I can t handle my relationship with my classmates here.

The love of classmates may be deeper than the love of brothers, although classmates have only been in the past few years, but this friendship is deep, in difficult times, the only ones who will really try their best to help each other may be classmates.

Maintaining friendly ties between classmates is an investment in the future. "A big meeting every ten years, a small meeting a year", class reunions can best deepen the relationship between classmates, usually play **, meet and chat, you might as well talk about private things that can be revealed, so as to appear sincere, eliminate estrangement. When classmates are in difficulty, sometimes they need to take the initiative to help, usually have some small contradictions, learn to suffer a little loss, make some concessions, and send a favor to each other, so that not only the feelings of classmates will be stronger, but if you have something in the future, everyone will definitely support.

Maintain friendly contact with classmates, handle the interests and conflicts between classmates, and believe that this relationship will not be limited by time and space, and this friendship will become an inexhaustible resource.

Like you, I feel that way, I am like that because of my own character, I like the loneliness of being alone, I like the taste of loneliness.

If you want to deal with them (her) well, you must first learn to understand them (her), when they (she) need help, you will help them unconditionally, let them (her) understand you more, only mutual understanding can be sincere.

1 Be sincere.

Any relationship is sincere, and if the relationship loses sincerity, it is not an emotion. Treat your classmates sincerely, then your classmates will treat you sincerely. Then the friendship can continue.

2 Learn to help each other.

Actively help students to establish a high prestige in the group. When students are in difficulty, we should extend a hand of friendship and take the initiative to help students solve difficulties, even if we can't help solve them, as long as we are willing to listen to our classmates' complaints about their difficulties or pain, this is also help. Because the difficulties of the outside world are temporary, the pain of the heart.

But the suffering is long-lasting. It is said that if a person tells others about his pain, then his pain will be reduced to only half of the original pain. Those who only know how to bury their heads in their studies all day long, refuse the help of their classmates under various excuses, and regard the help of their classmates as a pure burden and a waste of their time, they will slowly be snubbed among their classmates, they refuse to help their classmates, and as a result, they will not get help from everyone.

3 Fight. Communicate more.

Don't avoid communication because you have some misunderstandings, but take the initiative to communicate with everyone and participate in everyone's discussions and activities. Only in this way can we better understand ourselves and others, eliminate misunderstandings between each other, and strengthen mutual understanding and trust.

1) The first impression is the first impression, if the first impression is not good, it will be twice as difficult to get along with classmates. If you want to get along well with your classmates, you must leave a good impression in the hearts of your classmates, which is not a matter of good grades and family background, but you must be able to get along well and be friendly.

2) Responsible, a responsible person is easy to convince people no matter what kind of environment they are in, and they will unconsciously make people close to you.

3) Change yourself, when your relationship with your classmates has deteriorated to the point where you can't get along well, you have to change yourself, of course, for the better, which may not be accepted at first, but it will always succeed.

It is to have a forgiving heart. Personal ideological views and living habits are cultivated over more than ten years, and they cannot be changed in a day or two, and it will be important to maintain tolerance among classmates;

It's about being good at communicating with each other. When encountering problems, students sit down with each other, calmly express their opinions and ideas, and everyone has a full discussion together, and on the basis of taking a step back, they form a unified opinion, set the rules that everyone must abide by, and supervise according to these rules;

It's about learning to respect others. Being respected is a kind of psychological satisfaction that any human being needs. Tolerance is the starting point of respect. Other people's ideas, other people's practices, and other people's habits should be respected.

The love of classmates is one of the three major loves in life, which is worth cherishing. To get along with classmates, you must first be sincere and treat everyone sincerely. Be enthusiastic, sunny, upright, not selfish, and responsible.

It's fun to help others. The most important thing is that speaking doesn't hurt people. Don't show off.

With these qualities, you will definitely get along well with your classmates.

If you want to deal with the relationship between your classmates, you must find out the problems between you and then solve them around the problems.

If you want to play with other people, you first have to get into their circles, which means that there is an overlap with their preferences, so that you can connect with other people a little.

The second is to be a caring person, pay attention to other people's feelings when interacting with people, sometimes a very simple sentence others will think that you are a good person, worthy of befriending, this can be seen more psychological things, know how to cater to different people.

Hope mine can help you!

I am very emotional, I have not negotiated with others for a long time because of social fear, I am afraid of communicating with others, but I exercise my inner courage I think when you don't have the courage to contact others, tell yourself that it's okay, don't mention the shortcomings of others when communicating with others, try to praise their advantages, and live in peace with others.

Now they are all small groups, and the reason why they get along well is sometimes due to the same interests.

Sometimes it may be a chat, or it may be a little girlfriend. Some of them have known each other before, or they have been classmates before.

And those who are popular are generally humorous and talkative, generous and kind.

Male classmates are still female classmates.

Eat people with soft mouths, please go out to eat, drink and have fun with natural relationships.

Look at something.

Some things get darker the more you explain them.

Sometimes it takes its course.

If it's a misunderstanding, don't give any explanation to the other party. Someday he will understand.

Be tolerant and don't be that individual person among your classmates!

As long as you have a sincere heart and a calm mind, you will resolve all unpleasantness

It's very simple, sincere and sincere.

It will definitely pay off.

Don't think much about him.

As long as you treat your classmates with your heart, you will always be treated sincerely by your classmates.

Learning is the most important, and friends are secondary.

Take your time, but you have to learn.

I can understand your current mood, this situation has been encountered by everyone more or less when they were in school.

Let's analyze and analyze it together.

Expressing dissatisfaction in front of a classmate because they may have influenced you is not a mistake, but in a way denying what the other person is proud of, in other words, you are inadvertently undermining the other person's self-esteem and sense of worth.

Therefore, when the other party says that you are high, proud, etc., it can also be regarded as a response to you from the other party who feels that it hurts your self-esteem. It's like the chagrin of your pride overwhelming hers. Because adolescent children have strong self-esteem.

As you said, you are a smart and sensible child, and you are more mature than your peers, so you think their twitter is childish. But you might as well think of it this way, you are a little adult who lives in a child's class.

How do adults communicate with children in a group of children? First of all, respect them, even if they are childish, because what you think is childish is their pride. Only when you respect the children, will the children identify with you, respect you, don't they?

Therefore, adults need to have a lot of ah, and the sea is tolerant. Don't be jealous of the unicorn, don't laugh at the horse, everything can be known in your heart, and there are a lot of them.

For the sake of today, you can only be better to the people around you and let more people identify with you, so that all rumors will be self-defeating. In addition, at the same time, be open-minded and respectful to that girl, don't worry too much (because you will damage your image if you are dealing with her), especially at critical moments, you can seize the opportunity to affirm her value.

If that child refuses to forgive you, he is too narrow-minded. After all, the value of a person is not determined by a certain person or a certain type of person, but by the majority of people and people at all levels.

So, no matter what, your own self-cultivation, mindset and concentration are the most important.

Good luck!

He doesn't take you seriously, you can not take him seriously, why should you care what he thinks? If you don't want him to change your mind in other people's minds, you can start with other people, such as giving a smile and affinity to someone else instead of giving it to him. Because other people change your mind from him and don't actually have any objection to you yourself.

So you don't have to worry about what he's doing, because it will only make him think that he can really control others.

If you want to reconcile with him, give him some small favors, such as sharing them with others when he eats, and giving them to him by the way. Or maybe he drops something, and you help pick it up, and naturally do something that makes a difference. Little girls, it's easy to change your outlook from these little things.

The ancients said, "The prime minister can hold the boat in his belly";

People also say, "Don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts calling the door";

As long as you are open-minded, open-minded, worthy of your classmate, don't care too much about her attitude towards you, every day is still comfortable studying, living, communicating, playing, emotions can be contagious, one day, she will be infected by you, at that time, all the suspicion, white eyes, exclusion and sarcasm will disappear, what you will return is pure admiration, admiration, respect and support, you can't punish yourself with other people's mistakes every day, what do you say?

We must learn to be gregarious, our hearts should be relaxed, we must be true and trusting to others, we must think more about other people's good and happy, and we must learn to be free and cheerful, so that we can be healthy and happy every day.