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<> poor self-control. Self-control is definitely the key factor in determining whether a person has development, the traditional sense of self-control refers to people can control their emotions and behaviors, everyone will have joys, angers and sorrows, and people who can effectively control their emotions are often people with high emotional intelligence and can get a good reputation in the interpersonal circle. And people who have an indulgent attitude towards themselves and never restrain their own behavior, most of them are lazy and impulsive, just imagine how a person who can't even control himself well, how can he have a plan and control to do other things.
Lazy and gluttonous. Lazy by nature, no pursuit of life, no quality requirements for the things around him, only to meet the lowest physiological desires of human nature, eat and drink enough, sleep and play games feel that life is all, this status quo is enough. The spiritual world is extremely barren, and it does not take the initiative to learn and desire to progress, and new things are not attractive to such people.
The personality traits of laziness are extremely obvious, unwilling to use their brains to think, and even more unwilling to work with their hands, and will only sit back and enjoy their achievements without making efforts. Such character traits are basically like ants, which have no contribution to society and are worthless to themselves.
Pessimism. Immersed in self-pity and self-love all day long, disappointed in life, disappointed in life. In his eyes, everything is suffering, and he is always full of malice towards the things around him, and he does not do good, let alone have good thoughts.
All the time is negative emotions, never only see the dark side, resentment, and this emotion will also spread to the people around you, there is no pursuit of doing things, there is no positive sunshine mentality, and there is no requirement for perfection. will only lament how unfair fate treats him, but he never grasps the direction of life by himself, and will not take the initiative to embrace the changes in the world.
Shortsighted. Vision and pattern are a luxury for people with low levels, as the saying goes, a person can go as far as he sees. To put it bluntly, most of the short-sighted people are short-sighted, and they only value the small profits in front of them, and have no overall thinking concept and development route.
I don't have a city government in my heart, so I can throw away the watermelon and pick sesame seeds for a little profit, and I am complacent and don't know it. It also reflects the habit of taking advantage of small advantages. And generally have a life attitude of one day at a time, and never know how to plan for a rainy day or be prepared for danger in times of peace.
Doing things in a hurry for quick success, narrow-mindedness, and often accompanied by arrogant character traits. It is difficult for such people to have great development and achievement.
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Low-level people usually like to take advantage, and it is difficult to communicate, they are not generous enough to everything, they are not reasonable enough, and they will misunderstand what you want to express, which is difficult to get along with.
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Low-level people dress very casually, love to be careful when they encounter things, always love to take advantage of some small advantages, they all have hatred for the rich, and they can't look down on others.
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Their characteristics are that they only focus on the immediate gains and losses, do not think about the long-term problems, and their quality is relatively poor, and their personal professional knowledge is relatively poor. There is no big plan.
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Generally, when this kind of person encounters a problem, he will not think that his ** is not doing well, but only think about the wrong of others, and the angle of looking at the problem is very single and selfish! This kind of person will also often look at others with colored glasses. If it doesn't conform to the values in his heart, he will slander others.
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You may feel a little inferior, others look down on you, so you will be reluctant to communicate with others, you are not willing to talk to others, you just want to stay in your own place, and you don't want to go out of your comfort zone.
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I especially like to complain, I always retreat when I encounter things, I especially like to compare myself with others, I am particularly vain, and I am very easy to look down on others.
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The vision is narrow, only the immediate interests are buried, and it is unreasonable and unreasonable, relying on men, without its own work, without its own ideas and lead pants plans.
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calculating, greedy for small gains, putting their hopes on men, having no opinions, no plans, no work.
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Born as a human being, there is no difference between high and low status, but there is a distinction between high and low levels. High-level people have four noble phases, and low-level people have four declining phases.
The level of hierarchy is usually shown through these four characteristics.
01, low-level people show off in a high-profile manner, and high-level people are low-key and indifferent! The more a man lacks something, the more he will show off, because only by showing off can his vanity be satisfied, and others will look upon him in the eyes of worship. However, the truly wealthy people never show off in a high-profile manner, but spend their time and energy on more meaningful things, to see a bigger world, to achieve more ideals, indifferent to fame and fortune, and to be humble and low-key.
02. People with low levels cling to contacts, and people with high levels improve themselves! People with low levels will never rely on their own struggle, but make friends everywhere, win people's hearts, mix in social circles, brag and show off, climb contacts, in their eyes, they are proud of knowing countless people, and take shortcuts with the help of others to gain benefits.
High-level people do not like to socialize, like to be alone, work hard, read often, and achieve their goals by improving their abilities. I don't put my hopes in others, I only rely on myself to succeed.
03. People with low levels are two-sided and three-stabbed, and people with high levels are the same on the outside! A low-level person, with two faces in front of and behind, seems to be enthusiastic, vicious in his heart, friendly on the surface, and tricks behind his back.
Always blinds you with a smile, always deceives your heart with sweet words, makes you relax your vigilance, and takes the opportunity to calculate you. Only high-level people will treat people sincerely, be real people, no need to be guarded, no need to be suspicious, they are the same on the outside and on the inside, and they can communicate with each other.
04. People with low levels are ungrateful, and people with high levels know how to repay their kindness! Everyone has a time when they encounter difficulties and need help, people at a low level are favored by others, but they are ungrateful, and people at a high level remember people's kindness and will know how to repay their kindness. In the eyes of low-level people, it is natural for others to help, and in the hearts of high-level people, it is a great favor for others to help.
Those who do not know how to be grateful, ungrateful, and will take revenge, the level is always at a low level, no cultivation, poor conduct, only those who know how to repay their kindness, and those who have kindness will be repaid, are more likely to meet noble people and get help and live in happiness.
The higher the level, the more upright the conduct, the lower the level, the worse the conduct.
If you want to stand in front of people openly and honestly and live in the world, you must be a high-level person, not showing off, not attached, not arrogant, and treating others with a grateful heart, so that you will be favored by good luck and followed by blessings!
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The essential difference should be the vision and pattern, low-level people only care about the small profits in front of them, especially their own interests, while high-level people take a long-term view and will not sacrifice their greater interests in the future because of a little benefit.
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The biggest difference between high-level and low-level people is that they think about problems from different angles, high-level people often think about problems from a more comprehensive perspective, while low-level people often think about problems are particularly one-sided.
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The biggest difference is that the ambitions of the two people are different, high-level people are more ambitious, but also self-motivated, know how to get the life they want, and be responsible for themselves, while low-level people are short-sighted, have no goals in life, and only know how to waste time.
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High-level people are atmospheric and will be generous towards everything. And low-level people are short-sighted, only talk about the immediate situation, and will be calculating. This is the essential difference between the two kinds of people, which determines the different vision and development of people.
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The gap in essence is the pattern. High-level people know how to invest in themselves, because they are the reason that determines the level. And the low-level people will choose to take advantage of the loopholes in society.
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1. Have correct life values;
The first characteristic of a high-level person is that he has correct life values, and the so-called values mean that a person has the ability to distinguish between right and wrong. According to psychological analysis, the higher the level of people, they have a correct outlook on life and behavior. And this kind of person is often rational, and will find the right and feasible way to deal with things.
This kind of person will not look at the problem too one-sidedly, but will analyze it from the perspective of others, and at the same time, will continue to learn and improve their own ability.
2. Know how to speak good words and have high emotional intelligence;
In the process of interpersonal communication, saying good things is a sign of a person's high emotional intelligence. The more high-level people are, the more they know how to speak, one is because they know how to take care of other people's emotions, and the other is that they have emotional intelligence that is superior to others. A person with high emotional intelligence will easily gain the recognition of others, and therefore, will also contribute to a person's career.
3. Reliable and strong execution;
The biggest characteristic of high-level people is that they are reliable and have strong execution. In today's society, reliability is a scarce quality of a person, and the more reliable a person is, the more he can be entrusted with important tasks by the leadership. According to psychological analysis, the more high-quality people are, the less likely they are to do things that affect others.
People with this trait often have the ability to be superior to others.
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The reason why a person's development is limited or they are becoming poorer is often not because of their status, but because their model is too small, their level is too low, and the "height" that their thinking and cognition can achieve is limited, mostly staying at the thinking stage of the poor. Only people with a big picture and a high level can get rid of the shackles of poor thinking, change the status quo, and reach the realm they want to achieve.
Win in the mode, lose in the bargain per ounce, many low-level people, especially the poor, just like to care, and as a result, not only lose their hearts, lose interest in life, but even their careers will be unfortunate, and will only make themselves poorer and poorer. As a poor man, he didn't have any resources.
Of course, he can't ignore anything, don't care about anything, pretend to be generous, pretend to be generous, but he can't be too picky, especially when it comes to relationships. As the saying goes, "if the water is clear, there will be no fish, and if people go to observe, there will be no fish", if a person is too calculating, his pattern will become smaller, his vision will be narrower, his level will be lower, and he will easily dislike people and things other than himself and become suicidal.
No matter how smooth the mirror is, when you look at it with a magnifying glass, you will also see all sorts of uneven things; What we see very clean with the naked eye, when viewed with a microscope, is also filled with all kinds of bacteria. If you care too much and are too harsh, I'm afraid it is only suitable for one person to live in this world. On the contrary, people who really have a big picture and a high level will not care too much.
No matter who they get along with, they can show a lot of magnanimity and pride. Even if they get along with someone they hate, they don't bargain for death. This is not only a quality needed to get rid of poverty, but also a quality that most people possess in ancient and modern Chinese and foreign affairs, that is, it can tolerate what people cannot tolerate, and it can tolerate what people cannot tolerate.
It is not terrible for a person to be poor. It doesn't matter if you don't have contacts and background. None of these are the deciding factors in whether you can roll over or not.
Also, you can change it by working hard. However, if you become despised, cheap, or even lower your self-confidence, or even lower your ** to treat yourself like a ** product because of poverty, it will be too sad.
Even if the reality is harsh, you can't make such a compromise lightly. Taking a step back, you can compromise and do something that others look down on, but you can't look down on yourself in your heart, otherwise, the level will only get lower and lower, the model will only get smaller and smaller, and you will only get poorer and poorer.
In addition, there is another scenario. There are people who have a high opinion of themselves in their hearts, but in their behavior, no one forces them and oppresses them, but they still show an attitude of inferiority. This attitude is mainly manifested in the indentation of others, avoidance, indifference to others, and indifference to careers.
It's like a walking corpse.
Of course, the most serious case is moral turpitude because of inferiority. This kind of moral turpitude not only means doing bad things by any means and lacking morality, but also means that the whole person becomes negative and always thinks about the bad side.
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Self-control is particularly poor, loves to take advantage of small advantages and is very communicative, cares about everything, is particularly lazy, often passes on some negative energy to you, short-sighted, and will not have great development and achievements.
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Most people at a low level are only willing to stay in their comfort zone and are not willing to take risks, while people at a low level only think about the present and do not think about the future. People with low levels are not used to seeing the good of others, and they just want to find fault with others and cannot see the advantages of others.
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Emotional intelligence is very low, always troubled by interpersonal relationships, likes to express oneself, is particularly arrogant, lacks a clear understanding of oneself, and underestimates the abilities of others.
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The level of cognitive envy refers to the level of a person's cognitive level and thinking ability. People with low cognitive levels usually have the following characteristics:
1.Lack of depth of thinking: They often can only see the surface of things, do not have deep thinking and analytical skills, and are easily affected by the external environment.
2.Lack of creativity: They lack creative thinking and their own unique solutions to novel things and problems.
3.Lack of knowledge: They have little knowledge, lack of understanding of knowledge in different fields, and lack of systematic thinking and understanding.
4.Stereotyped: They tend to be accustomed to a fixed mindset, lack flexibility and self-reflection, and are prone to making mistakes.
5.Imitation style: They are accustomed to imitating others, lack their own unique opinions and opinions, and have difficulty thinking and judging independently.
The above are some of the characteristics of people with a lower cognitive level, but it should be noted that not everyone has these characteristics, and you can also improve your cognitive level by studying and cultivating hard.
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