The couple who have lived for four years has been in a bad relationship, and now they have another c

Hello this friend, I have been married to your wife for four years though.

It's not a long time, but after all, we've lived together for so long, I think a lot.

You will find something you like from her, otherwise how would you have lived together for so long, and besides, you have a child now, according to me.

It's better not to divorce, otherwise it will not only hurt you, but the most hurtful is the child, maybe because your divorce will suddenly change him.

The fate of a lifetime, so think twice

She's been reluctant to divorce you, and that's because she loves you for this.

The family is for this child, and as for what you said about not being educated or anything, I don't think it matters anymore, because a family is built by men, and she just needs to run the house.

That's it, and as for her personality, I think it's also due to your parents.

Dealing with marriage has a kind of idea of repulsion from the beginning of your psyche So also.

I can't accept her temper sometimes, and my friends don't want to go out on occasional trips to relax.

Talk to her about the changing environment, and the most important thing is not to just look at her shortcomings, you try to look at her strengths, after all, to establish one.

Family is not easy, as the saying goes, home and everything is prosperous, think about it, friends.

Happy family.

Hey, first of all, sympathize with your unhappy marriage.

If I were in your position, I would definitely get divorced, and I would never have children so as not to hurt them, and now that this is the case, if I can reconcile, then reconcile, if I can't do it after hard work.

Then divorce.

It's another helplessness, what did you do earlier, since you didn't think it was suitable at the time, don't get married, not only get married but also have children, it's crazy. Did you just want to be happy at that time, but you didn't think about the future? Now I feel that it is boring, divorce, what about the child, ruined him, is he guilty?

Give up for the sake of your child!

Talk about it, there is no happiness in a loveless marriage.

It's connected with the same disease, you have it now, I'm born now, and I'm more worried than you.

It's been a long time coming. When you don't have children.

What's on your mind.

If you don't make it, you won't be able to leave it. Don't think about children, my idea is that adults are not doing well, can children be okay?

As long as two couples divorce, no matter who is right and who is wrong, it will hurt their children. Therefore, in today's society, there are many rational couples who love their children and still live in a loveless family and are reluctant to divorce in order to have a complete family. In my opinion, this is a good and responsible parent.

Parents are the gods in their children's hearts, especially those who have not yet grown up. Every word and deed of parents will affect the personality and direction of children when they grow up. The good ones can give the child the motivation to move forward, while the bad ones will leave a shadow that will never linger...

To be a great mother is to never deceive. The child is always the first, the second, the third husband.

There are too many couples who have lost their love for each other and are only in a nominal marriage relationship for the sake of their children. Husband and wife are the core of the family, the emotional state between husband and wife directly affects the psychological development of children, children must grow up in a loving and warm family, such a family can raise excellent children. Since you both love children, you must face the problems in your marriage now, actively communicate benignly, if the relationship cannot be redeemed, at least be a happy couple, maintain the marriage, raise the children, and slowly infiltrate the children in the process, so that the children understand that you love him very much, but you have no stage So, the children will help you make the right decision.

In short, an unhappy marriage is irresponsible to the children, and the couple wants to maintain, personal point of view, do not like to squirt.

There is no need to continue such a marriage, this is hell on earth.

After leaving, the love that two people can give to the child will not be less, so that the child should have the same fatherly and maternal love to enjoy, and the child will also give as before.

Of course, if there are no issues of principle, no irreconcilable contradictions, then for the sake of the children, they must strive to find common ground between husband and wife, giving themselves and each other a chance to move on. It is not only for the future and destiny of the child, but also to create a complete and happy family for the child, no matter how high or low life is, so that the child has a happy heart, responsible for the success of the child, or the reunion between the husband and wife, rebuild the relationship, and leave a beautiful living space for the child.

No, continuing this relationship for the sake of the child will only make the two people more painful, and there will be a lot of contradictions between the two people.

It shouldn't be, after there is no affection between two people, they should divorce as soon as possible, and it is not a long-term solution for the sake of children.

Divorce, such a marriage is too failed, and there is domestic violence, hurry up and find someone to rely on to love you, and the children will be raised by the man and visit the children regularly.

In the divorce, you have to work hard and conscientiously, the child is temporarily brought by his grandmother, you give living expenses, and if you have the conditions, you can take the child over and bring it yourself.

Take the child by yourself, if there is a suitable one, find another one for yourself (of course, you must be able to accept the child as the premise).

It's better to live together, because that's good for the child's growth. It would be a pity if the child was harmed because of the discord between the husband and wife! Today's single-parent family children will inevitably grow up more sad than those who are not single-parent family children, for the sake of the child I hope that you husband and wife should live together in harmony, because I am a child from a single-parent family, so I can understand the child's psychology better than adults.

If you have the financial ability, you have to go back to the child, he has no sense of responsibility, don't give the child to him, he is still young, the road ahead is still long, so it is not a way to endure it, it is easy to get sick, you communicate with him first, show that you want a divorce, you want the child, see what his attitude is, if he does not change his mind, and does not change the current situation, then leave. Property and child support must be agreed upon. There are still many opportunities to find someone who loves and loves himself.

Cherish yourself.

Children should not be allowed to grow up in single-parent families.

Leave, it's almost impossible to save your situation, ask someone to find a good job, and you must bring your child over.

Your marriage is dead, go away. If you want to have children, just file it or go straight to court.

Get the kids back! After staying at his grandmother's house for a long time, he doesn't recognize you, and you will be helpless - you don't always complain about your husband, but you also have to find your own fault, but if you have no feelings, and beat you, and extramarital affairs, you don't have to continue, and it is not good to give children a domestic violence growth environment.

Divorce: Are you unable to raise children on your own?

Yes, otherwise, the child should have less love.

If the relationship between husband and wife is not good, but I have two children, to be honest, I may not have the courage to give up.

Two people in marriage, in the face of trivial matters in life, it is inevitable that there will be differences of opinion and quarrels, if the relationship between the husband and wife is not good, to analyze the problem, find out the reason, to see what aspects of the relationship is not good?

If it is not a big contradiction that is difficult to reconcile, in the run-in of daily life, it will be understood as you understand each other's personality.

Because of the difference in personality and the difference in the family that grows up and is different, men and women will have great differences in thinking about problems, or the way they treat problems, which requires us to slowly understand and adapt to them in our daily life.

Therefore, in this kind of family that does not have great contradictions, I do not advocate giving up easily, after all, there are two children, and if you leave, it will cause great harm to the growth of the children.

For this kind of situation of two children, it is very likely that one follows the father and the other follows the mother, and the growth of the two children who are separated has caused a certain degree of growth problems, and the children who follow the poor condition will be prone to resentment complexes, which makes the sibling relationship between the two children also estranged.

Of course, if it is two people who are in a scuffle all day long, which completely affects the normal growth space of the child, then such a marriage should be abandoned. Instead of living in the fear of chickens and dogs jumping every day, children should give up a normal and quiet life.

Now there are many cases of the influence of the original family on the children, such as fear of marriage, or the children's marriage repeats the mistakes of their parents, and even the daughter always encounters a scumbag, experts analyze this state is a masochistic mentality that has always been formed by the child, if a marital state has caused such a great harm to innocent children in their lives, then every parent must be cautious about their own marital problems.

Giving up in this kind of marriage is a relief for both husband and wife and two children, and the impact on the children can be smaller.

Therefore, it is important to find out the problems in the marriage, weigh the pros and cons, and then make a decision to minimize the harm to everyone.

I think that children will not affect the relationship between two people, but the way two people communicate and get along is the most important, and we must learn to be sincere and respectful to get along to be more friendly, so it is important to do the following:

1.Maintain a positive attitude.

People with an optimistic attitude are more likely to show a positive and enthusiastic side in life and work. No matter how big the difficulties are, they will try their best to solve them, such people are more comfortable at work and more interesting in life, while people who like to look at things around them with a pessimistic attitude often worry about the world before they even set off, and the sense of loss is increasing day by day, and life becomes less positive because of this. Therefore, no matter what kind of predicament you are in right now, please remember to keep smiling and facing it positively, that is the way life should be.

2.Have the courage to move forward.

Every step we take requires courage, and this bravery comes from the conviction in our hearts. In real life, many people do not know how to face difficulties and setbacks when they encounter them, so they are depressed and lose the confidence and motivation they should have in life.

When encountering any difficulties, please do not be arrogant, learn to face difficulties, always believe in yourself, and move forward bravely. The road is step by step, you just have to take a brave step, and the beauty of life will definitely meet you unexpectedly.

3.Respectful and serious enough.

I want to do everything, but I often can't do anything well. The best thing to do is to find something that interests you and try to be as boring as possible. Maybe the process is lonely, but it can make you different.

If you don't do it well the first time, it doesn't matter, take your time, try a few more times, and slow work can produce fine work. Those who are always in a hurry, are prone to failure.

So, don't get by, do your best to do everything in your hands well. All your days accumulate and sooner or later you will become beyond the reach of others.

4.Be curious about life.

People like to stay in their comfort zone and get used to a comfortable life. Many times we stagnate, not because we are not strong enough, but because we lack a curiosity about new things.

Only by always maintaining a love for life can we continuously improve our enthusiasm for life. Only by maintaining a curious mind and maintaining an optimistic attitude can we continue to improve and improve.

Many people have subjective questions.

The relationship between husband and wife is not good, but they have two children, and they don't have the courage to give up, one is because the child is still young, and it is really uneasy to hand it over to his father. Second, because there is not enough economic strength, there is no guarantee that the child will be won, and even if it is won, it may not be immediately guaranteed that the quality of life of the child will not be affected. The third is because the relationship between husband and wife is not so bad, and it is only very occasionally quarrelsome, and there are only two sentences of disagreement, there is no problem in principle, and it will not be separated.

It is said that no matter how loving a couple is, there are 100 thoughts of divorce and 50 impulses to strangle each other in their lives.

Of course, we didn't want to strangle each other, but we did have the idea of divorce. That's because most people are used to escaping, don't want to face reality, don't want to solve problems, and of course, are more likely to not love each other enough. How many families in this society are calm on the surface but turbulent on the inside.

Coupled with the influence of the general environment and the rising divorce rate, many people are impetuous, going with the flow, thinking that 'it's a big deal' is a very simple thing.

But because of having children, many families are struggling to support themselves. That's because the relationship between their husband and wife is not so bad that it can't be maintained, and there is still room for redemption. I really have to be forced to maintain a torn marriage as a last resort, and in this case, it is too cruel to the children to talk about it.

It's better to say that you don't have the courage to leave or give up, don't use your children as a shield.

There are also those who want to give up. Before giving up, ask yourself a few questions: Is the marriage really untenable?

How much does a bad relationship affect children? Where will the child go? How is it good for children?

Think about these questions clearly and then consider whether to give up.