What do you think about boyfriends making three thousand dollars a month?

I don't think it matters how much you earn. Let's take a look at other people's opinions on how much their boyfriends earn. In the past time, there has always been some discussion about how much money a man earns to support his girlfriend.

In my opinion, a monthly salary cannot completely replace the judgment of whether a person is worth relying on or not. If love is all about money, then true love is hard to find.

Kobayashi. "My boyfriend earns 3,000 yuan a month, which is too little. If it were me, I would probably choose to break up with him.

The lack of money was not the main reason why I decided to break up, but with a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, I could see what kind of person he was. If you are new to society, your monthly salary is normal, but if you have worked for two or three years, your monthly salary will remain at this level. This means that the person either doesn't want to progress or messes around.

Either they are short-sighted and change jobs frequently. Not all of them are very happy with their current job and it will take a while to get used to. Some may be a year or two, while others will be longer.

However, in any case, they need to be steadfast. In short, I think that as long as he is stable and progressive, such a person has a lot of potential, even if his current salary is only 3,000 yuan. ”

Xiaofei. "I wouldn't choose to break up, earn more or earn less, I don't think that would be a reason to break up! Just like my boyfriend and me, with a monthly salary of over £6,000, we are still wealthy.

It could also be because we live in a fourth-tier city.

If you want to say you eat the most, it's eating. My boyfriend and I are very fond of eating. We're on the same page, haha.

Therefore, I personally believe that no matter how much money my boyfriend earns each month, as long as the two of them have the same interests and happiness. As for the future, we'll do it later. "So I don't think it matters how much I earn, I don't have any special opinions.

I think my boyfriend's income of 3,000 yuan a month is a bit small, because the family's expenses are too big and the expenses are very large, otherwise it will be very difficult in the future.

I think earning 3,000 yuan a month is a waste.

I think my boyfriend's 3,000 a month is too little.

I would definitely feel that he earns very little.

3000 dollars has the benefit of 3000 dollars.

Have your own bottom line and don't relax on everything.

Summary. My dear, the other party said this because he wanted to show off in front of others how good he was to you.

Why did my boyfriend and his friend say that they would spend 30,000 yuan a month on me, but in fact it was only a few thousand yuan, what is the psychology of saying this?

My dear, the other party said this because he wanted to show off in front of others how good he was to you.

My dear boyfriend also wants to show how good he is to you in front of his friends.

It's not good.

He said this to hide his bad treatment of me.

That's what you're talking about, my dear.

My dear flaunts himself so much, probably trying to save face for himself.

Honey is not good for you and probably doesn't want others to know.

Why don't you want others to know? Is he afraid that others will accuse him?

My dear will feel shameless if it is not good for you if people know it's not good.

It's to take the town and pretend to be affectionate, and I look very good to Lingyun, this thing was said to his friend after breaking up with me, do you want to express that I don't cherish him if I don't cherish him.

My dear, if the other party says this, he may feel that he is not wrong, and the problem is on your side.

To put it bluntly, he felt bad about me in his heart. But in front of others, he said that he was very good to me, but I didn't know how to cherish him.

My dear, what you said is exactly what she said, so what he meant was to be nice to you, he was not wrong, it was just that you did not value him.

yes, he said these things to his brother, and then Penah. I looked for him and he scolded me, I went to find his brother in **, his brother asked him to come and meet me, does it mean that he doesn't like me in his heart, he doesn't love Feng Envy to hold me, he has erased me, and completely gave up.

My dear, then if you say this to Song Sui Xiaofang, it will be a little difficult for you to let him admit this now, so the other party may not see you and may have a dissatisfaction with you in his heart.

Honey, so what do you think now? Do you still have feelings for him?

There is a big difference in income with her boyfriend, and I personally suggest that it is best not to continue, because there is a significant difference in the income of two people, which means that the daily consumption expenditure will be very different, and later there will be conflicts due to different consumption concepts, which will lead to friction between the two people in getting along and it is difficult to reach a consensus. Because this income problem runs through all aspects of two people's lives, it is better not to continue.

1.The view of money is different.

For couples, if the difference in income between the two parties is too large, the most obvious thing is that the two parties have different views on money, after all, income directly reflects the quality of life between couples. If the income disparity between the two parties is too large, it will lead to very different attitudes towards money. For example:

The party with a higher income will pay more attention to the sense of ritual in life and enjoy the best in all aspects; And the party whose income does not reach the income level of the other party will feel that spending money like this will be a bit extravagant and wasteful. When two people can't agree on the concept of money, then the relationship between the two people will be very tiring to maintain, because the income is not equal, so that the two people's view of money cannot be on the same level.

2.There are differences in consumption concepts.

In a relationship, if the income gap between the two parties is large, it means that the consumption philosophy between the two people is different. As the saying goes: high income means a high-quality, high-level and high-consumption life, and different incomes will directly affect the quality of couples' dating.

For example, when going on a date, one party wants to enjoy a romantic candlelit dinner, but the other party thinks that it is just a date, there is no need to be so extravagant, it is better to have a simple meal. Then in the end, there must be someone who compromises between the two, either to cater to the empty sail and go to eat Western food, or to lower the grade and eat a simple meal.

Either way, it won't be too comfortable for either of them.

After all, couples should also pay attention to the balance of consumption concepts, if the consumption concept is the same, everyone will get along very happily; If the difference is too great, it will make everyone feel that they are not happy to get along.

3.It is easy to have conflicts due to consumption habits.

In a relationship, if the income gap is too large, it will naturally be difficult for both parties to understand each other's consumption habits. Because the income level of couples corresponds to different consumption habits. For the high-income party, the usual consumption habits have been determined by their own income level, no matter what they do, they are not likely to consider the problem of more money and less money; For the low-income side, because their own income is not high, they will generally be more frugal in daily consumption and will be very concerned about the expenditure of money.

I think if the income difference between me and my boyfriend is too large, it is recommended not to consider continuing, because if the income gap between the two cannot be eliminated, it will be difficult for the two to reach a consensus on consumption, so it will be difficult to understand each other and it will be difficult to maintain.

I accept. As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this sense of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said: The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, I only think they are noisy. Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad to serve you, your boyfriend is 8000 a month, you only have 4000 a month, your boyfriend wants to ask you for 2000, whether the two rent a house together, who will pay for the two of them to live together, eat and travel together, after all, most of the expenses will be on him, then go out to eat and consume, you can't always let you spend money, so that outsiders look as if the man is eating soft rice, after all, the man wants a face outside.

My boyfriend's salary is 8,000 yuan a month, I only have 4,000 yuan a month, why is the salary more than half a month, and I still ask me to give 2,000 yuan?

Hello, I'm glad to serve you, your boyfriend is 8000 a month, you only have 4000 a month, your boyfriend wants to ask you for 2000, whether the two rent a house together, who will pay for the two of them to live together, eat and travel together, after all, most of the expenses will be on him, then go out to eat and consume, you can't always let you spend money, so that outsiders look as if the man is eating soft rice, after all, the man wants a face outside.

I have to buy everything for renting a house, buying groceries, and daily necessities.

This time I went home for the New Year, I was asked for money, my boyfriend didn't spend a penny on me, and he always said in front of me that he had no money to owe others money, and he didn't feel like he was lying to me.

Then you can find out how your boyfriend's property is distributed, and you really should understand your situation, otherwise you will always overdraft your property, and the family will not leave money, which is not the attitude of living.

In this society now, 3000 yuan does not seem to be a lot, if you remove the living expenses, there is not much left in a month, so it is understandable that you ask this question, it is possible that you like this boy very much, but his monthly salary is only 3000, you may worry that the life of the two of you together will be more difficult, so you will ask such a question, but I think the situation is different, and the result should be different.

First of all, this boy now has a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, so it has just joined the work, or has been working for many years, if a person has just graduated from college and just joined the work, 3,000 yuan is also understandable, I think my boyfriend just worked when the salary was more than 1,000 yuan, but after his own slow efforts, now he can also earn more than 10,000 yuan a month, and the two of us also have a very happy family, so if he is just starting out, it is a stage of learning, You can't expect him to make a lot of money right away, but if the guy has been working for many years, and the colleagues who came out with him may have changed from 3,000 to 7,800, or 12,000, and he is still stuck at 3,000, he may have some problems with his personal ability, or he may not work so hard.

At the same time, you also have to look at your own conditions, if you are also a girl with a monthly salary of two or three thousand, then you can't expect to find a boyfriend with a monthly salary of 30,000, because everyone has to choose a boyfriend who is similar to their own ability, I think finding a boyfriend must be love first, if the two of you really love each other, you will definitely believe in each other, then if this boy really likes you, he will also work hard for the future of the two of you.

But if you are also relatively strong and earn a lot, it is understandable that you want to find a boyfriend with the same ability as yourself, so the results are different under different conditions, if you really like him, you must appreciate him, and you will definitely not appreciate a man who does not know how to be motivated. In today's society, as long as two people work together, they will definitely have a relatively good life.

Yes, because when I first started with my boyfriend, he only had a salary of more than 2,000 yuan a month, but what I valued was his self-motivation and hard work, and the low salary was only temporary.

If it was just a boyfriend, I would. After all, falling in love and getting married are two different things, and if you get married, it is not enough for the other party to only have three thousand, unless I am a rich woman.

Three thousand dollars is not enough in everyday life, but if that man is good to me and at the same time a motivated person. In addition to work, I will continue to study and recharge, but I will still choose him.