How to choose 30, how to choose

Do you seriously think about whether you really like that guy, or just because of vanity, compare your boyfriend with him, which is more important in your heart, you must think clearly before choosing This kind of thing must be decided immediately, and dragging it is a harm to everyone

If you really don't love your boyfriend as much as the boy you once liked, then I will support what you want in your heart, because not everyone will meet the person they like and love very much, we are still young, and we can let us choose what we want willfully!

You and your boyfriend, don't want both, then you must give up one of them, right, to say that we are not suitable, now love, I think everyone is ready to break up at the beginning.

I think if you can always be by your side, love you, and take care of you, you will choose which. If the one you choose is not with you, it will be harder for you.

From the question you said, I found that you love the boy you used to do more, since this is the case, don't use the excuse of having a boyfriend now to escape, love someone you love, right?

Learn about their parents in the family from the side, and choose which one is easy to get along with.

When we are faced with a choice, we can consider the following aspects:

1.Goal: first clarify your specific goals, and determine the direction of choice according to the goals, such as whether it will help achieve the goals;

2.Prospects: Compare the prospects of the options, weigh the pros and cons, see which option is more beneficial to you, and also consider the long-term;

3.Resources: Compare the amount of resources required for the option, such as time, money, energy, manpower, etc., to see if you can afford it;

4.Beliefs: Decide according to your own values and beliefs, such as whether you are in line with your own life philosophy, moral standards, etc.

To sum up, when choosing, you should remain calm and rational, think and analyze comprehensively, and comprehensively consider all aspects of factors to make the right decision

Judging from your previous description, this girl wants to keep her distance from you, but after all, she is not in the same department, and there are not many opportunities and time to get along, and she lacks to increase understanding and communication. You need to find ways to strengthen communication and establish common hobbies and voices. If you work hard and don't succeed in the end, you have to accept it calmly, after all, feelings can't be forced.

But you have to persevere, you have to work hard to pursue it.

I think she behaves quite contradictory, a bit like hanging on you, sometimes she will accept gifts when you give her, but keep her distance. Or maybe she has a little bit of a crush on you right now, but she doesn't fully accept it. And she shouldn't like the blind date very much, you try to confess, see if she accepts or rejects, if she accepts it, it should mean that to you, this is not the best of both worlds, if you refuse then she is hanging on you, it is recommended to give up.

If you like it so much, then be brave and ask her out and sincerely say what you think, but maybe you are not quite the type she likes, otherwise it is impossible not to give you a chance without a boyfriend Anyway, try it Save yourself from thinking crankily and make it clear If the other party clearly vetoes and then gives up, you won't regret trying.

When we are faced with a choice, it is best to consider it by following these steps:

1.Clarify the goals and criteria for selection, and list the advantages and disadvantages of different options.

2.Compare the pros and cons of different options according to your personal circumstances and needs, and determine which one is more in line with your personal ideals and actual needs.

3.After weighing the pros and cons, make a decision and take responsibility for your choice.

Before making a decision, it is best to weigh the returns of different efforts, and evaluate the wind in the same way

If you say so, you should give up, if you even talk and keep your distance, you can see that she is not interesting to you. As for her coming back to chat with you, I personally think it's possible that she sees that you are going to give up and wants to hang you, creating a status quo that someone is pursuing.

Your example actually proves that she doesn't like you, but it's not so easy to pursue someone, it's too easy to believe, you may not cherish it, if you really like someone, don't be afraid of setbacks, if you really like her, keep up the good work, I wish you success.

Big brother, she hangs you like this, using you as a substitute, you pick out her words, look at her attitude! Those who have come have said that if you keep interrupting, you will suffer from it. Good luck!

Maybe she's hanging you, I think you can confess directly and see if she likes you.

I don't think you should give up, since she has a blind date in her hometown, she can still chat with you, but don't have too much hope, take it easy, don't care too much about gains and losses.

If you continue like this, why can't you ask yourself? You just want to find out about his specific situation, just ask him how the blind date is? Why are you so restrained just because you are restrained?

So he also restrained you from being like a man, what do women say?