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1. A 30-year-old woman is too demanding, so it is not easy to marry. Girls in their teens and 20s may not have so many requirements for affection, they feel that they like someone to be with him, and they don't think too much about it. And women in their 30s have been out to work hard for several years, and they feel the hardships in life.

They also know that being with a person is not just as simple as having feelings, and they understand that two people living together also need to consider other aspects, such as each other's two families, as well as the concepts of two people, and each other's strength, these aspects will be considered.

Women in their 30s have high requirements for men, and many men have no way to meet the requirements of a 30-year-old woman, so it is difficult for women to marry after the age of 30.

Second, a 30-year-old woman pays more attention to the external conditions of the other party, rather than just pursuing love, so it is not easy to marry. Women in their 30s are no longer so yearning for love, they just want to find a down-to-earth person to marry, or find someone who can provide them with a good life to marry, although they also pay attention to the eye when looking for a partner, but they will also pay more attention to some other external things, such as a house, a car, and the strength of that person. A 30-year-old woman will ask more when talking about a partner, so it is not easy to marry.

Third, a 30-year-old woman has no advantage over a young girl in her 20s, so it is not easy to marry. There is no way to compare a 30-year-old woman with a little girl in her 20s in terms of appearance, and a woman in her 30s has gradually more wrinkles on her face, and she has become dull and has no vitality of a young girl. Most men will like young girls, so it is difficult for a 30-year-old woman to marry.

What do you think about the topic that women are not good at marrying after the age of 30?

30-year-old women live a more realistic life, they know what kind of life they want, if they don't have money and a good material life, they won't choose to marry each other.

It is the aging of the face, which looks too mature, not as innocent and cute as when it was young, and the temperament is also very different.

Because 30-year-old women have experience, they are also more realistic, if they don't have a house, a car and savings, they will not get married.

A 30-year-old woman has a lot of unrealistic ideas and a more ambivalent mentality, both wanting to find a good home and unwilling to give up the romantic ideas in her heart, so she is always high or low.

A 30-year-old woman has relatively high requirements for marriage, but her own conditions are not so good, so she is always high or low.

Mainly because the 30-year-old woman herself is very mature, so she is not so romantic, and it is also relatively deep.

Most of the women who are not married at the age of 30 are very demanding and do not match their own conditions, so this situation will occur.

There are two groups of people who say this.

One is a single, poor and short man, creating this sense of panic will make many girls start to be very anxious when they are about twenty-seven or eighteen years old, and then rush to the doctor in a hurry, and lower their requirements to marry themselves.

There is also a kind of people who are elderly women, you preceded their era, this age is indeed relatively large, and these people's thoughts, no, with the times of the times, will have such arguments.

And the men who have already married Zheng Zhen and the vast majority of women do not have such thoughts.

1) Traditional thinking imprisons some men's correct perception of women; 2) Serious sexist attitudes are at work. As we all know, this is an era that advocates late marriage and late childbearing, not only men will feel that marriage is a burden when their careers are unsuccessful; Women will also feel that it is better not to think about marriage when they have achieved nothing. For this reason, many aspiring men and women, after graduating from college, choose to start a business first and then start a family.

However, when a woman is really thirty years old, her career has improved to a certain extent, and she has the idea of getting married, and when she comes into contact with the opposite sex, she finds that she is standing at the lowest end of the blind date chain.

Therefore, I want to say to those older unmarried women who have been delayed by their studies, careers, and ex: face those men who despise you, directly despise them, and don't lose confidence in love, you can finally meet a man who doesn't mind your age and appreciates you, and that person is your true destiny. 

It is not difficult for girls to marry after the age of 30, but there are fewer choices than before. Marrying someone is just marrying someone who loves each other, sometimes age, just a number, in order to have a happy home, find someone who loves each other, it is worth it to be over 30 years old!

Some people get married in their teens, some people get married in their forties, there are happy and unhappy, so whether they are happy or not, what age to marry is not the key, the key is to find someone who likes each other, and the key is to form a family and live happily is the key.

Under normal circumstances, urban girls marry later than in rural areas, with different life rhythms, living environments, and social ranges, and their visions, marriage and love views, and a slightly larger controllable range than rural girls.

Rural girls generally get married a little earlier, because rural areas generally marry a little earlier, and they are of the same age, and those with excellent conditions generally marry early. There are still more elite boys and girls left in the cities than there are leftover men and women in the countryside, which is also a true portrayal of the real society.

Therefore, there are few choices for people over thirty, and marriage and love are scheduled in the morning.

Don't focus on your career anymore, love should come as soon as possible!

Who said it mainly depends on whether you want to fall in love and get married. Getting married and having children is just the end, many people always want to hit the goal directly without paying, how can there be such a good thing in the world. Planting crops also has a process of planting in spring and harvesting in autumn, and it is necessary to constantly take care of the fields.

Therefore, it is difficult to marry at the age of 30 are all lies and excuses woven by those who are not emotionally serious, do not think, and do not pay, and whoever wants to believe it is really stupid. Believe in yourself, cultivate your feelings, stick to your values and bottom line, that's all.

In fact, this is a situation, if it is in the countryside, it is really difficult for girls over 30 years old to marry, and the reason is estimated to be known to many people; If you are 30 years old in a big city, you will not get married at all. There's something wrong with that.

Due to the special situation in rural areas, about 20 people who don't go to college are generally married, and even if they don't get married, they will be married within 3 years of going out to work. Above 30 is an older leftover woman, a young man in his 20s or so can't look down on you, and a bachelor in his forties or fifty or a second marriage you can't look down on, so it's difficult to marry. And the city is different, now the bigger the city left the age of the talent to start older, generally graduate 25-26, work for two or three years to 30, single men and women are the same age, the bigger the city, the less difficult to marry, and the later to get married.

This is just a trend in our country in the general environment, and it is related to all aspects of society.

In any case, I still think that when you don't find your other half, you should work hard to improve yourself, make yourself an excellent person, and find the excellent person who belongs to you.

The reason why it is difficult for girls to marry after the age of 30 is probably because they have become very capable of being able to gain a foothold in society, and then have a stable salary, have a stable income, and be able to support themselves, and then their standard of choosing a mate may be a little higher, and then there are no people in society who meet them, so it is difficult for them to marry.

After a woman reaches the age of 30, the range of mate selection is getting narrower and narrower, and when a man reaches the age of 30, he can find a girl who is a few years younger than himself to a girl who is more than 10 years old, but it is impossible for a woman to find a man who is much younger than herself, because she has no sense of security. Most women can only find men older than themselves, while most of the men who are 30+ have families, and it is rare for women to find suitable men.

So, when a woman is of marriageable age and meets a suitable man, don't let go, as long as it is a potential stock and the three views match you, you can consider getting married. Don't be too demanding on material things, sometimes, money can only buy a house, but not love and marriage.

The older and more mature a woman is, the less likely it is that love at first sight will happen, and when she reaches a certain age, she will be clearer about what she wants. It is impossible to say that it is not material.

Saying all day long that you can do anything but love, that's what only eighteen or twenty-year-old girls do, the more mature people are, the less courage they have to go forward to pursue love;

The longer a person lives, the more worries he has, and the older he gets, the harder it is to find a suitable partner.

And while it is becoming more and more difficult for you to find a suitable man, men are also picking on you, and men from twenty to eighty only like eighteen-year-old women.

But can you think that almost half of the people in their thirties, forties, and even fifties are between the ages of 21 and 29?

The older a woman is, the less dominant she is.

But this is only for ordinary women, we can see that many women in their thirties and forties marry much better than little girls.

After the woman is 30, he still has a lot of changes. First of all, the first point is that he will no longer be as irrational as before, he must be more rational. And then there's a man, if he's going, he's going to think about everything, so he's definitely going to be a little more demanding when it comes to choosing a mate.

As early as in terms of appearance, a three-year-old woman must have some aging. Even more so if the protection is not good.

The person who said this used the girl as a fertility tool. Women in our country have long been liberated, and now women not only have their own jobs, but also have their own careers, they have generally received higher education, have their own ideas and happy life concepts, dare to pursue their own happiness, bravely walk out of the narrow family, no longer be housewives, no longer revolve around men, and can have a happy and beautiful life on their own. It is old to say that it is difficult for girls to marry after 30.

In fact, I very much agree with this sentence, because the fact is that women are not worried about getting married, nor can they get married at any time, some people or things, once missed, they will definitely regret it for a lifetime, just like a woman's marriage, if you don't prepare early and choose well, then in the end you will get married, and you will regret it for a lifetime.

Perhaps in reality, people often say to you, "In today's society, there are more men and fewer women, so women can choose at will, and there is no need to worry at all." But in fact, in reality, the number of single men and the number of single women are not much different at all, because most women ignore one thing, that is, in men's choice of women, not only women in our country, they can also choose women in poor countries, so the number of men and women is naturally balanced.

So, I hope that women don't have any sense of superiority in this matter, because these things may really make you regret it for the rest of your life. Men and women are completely different things, because men's charm can often get older and older as they get older, while women's charm will only get smaller and smaller as they get older, so for marriage, men can afford to wait, but women can't wait, so for marriage, women should be more serious and cautious.

In our current era, there are actually not a few women who have not married at the age of 30, and there are many reasons for this, which cannot be simply considered to be caused by personal reasons. There may be several reasons for this:

The first is the issue of age, there is a saying that youth is capital, many men will prefer to choose some young and beautiful women when choosing objects, not only because many of our men are visual animals, the main reason is that youth is capital.

The second point is the traditional prejudice of men, men will also look at a traditional concept when facing 30-year-old women, thinking that women are not married at the age of 30 There must be some bad reasons for themselves. In addition, women's mate selection criteria are also one of the reasons, and many women always adhere to their own mate selection criteria in the mate selection process.

Because there are no more than two points for people who are not married at the age of 30, the first is that the requirements are high and have been delayed until now. The second is that at the age of 30, it can be said that he has passed puberty, and he has no advantages in terms of physical appearance or childbirth.

Therefore, many men basically do not give priority to 30-year-old women when choosing, because there are younger women to choose from, why choose older leftover women?

In fact, it can be seen from the example of my best friend that a 30-year-old woman will be picky, so I advise twenty-six or seven-year-old "little" girls not to always think about the good behind, the blind date may not give you the sweetness of love, but the relationship can really be cultivated, as long as he has a good personality, motivated, and you have the right personality for each other, don't pursue any vigorous love.

Many girls will feel that their conditions are good, but after being rejected many times on a blind date, they will begin to become inferior, begin to doubt themselves, and begin to need to be recognized by others. Generally, 30-year-old women have met several times, rejected others, and have been rejected by others, and must have suffered a lot of blows.

For those 30-year-old women who are hit by a blind date, her inner changes will change from feeling good at the beginning to being very bad, and she will begin to deny the conditions that she thought was good before. Girls who are not firm in their hearts even have a tendency to collapse in their outlook on life and values.

Most women still yearn for love, and when love is ignorant, the requirement for feelings is to like it. After entering the society, I hope to meet someone who can share the ups and downs. When you choose to get married, you want your partner to be good to you, your family, and even love yourself more than anything else.

But 30-year-old women may be past the age of chasing after the dust and seeking love, they just want to find someone who is comfortable with them, but this requirement is very vague, they don't like it and are unwilling to compromise, which is the situation of common girls in Yeqi now.

Why is it so difficult for a 30-year-old woman to succeed on a blind date? In fact, there is another reason for the anxiety of the woman herself.

When many women reach the age of 30, they will have an urgent mood to marry themselves, become anxious and uneasy, and once they fall into anxiety, they are easy to make wrong choices.

We need to know what the purpose of marriage is, to be able to have a warm home when you are working outside the home and suffering and suffering. When you are helpless and lonely, there is someone around you who is willing to accompany you. When you are bullied, there are people who are willing to do it for you.

When you're in the rain, someone is willing to throw an umbrella for you. A good marriage is one that complements each other and grows together.

So you have to take the initiative to get out of your comfort zone, don't just focus on blind dates, attend more parties, meet more like-minded friends, see more of the outside world, broaden your horizons, and broaden your network.