Is the family happy with an only child? Are families with only children happier?

I think that the happiness of the family of an only child should also pay attention to the following issues, such as:

The lives of the elderly will become more and more lonely, and nowadays, many young people choose to work in big cities to gain more room for development. While their jobs are getting better and better, they are also far away from their parents. Some people are usually busy with work.

If they want to go home, they have to take a few days off. It was a hassle to get the bus back and forth. Many people can't go home once a year.

For the elderly, I hope that when I am old, my children will be with me. If there were only two elderly people in the family, my life would be more and more lonely.

There will be increasing pressure on children, and many families will consist of two only children. In the future, two people will need to support four elderly people. If the elderly are in good health, if the elderly are sick, the family will face a huge burden.

If both of them had to go to work, there would be no extra staff to take care of the elderly. Some of them come from better families and only face manpower problems. However, some of them have poor family conditions, not only are they understaffed, but they are also under great financial pressure.

If there is only one child in the family, there is no one to replace the child, and there is no one to share the pressure with him.

Many older people may face a loss of independence, and people don't know what to expect tomorrow. As the population ages, the loss of independence of the elderly is becoming more and more serious. For the elderly, this situation is also a psychological blow.

In old age, life is not only lonely in the heart, but also more and more lonely in the family atmosphere. Many children are becoming more and more indifferent to the concept of family affection, and many only children have no siblings at home, so family affection is very weak. When a person is spoiled by five or six years old and grows up, children will become more and more self-centered, and if they do not know how to consider the feelings of others, they will become more and more selfish.

Therefore, I think that the happiness of the only child family should also pay attention to the above issues, and the above is purely a personal opinion.

Families with only children are generally happy.

Family happiness has nothing to do with how many children there are.

Such a family is really not happy.

I think that's pretty happy.

A family with only one child will also be happy.

For those of us born in the 80s and after us in the 90s and 00s, the vast majority of people have grown up under the conditions of one-child families, and many people think that our children who grew up in one-child families are more lonely, because they have no brothers and sisters, but many people think that we are relatively happy, because we can get 100% love from our parents, but many times, for some children who are born in one-child pants, they get this 100% love, It may not be what they expect and yearn for in their hearts.

Because for many children who grow up in one-child families, although they can be taken care of and satisfied by their parents materially, and their parents often pour all their love into themselves, but for many only children, they often encounter certain difficulties in the process of growing up, that is, their parents often have too high expectations for themselves. They often exert a lot of influence and pressure, for example, they will try their best to let these children study hard, and a lot of learning content may not be what these only children like, but they will still force their children to learn, although for these parents, this is a 100% love, but for their children, such love is too heavy.

On the other hand, for many parents, their children are only children, so they will give 100% love to their children, but this 100% love will also become a kind of spoiling their children to a large extent, making mistakes, parents are reluctant to criticize education, but they do not realize that such love, such an education method is not conducive to the growth of their children, but will make their children in the future growth process will have a lot of problems, Even this kind of education will harm their children, so for only children, it is a good thing to be able to get 100% love from their parents, but for parents, they should also find a truly correct way to educate their children, and be able to love their children with a correct attitude, so that they are truly responsible for their children.

I think that the so-called 100% love of an only child comes from the fact that the parents give all the resources and time to the only child, so the only child will feel very happy, and because there is only one child in the family, the child is more likely to feel the love of his parents.

The social conditions of that generation were not good, and many of them ran around to eat enough, and when I was a child, I also felt that I had to eat several meals to prepare a piece of meat dipped in soy sauce. They live in such an environment, and then raise us, and develop the habit of frugality, everything is simple, and the food is also very poor, resulting in a large part of the body is now older and has a lot of problems with shouting cherry blossoms. If the family conditions of our generation are good, there will not be much burden in terms of finance, not in terms of physical, mental and financial burden, but we never know when the situation will get worse.

What it means to be an only child. You can't go to a distant place to work, you can't marry far away, and you can't do risky things easily; When climbing, avoid dangerous places; Go to the beach to play, while others are diving, wait on the shore.

Many people will encourage their parents to take them to exercise, control their diet, and have annual check-ups. Will you stick to doing well?

Compared to previous generations, the relationship between the one-child generation and their parents is more complex.

Going back and forth between love and responsibility, struggling with bonds. "There is love and selfishness for parents". Parents are getting older, and for us, "we need to be close to them to be reassured". As an only child, think about if you take your parents to live with you one day.

How many children can make a family happier? Single-child families are easy when they are young, and they are under great pressure to provide for their children when they are old. Personal advice is two of the best to be a companion.

1. The two children helped each other, and my best friend's brother got married, and she cried more than her parents that day. To put it mildly, when I was forty or fifty years old, my parents were old or even passed away, and I could only rely on myself, but my best friend also had a brother, and I could discuss with each other if I had problems. This is a common problem of only children, and our future cannot be relied on without a single wrong step.

2. The economic pressure on the child is small, and people have discussed such a question before, two post-90s only children get married, what is the difficulty in their future? The one with the highest support rate says this: two young people, with a basic salary, 4 elderly people above, 1-2 children below, plus themselves, that is, two people have to support 7-8 people.

A problem with any of these people means for the average family"Life collapses"。If it is two children, it can greatly reduce the financial pressure of the children, and the parents' pension can also have an additional guarantee. 3. Parents have a higher sense of happiness, and experts believe that this is because in a second-child family, it is easier for parents to find themselves"Supporters"。

The data shows that in second-child families, the probability of the elderly suffering from depression is one-third of that of the elderly in other model families, and the average life expectancy is long.

It is undeniable that a single-child family will have a happier childhood, because they are the only one who can enjoy the complete love of their family, and no one shares the love of their parents, but they will be under a lot of pressure when they grow up, because they have to support their partner's parents.

In many people's minds, a child in a one-child family can get 100% love. ......The reason for this is that the only child can receive all the care of his parents, the only child can receive all the protection of his parents, and the only child can have all the resources of life.

1. An only child can receive all the care and love from his parents.

There is only one child in a one-child family. ......Because of this, all the care and love of the parents is given to this child. This is the fundamental reason why an only child can get 100% love.

It is precisely because of all the care and love of the parents that the only child gets all the hearts of the parents, and this kind of heart is the most sincere love of the parents for their children.

2. Parents Kaiye Lao can protect the only child with a full square ridge spring.

As the only child in the family, the only child will naturally be valued by the parents. ......Because of this, parents devote all their energy to their only child and give him the fullest protection. ......For children, this kind of protection can obtain the most ideal growth environment, so that they can grow up and become talents as soon as possible, all of which are obtained under the wholehearted protection of parents.

This is also a concrete embodiment of the 100% love that an only child can get.

3. The only child has all the resources of family life.

Another concrete manifestation of the 100% love that an only child can get is that he can have all the resources of family life. ......This aspect is more impressive than the care, love and all-round protection of parents. ......Specifically, the living conditions of the only child are the most superior, and he can get everything in the family, whether it is food, clothing, housing and transportation, he has the most abundant resources.

It is precisely because of this performance that people will leave a deep impression that the only child has 100% love.

I envy those one-child families, who have all the love of their parents when they are young, and will not be ignored because they have brothers at home. After starting a family, with the help of your parents, you will not become a splash of water because you are a daughter.

The parents of the child's classmates are all one-child families, the conditions of the original family are good, and the elderly on both sides are reasonable. When it was time to buy a house in the school district, the elderly on both sides tried their best to scrape together the money. When the young couple quarrels, the old people on both sides educate their own children.

When their children were young, when they needed to take care of their children, the elderly on both sides took turns to help. The whole is relatively harmonious, and the family happiness is also very strong. They all stayed at their grandparents' house for one day and their grandparents' house for one day on weekends.

The newly bought school district house was bought near the house where I live now, so that all the elderly can be taken care of together in the future.

My cousin is also an only child, although she is a daughter, my uncle also buys a house and a car, helps with the baby, and helps them unconditionally.

Looking around, the only daughter family has good conditions, and she basically lives well. Therefore, the one-child policy at that time still allowed some girls to enjoy benefits, but with more brothers, this situation will definitely change.

1. All the love of your parents is yours, and all your parents' property is also yours, so you don't have to worry about the competition between your brothers and sisters and younger siblings.

2. Parents of boys marrying daughters-in-law will do their best to help, and girls don't have to worry about having no home to return to when they get married.

3. When I was a child, I was not bored or lonely at all, and I enjoyed all the love alone.

4. When my parents grow up, they begin to envy families with siblings. It's up to you to make the decision about everything. But if you enjoy everything, you have to bear everything. I didn't dare to get sick or stay too far away from my parents, and I was afraid that I would leave my parents with nothing to rely on, so I worked hard to make money.

Personally, I feel that the only child of Youmu is materially happy, but not necessarily spiritually happy! Because if he has brothers and sisters, he can get the company of his brothers and sisters, and the care of his brothers and sisters.

It is said that happiness and unhappiness complement each other. You get the love of your parents, but you don't feel the love of your siblings.

The only child is still too lonely, on the surface, the only child looks very glamorous, no one competes for favor, the whole family, including parents, all ask around you to be the center, but the real our hearts are lonely and empty, in fact, every only child is eager to have brothers and sisters.

In fact, every child is the heart of his parents, and he should have the love of Maesen! Your parents give unconditionally for you and don't ask for anything in return.

If you have siblings, that's good, and when you're lonely, at least someone is there for you.

When you are at the lowest point in your life, only your parents will always take care of you.

And in today's society, only children need to bear more pressure, greater responsibility, parents and other parents' families.

The overall feeling is that he is still an only child, and he is not too happy.