with military books", and as a result, he lost his life and lost his life. Sometimes other people's opinions are good, sometimes they are not, and we can neither deny them in their entirety nor affirm them all, but it is wise to take the essence and discard the dross.
No one can boast that he is perfect and represents the eternal truth; But at the same time, no one is useless, so we have to believe in ourselves and believe in others.
Believe in yourself when you are "confident", believe in others when you are "confused", let the two cooperate with each other and complement each other, and you will have a wonderful life!
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Autumn fields.
One afternoon, I had dinner and went for a walk in the fields. At this time, it was already evening, and the sun, which had been running all day, was red and big, like a big ball of fire, and like a big red lantern hanging in the sky.
A field stream flowed merrily in the field, meandering into the distance, and some leaves fell on it, turning into small golden sailboats, sailing with the stream into the distance. The afterglow was sprinkled on the stream, and the brook lacked golden light, like a thin veil of gold, and there were many spots of various colors, like jewels sprinkled in the stream, embellishing the news with colorful colors. I threw a pebble into the creek, and the pebble splashed like a pearl, forming layers of illusions in the sun, and half of the sun had sunk below the horizon.
This is the creek that is half red and half green. Bai Juyi's "Song of the Twilight River" said it well: "A remnant sun spreads in the water, half of the river is sorrowful and half of the river is red."
Although the creek does not resemble a big river, it has a flavor that is difficult for even a skilled painter to paint.
In the fields, there is a scene of abundant harvest: the endless rice fields are like gold paved with gold. One by one, the ears of rice were broken and their bellies were broken, as if they were about to burst, and a gust of wind blew, setting off bursts of golden waves.
The cotton lined up, the sorghum smiled and bent over, the apple trees were covered with red apples with blushing faces, the yellow pears were bent on the branches, and the oranges were like small lanterns hanging on the trees. Not far away, several farmers were harvesting their crops, with sweet smiles on their faces.
The setting sun closed the last rays of light. It was completely dark, and only the moonlight fell silently on the pavement, and silence reigned over the field, and only the full moon accompanied the brook that still flowed tirelessly, flowing ......
The autumn fields are not only beautiful, but also abundant.
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There are many beautiful things in life that need to be tasted slowly, and in the process of tasting and appreciating, I have learned to cherish them, so it seems to have the whole world. At the beginning of the second year of high school, I gave each of us exquisite bookmarks:"Although we are now divided into classes, we will definitely be as good as before, as long as we are happy.
I blinked my eyes and stared at the bangs hanging on my forehead, and she always leaned over her head and put it on your shoulder, and I said, you know what, Chen Zengzhen, you look like a cat, a lazy cat. Yawning like this, he is a cat that likes to lie on his owner's shoulder and needs to be fed.
Mom said, those girls around you are really emotional. Maple always likes to hit ** and say something heartless that makes people cry when they think about it:"Song Yuhan, you got home, why didn't you say a word after school?
Isn't there something wrong? Don't hold it back if you have something! Afternoon classes are important, remember to take a good nap, and be careful with the car when you go to school.
I'm always giggling and laughing, Kaede, I'm really more dedicated than my mother
The wet umbrella on a rainy day, always remembering to fold the raincoat for me with a serious look, careful girls, when they are together, they will feel that they have always been cared for
Time is like a sentimental woman, often you don't see her face clearly, she turns away, leaving only a faint fragrance of hair. This scent is intriguing, and it is the most beautiful thing in memory.
We used to talk a lot together, about the things we liked, every little thing in life, the boys we had crushes, and more often than not, the chatter between the girls. We talked over and over again about our future, a bright future.
Li Yuan said that when I grow up, I will be a soldier, and I like the temperament of soldiers and their demeanor.
Kaede has been wandering around the choice of doctors and teachers We have been bustling around us, and we should set our goals as soon as possible
Since that summer, we have been passing on all the information about the college entrance examination, the admission lines of various key universities and majors, Cao Shan, the beautiful liberal arts champion in Anhui, and Zhang Chenguang, the science champion who plays a good hand in basketball. Then memorize their scores in each subject.
During the sports meeting, Wang Bantou saw the four of us in the territory of Class 6 playing together:"After the class, the four of them are still together often! "We tilted our heads to look at this former homeroom teacher, who we privately thought was also very personable with a beer belly, and smiled happily.
Any flower is beautiful when it opens, and the process of blooming is so short, but the beauty of the moment takes a long time to grow. We have been growing up slowly, and even though there are thorns in the process, we never give up, because we have been looking forward to the beautiful ...... that blooms
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