Is it happiness to accept him, and can you accept the happiness of others?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because I'm scared of being hurt by love, I have a sense of vigilance about love in my heart, and I'm used to closing myself off, and I can't open my heart to love like I used to.

    True love will not be weakened by distance, nor will it be forgotten by the passage of time.

    I think what you need to do now is not accept or give up, but wait.

    Wait for the day he gives up, or the day you fall in love with him.

    Don't accept Him for your own happiness, as you fear, if you never fall in love with Him, will your future be as happy as you are now?

    And don't give up on him for the sake of his future, maybe for him, the one who can make him happy is you and his future. If he can make this idea clear, then he will wait until the day you promise him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm pretty much the same as my girlfriend, I love her a lot, I take good care of her, and I'm good to her!!

    But now that we have broken up, I tried my best to redeem it before the breakup, and I was completely submissive and endured everything, but I still broke up, and I was ready to go far away just to forget!!

    I don't know what it means to see this post at this time, maybe I will miss him as much as I do, but feelings can't be forced!!

    Think it out for yourself!! If you regret it after you say yes, it's hurt!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    ..What's not enough love drops. Love is love.

    Why is there always an age gap when it comes to relationships? 30-year-old drops can marry 50-year-old drops, because they love with their hearts.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Age is not a problem, you must have him in your heart, at least you don't hate him,

    You love the feeling of being with him, and I think you'll be happy together

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't think you can love, don't.

    Suppose you don't want to go on like this.

    Then there is only one explanation: that you don't love him very much.

    Or don't love him at all.

    A person who doesn't love him very much can't give the other party much happiness.

    Just like me! I was like you when I got married.

    My wife is also 3 years older than me.

    I felt the same way, and I decided that I had to be with him.

    But now I feel the other way around.

    I can't give him much happiness at all.

    I'm not saying you have to choose not to love.

    I mean you can choose love.

    But you have to be sure when the relationship is.

    When it is set before you. When the relationship is facing a broken situation.

    You guys. Can the relationship between the two before they get married. Keep your love at once.

    Use this to decide whether to love or not to love.

    I'll send you 4 words!

    It's you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since he thinks about you every day.

    It shows that he cares about you very much.

    He may not have wanted to go to work in the field, but perhaps there were other reasons.

    In short, if you really like him, you should tell him.

    After all, the two are not in the same place, so the time for contact will be relatively small.

    If it goes on like this for a long time, it may fade away.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's useless for us to say that time will prove if you really love him, you will definitely miss him! If you miss him, go find him and come back! Live a good life together, it's not easy for a man to do this

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you don't love him, let him go, and the long pain is better than the short pain. Let you all be free, he may only know blind love at a young age now, maybe you will miss him and fall in love with him after you let him go. Give yourself a chance and give others a chance.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You have a question in your heart, do you see him as a younger brother, you forget your age to look at it, if it doesn't work, you don't love him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is happier to choose to be loved.

    Age is not the key issue!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can make him your own brother.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Everyone's feelings about happiness are different, the degree of understanding and acceptance is different, you want to be happy, then Liang does which is in you have experienced a lot of effort and dedication, you get what you want, of course, what I said is only through the right means, then people must be fulfilled, to know that life is a kind of happiness, each of us Hu Song people have the meaning of existence, for people around people and strangers, at this time you are happy, treat anyone around us well, with your actions to infect the world, Although the reality of society has given us a big blow. We can't go wrong with it. Be a good person right!

    Be happy for yourself and be happy for others and let others be happy, oh!

    In fact, happiness is very simple, as long as you seriously appreciate the bits and pieces of life. Happiness will always surround you. Happiness is not something you deliberately pursue. It's a mediocre accumulation of life.

    Happiness is giving.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Happiness is a feeling Happiness is not the same as love and affection Happiness is happiness Everyone is not ruined by happiness A definite answer Happiness is happiness What is happiness This is a bend of the question "What is the meaning of life" Happiness is the combination of receiving and giving.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I accept. As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

    If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

    As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

    Each type of person has its own sense of happiness, and I think this sense of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said: The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, I only think they quarrel before the trip. Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

    However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

    1. Most of the time, we don't care about the feelings of strangers, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, we may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight that you feel in your heart is indescribable.

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