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There are too many people who don't work hard and don't make others good. In our local parlance, such people hate the rich and hate the poor. It's the result of jealousy.
People with this kind of psychology and behavior, see is a typical villain! How scary are villains? I've seen people kill people because they're doing better than themselves.
He himself was sentenced to death and shot, but he seemed to be fine, with a smile on his face, and killed innocent people like an enemy with a deep hatred in the sea of blood! The jealousy has reached such a point, which is appalling. However, not all villains dare to kill people who are better off than themselves, but they will always find ways to take revenge and vent their anger, such as all kinds of troublemakers, obstructions, bad people and good deeds.
This phenomenon is not uncommon, and it is also the most common around us. Of course, there are tricks to make trouble, after all, they are limited, and people who have achieved great things will never retreat because of the small twists and turns deliberately created by small people. Another example is spreading rumors and slander, wishing that others would be ruined and make big jokes.
Such people are not uncommon around us. In short, they have only one purpose, to make you feel bad!
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Actually, I don't work hard. At the same time, people who are worried about others surpassing themselves. Such people abound in our lives.
It's just that some people have replaced this phenomenon with a surface that we can't quite notice. Like those classmates you study with. Some of your classmates you watch him play all day long.
And then what? His academic performance is good. At the same time, while he was playing with you, he also laughed at those, you see I don't study anything, I just studied in a surprise during the time when the exam was about to be.
You see, I'm still overtaking them very quickly. In fact, this part of the classmates, if he is not really very bright-minded. You don't know what he's doing behind his back, except he's still studying after that.
He just wants to use this superficial deception to tell you that you are just mentally retarded. At the same time, he also used his deceptive means to show his own retardation. Of course, when I say that, you will definitely think that he has worked hard like this, that you have exceeded this category.
That is to say, he does not work hard in this category. Actually, if you think about it, he does it, and he himself, do you think his efforts are really hard work? I think if he is not in the right state of mind, his efforts are themselves a kind of pseudo-effort.
That's it, it's not actually trying to do it itself. However, he uses the way he doesn't work hard to hinder others from trying. So you can think about people like this, but they're not terrible.
They're actually a very poor bunch of people. Because he wasted his energy on this deception. If he is purely not striving.
He also worries about others overtaking him. Then he is not only boring, but he can also declare very openly that this kind of person is called a pig, but he does not have a pig in the animal kingdom, so it is useful, I just don't want to use scolding to say this. Use an ending animal to tell you what happens to this kind of person.
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Jealousy, everyone has it, you can't get it, and naturally you don't want others to get it, if you make such a friend, congratulations, you are looking at the wrong person. In the final analysis, it is the garbage man theory, cherish life and stay away from garbage people.
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Everyone has their own inherent habits, personalities, and ways of thinking, and sometimes, it is difficult or even impossible to change others. But we have the freedom to choose friends, and for those who do not agree with our own ideas, it is good to stay away, and then, be ourselves. Although this road may be difficult, in today's era of information, only lifelong learning can lead to lifelong growth, and growth is naturally accompanied by the realization of personal value and the advent of a better life!
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Such people are somewhat psychologically distorted, unable to think normally, and unable to treat others kindly. The so-called open guns are easy to dodge and dark arrows are difficult to defend, knowing that there are such people around them, only I have to be more guarded.
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Being jealous or some kind of unbalanced emotion in his heart leads to a strong hatred of him, and even if you don't do anything to you anymore, he still wants to take revenge and can't see you!
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When you meet a villain, you can dodge and dodge, if you can't dodge, don't provoke them, once you can't dodge, you can't avoid it, just declare war, and tear your face with the villain in the public scene, and if he wants to slander you in front of others in the future, others won't believe it.
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I want to express my opinion, there is no big deal in the world, think more from other people's point of view, you will find that many times those problems do not exist! People are often accustomed to thinking about problems from their own point of view, so they often give unsatisfactory answers.
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In life, we often meet many kinds of people, some who work hard, and some who are lazy. But there is a kind of person who does not work hard himself, and does not let others work hard. Then when we meet this kind of person, we are generally very disgusted, but we have to look at each other with a normal heart.
In fact, in life, if others don't work hard, it has nothing to do with themselves. The efforts of others have nothing to do with themselves. But as good friends, we should encourage others to become a positive person.
But there are often some people who don't work hard themselves and don't let others work hard, so this kind of person is very annoying.
In my college days, there was such a person, who didn't work hard by himself or let others work hard, and he was very lazy, never studied, and played games after class. But when he sees others studying, or working hard, he will show a very jealous and helpless expression, and he is not used to watching others study.
So this kind of person is very selfish and very annoying. Although he is not used to seeing other people's efforts, others do not support him and do not approve of him in their hearts, but we generally do not show it.
So what should we do when we encounter this situation in life, first of all, we must look at each other rationally, even if the other party does not support us to learn, and we are not used to seeing ourselves working hard, then we still have to respect each other. But we can keep it in our hearts and not show it, because we don't have to quarrel, we don't need to hurt each other, we just need to do our own things well, do our jobs well, then we are perfect.
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This kind of person really deserves to be scolded by others, because they are the kind of people who can't see the good of others, and they are too lazy to take action but look down on the efforts of others, so they begin to obstruct in every way and pour cold water on the momentum of others. I feel that this kind of person can't be a friend, because there is no room for improvement with him.
Don't say anything, if you are strong-willed, you are not afraid of other people's interference. Because this is almost non-existent in real life, a person needs a quiet space when he is working hard. Imagine if you are doing something seriously, there is always someone around you who is chattering and deliberately talking to you, and it is strange that you don't get mad.
And in the eyes of people like them, they have nothing to think about others, because what he does is a manifestation of selfishness. In order to reassure his depravity and laziness, he wants to find someone to drag him into the water, and you are unfortunately his target. You know, if you keep messing around with him, you're going to end up with nothing, and you're not as good as you used to be.
So, I hate this kind of person very much, and I want to get rid of this kind of person from my life. However, there are so many such people in life, almost everyone will have one or two around them, so for them, we just need to ignore them. When he makes those excessive demands, he directly treats him as if he does not exist, ignoring all his practices.
Or you can find another quiet place to do your own thing, away from him. Always think about your goals and pursuits, and keep yourself in the original trajectory of life.
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First of all, I would like to say that the way of such a person is extremely wrong and extremely stupid, because he does not work hard himself, and he still has to lead others to fall with him, which is undoubtedly the most vicious practice.
In our lives, we often meet such a person, this is because he himself is not enterprising, not motivated, and has no confidence in fighting for a thing at all, and even some things he doesn't even try, just say that he can't do it, and then repeatedly persuade others that he can't do that thing, so that he doesn't try again, and after stifling other people's confidence and dreams, he is complacent over there.
I can only say that such a person, he is in a state of mind that even if he fails, he can't let others succeed, first of all, he must be, thinking that he can't eat grapes and saying that grapes are sour, if he can never succeed in a thing, then he will take the initiative to give up that thing, if he sees someone around him who is trying as hard as him to fight for a thing, then he will be next to him to incite him to give up those things, so that he feels that since he can't complete a thing, that person must not be able to do it.
This is a psychological comfort method for losers, that is, if he can't succeed in something, then what qualifications and abilities does others have to do that thing well?
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