Am I right to let go? I m so conflicted

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When you're tired, just let it go... Human energy is limited, and it is impossible to be bruised by never-ending bruising! Although you still love him, he always treats you like that, which means that he will not cherish you.

    Maybe he's the kind of person who knows how to cherish after he loses. That is, only after he has truly lost you will he understand how much you love him. But it's too late.

    Isn't it? I think you'll understand by now.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I have experienced all of what you said, and then I found out that 1 my boyfriend is not a very good talker, so he almost never hits me, 2 is, I always feel that he runs away from me, and I like him very much, I always accommodate him, I feel very wronged, so my mood has been bad, but I don't show him that I feel very tired, in fact, he also feels very tired, so I feel that we are over.

    But, now it's okay, he still almost won't call me, but I don't mind (in fact, I still mind a little), don't think that he doesn't care about me, don't like me and other ideas, because he's like that, when he was in love, he talked a lot, and now he can't talk about it, hehe, as long as you believe him, it's good to call him once in a while, talk happily, don't talk for too long. Men are not women, and they don't like to be pestered all the time.

    I think you better have a good talk, tell him about your unhappiness, let him say what he thinks, in short, don't think about breaking up all of a sudden, I used to be like this. This is not right. Two people should be considerate of each other, don't just think of yourself, and don't stubbornly think that I have thought about him very much, in fact, two people are going to run in slowly when they are together.

    I wish you all happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can see how much you love him. From your words, I understand the behavior of a man who only has a little affection for you but does not talk about love at all. You're just a friend of the opposite sex who comes and goes, and you have a little space in his heart but it doesn't matter.

    If you can't find a love that you want, find someone who can love you. If you don't love someone who doesn't love you, but you love him, the harvest can only be scars.

    If you can afford to put it down, indecision can only make you more cowardly. The more cowardly you are, the more you will be hurt. Reality is not an idol drama, and stupidly waiting for an unacceptable result will only make people feel that you deserve it, maybe with some sympathy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My previous boyfriend was the same, I put up with him for three years and eventually broke up.

    A nervous man can't make you stable and happy, but you are so eager for a stable life, of course you can't follow him. It's about to be divided, why should you give him a good youth?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then let it go.

    In this love.

    You're already tired.

    You don't get the happiness you want.

    You have to understand what exactly you want.

    If he cares about you.

    How could he do that to you?

    Maybe he's just coping with you.

    Tired. Why drag your tired heart to continue to bear it.

    Otherwise, you'll only get more tired.

    In the end, I was tired and couldn't stand up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let it go, women have to love themselves.

    How can you love others if you don't even love yourself?

    Maybe the next person is more worthy of your love.

    Don't waste time and youth.

    Since he doesn't cherish you, let him know how sorry it is to lose you!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Just ask him, he's too hard to live.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You suffer as much as I do... It's uncomfortable.

    812285592 My QQ

    Can I add me, I want to talk to you about the same discomfort and pain.

    I'm also conflicting, this winter vacation is so hard, I'm about to break down.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Long-distance relationships are quite hard, and I know it very well. You've taken him as your all, and of course the sky is falling apart. The two of you don't communicate enough, and most of the reasons for long-distance relationships to separate are not enough communication.

    You should have your own life circle, your life should be to live to make yourself happy, girls should enjoy life more and love themselves more while they are young. If he doesn't love you anymore, you let it go. Feelings of sympathy are more painful.

    You should regain your life, be happy, let your own beauty bloom, and you will find that in fact, life is still very good, and your life is not only him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's right for you to let go, you fulfill him at the same time, but also fulfill yourself, this time will be very painful, but in the future, your life will be better, you will meet someone who truly loves you and can be by your side every day, it will definitely be.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You are really kind.

    Because of your long-distance relationship, you were taken advantage of by a third party, and there was no way, just because of the long-distance relationship.

    If you feel like he still loves you, then why not choose a way to be together.

    For example, if you go to his side or let him come to you, you have to live closer anyway. Only in this way can your love be preserved.

    If you really can't work or live in the same place, then I suggest you leave him decisively.

    Because even if this third party is not successful now, there will be many situations in the future. And in the early stage of the situation, you are not by his side and cannot stop it, and in the later stage, it will be difficult to clean up, and it will become the same as you think.

    Therefore, leaving him is the way to solve his pain, and it is also the way for you to stop worrying. It will be really uncomfortable to break up just now, but you have to understand that his love and life will become very good after that, and you can find a love and life that is more suitable for you, so you can be a little more relaxed.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Tell him how you feel, but tell him you don't do stupid things, but love is mutual, and does it make sense if it's just one person next to the other? It's not that you can't live without one person, there's always someone looking for you again, but he hasn't found you yet.

    Don't be so uncomfortable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, you should tell him where you stand and how you feel, and secondly, look at his reaction!

    If he really loves you, he will deal with this relationship decisively, and if he hesitates, then let it go......Twisted melons are not sweet!

    It's your turn and you'll come back, it's not your forcible demand, it's also a waste of energy and emotional ......Let it be......

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