What should I do if my grandmother prefers the eldest grandson and neglects the younger grandson

Alas, the old people are like that, but some of the old people prefer the smaller, and some of the older people prefer the big.

The old man's thoughts are good for the child, and it is still the grandson, she may think that the eldest grandson is more sensible than the younger grandson, and the more she looks at it, the more she likes the eldest grandson's sensible and well-behaved personality, and the innocent and cute naughty character of the little grandson is ignored by her, this problem may be slowly diluted over time, but it is also possible that this situation will continue This requires you to think of some countermeasures, for example, whether you think the old man likes the little grandson or not, it is an indifferent attitude towards the little grandson, for example, everyone has to go home on the weekend, and it doesn't matter if the little grandson is not there Or if the little grandson doesn't go, the old man will have a feeling of being unsettled If so, then this matter is very turnaround If not, then you need to go out and talk to the old man Or you don't know how to speak, then reduce the number of times you will meet the old man This may not be in line with the concept of filial piety, but for the sake of the child, for the relationship between everyone in the big family, you can do this If the old man does not have any response to the fact that you are going home less and less, then you must talk to the old man It doesn't hurt to be blunt Why do you prefer the eldest grandson It doesn't matter to the little grandson That's it If you talk to the old man well, the old man may be able to listen to it and change his attitude towards the little grandson and the eldest grandson At the same time, take care of the eldest grandson and the eldest grandson Because the little grandson is growing up day by day, he will understand more and more things, so he must take measures to deal with this problem as soon as possible, otherwise it will leave a shadow in the heart of the little grandson You may get mental illness when you grow up in the future I hope it can help you I hope it can help you Another I wish you an early solution Let the little grandson get the love of the old man!

The upstairs approach was good. So, I used it too. Until I talked to the old man, but the old man just didn't admit his favoritism.

Although a discerning person knows at a glance that the old man only has the eldest grandson in his eyes. I just know it and don't admit it. A few days ago, it was the eldest grandson who made the younger grandson cry, and the old man took charge of the younger grandson as soon as he came.

The angry little grandson cried and said to me, "It's not my fault, grandma always talks about me." I said that I would not listen to my grandmother in the future, because my grandmother is my brother's grandmother, and my mother is my mother. Although the child's speech is incoherent, the child's young psychology has long positioned this relationship.

After that, I found that the old man was also trying his best.

The old man's concept is strange. Maybe it's to put the dissatisfaction with the child's father on the grandson.

Let your children become excellent, honest and smart in order to win the love of the elderly.

Hehe. There is no need to do anything, but there is nothing to be done about this old man.

This close friend, grandpa prefers the little granddaughter because the granddaughter is young, and the grandparents brought it, so it is understandable that he has a strong relationship with the little granddaughter. The grandson was brought up by his grandmother, and his feelings are more estranged, but after all, he is his grandson, and it is impossible not to love, but the little grandson is naughty and often "bullies" his sister, "often making him unhappy", so it is reasonable for the old man to scare the little grandson, and it is natural. Don't be discouraged by this.

You think they are all your grandchildren and granddaughters, and your grandparents can't love them, how can you really murder your grandson? These are all your misunderstandings about your grandfather, don't listen to your son's crying and resentment towards your in-laws. It's not an exaggeration to say that grandpa really likes his little daughter!

The old man is seventy-four years old this year, and he also has a tendency to favor his grandchildren, but he generally loves them, because they are the continuation of his own life, who can he love if he doesn't love them?

The old man hopes that you and your husband will treat and understand your grandfather's behavior correctly, and you don't have to communicate with the elderly, and doing your son's job is the best choice. In a few years, the grandfather and grandson have close contact, and the current situation will change!

The main reason is that your eldest son was not brought up by his grandparents since he was a child, so the character and concept of the child and the old man have not been well run-in. In addition, your eldest son, as you said above, is really not very sensible, I don't know how to let my sister, grandparents don't like it, I don't think you can just say one side, your eldest son has to do a good job, let him know that let his sister, grandparents also have to communicate, so that they have something to say, children focus on education, don't always murder children.

Find a time to get straight to the point and talk to the old man. Problems cannot be left alone. This will affect the child's development.

Communicate with your husband and send your parents-in-law home and bring it yourself! No, please Auntie.

It's not like it's my own, old guy.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, maybe it's not what you think, or maybe he's an old man who prefers women over men!

Because the niece is his own daughter after all, the daughter is married, treating the niece well is to compensate for his daughter, like his daughter is by his side, this is just an old man who wants his own children's sustenance, after all, the granddaughter is his son's, and the son can see it every day, so you should take care of it more and understand the old man.

Such elderly people belong to the kind of preference, perhaps, even if you communicate with them, it will not help, after all, their thoughts and concepts at that time are different from now; Forget it, I advise you not to care too much about these, and take a step back to open the sky. Be more tolerant, less jealous, and more tolerant, and your happy heart will follow, try it!

Hehe. The elderly are sometimes like children, they may be direct in doing things, and they don't pay attention to the way, but whether it's a granddaughter or a grandson, they all love each other the same, if you feel wronged, just look at them as old children, give them some tolerance, and everything will be fine.

It must be that the daughter is good to her parents

You just need to be good to your daughter, the idea of patriarchy over daughters is not something that can be easily changed.

What is there to be angry about, at that time he didn't have time to raise the child himself, and now the child has a relationship with his grandmother, it is normal that he is inseparable, and she has the ability to take care of the child by herself, how hard it is for him to take care of the child, he doesn't know.

First of all, we need to get the mentality right. It stands to reason that everyone has the right to autonomy over his or her own property. As for whom he gives it, no one else has the right to interfere.

According to human affection, why didn't he divide his little grandson? I'm afraid he's going to have a little bit of self-knowledge. Of course, if the little grandson is very capable, I'm afraid he won't care about this.

No matter who you rely on, it's better to rely on yourself. Self-reliance is king.

The severed son is the silver of what field. What is the relationship between the broken son and the grandson.

The old man's money has the right to distribute it independently, and the little grandson has no way to do it, and others have no right to interfere.

He can give the old man's money to whoever he wants, this is the old man's mind, this is not compulsory.

Who brings the child differently? Except for grandparents, grandparents? Parents are born, grandparents raise, grandparents come to watch! Grandma likes it, so grandma will take it. What does it mean?

When you were a student, it was unrealistic for you not to care about other people's eyes or titles, in fact, the best way is not to refute, not to turn your face, to ignore it, to scoff at it, the reason why people are always interested in calling you this title is to see your care and reaction to this title, the smaller your reaction, the higher their interest, but you have to express your dissatisfaction and contempt for them, and it will get better slowly, and then, if you want to refute, your grandson is still your ancestor, better than your son.

Don't care about other people's opinions, just be yourself!

This proves that you are younger than all of them! Hahaha.

My grandmother is really super annoying, my mother asked them to take care of me, give them 5,000 a month to buy vegetables, 2 or 3 tier cities, don't make me breakfast and refuse to buy me, when they are not there, my parents buy me bread every day, all kinds of afraid that I will be hungry, they are there, ask them to cook porridge, they are unwilling. My mother bought me a piano and spent his money the same, said I, I practiced the piano, she said that I played so many times and still couldn't play well, what did she have to say, and let me pick up the bottle, my hand is to play the piano and write homework, that time I picked up the bottle and scratched my hand so that I can't even practice the piano, make spicy dishes every day, knowing that I can't eat spicy, I want to do it. I turn on the air conditioner every day and scold me, I don't say anything about the air conditioner, it's better than them to spend 3000 to hire an aunt, as soon as they come, they occupy my big room, and dismantle my swing, how annoying it can be, how annoying it is.

Your grandmother... Alas, I'll be a wicked person, but to tell the truth about your grandma, good or bad. Compared to your grandma, my grandfather is simply an angel, and after listening to your story, I decided to try to like going to my grandma's house, after all, they gave me good noodles and dumplings, although I didn't like dumplings.

Try to understand them, maybe we hate him for a reason!

Grandma's generation suffered from feudal discrimination, so they treated boys better than girls, blood is thicker than water, and family affection must be family affection, which should be cherished.

Human life is very short, childhood has passed, and everything that exists should be cherished.

Whatever your grandma says is also your grandma, you have time to talk to your grandma about things when you were a child, and by the way, talk about your feelings.

Maybe you're blaming your grandma. You said that the noodles with worms, in fact, the old people are reluctant, maybe they are reluctant to eat and release the worms, your mother's mother is not very bad to you, because you are her daughter's daughter.

You said that you are very introverted, you can go out more activities, get in touch with some outdoor activities, and make some friends.

Believe in yourself and have a better tomorrow.