I m still jealous of our school grass, what should I do?

First of all, you feel good about yourself and feel that you are better than him in every way, could it be that you are a little conceited? You always compare yourself with him, which shows that you still have some kind of hidden inferiority complex in your subconscious. That is, there must be some aspects in which you are inferior to him.

Whether a person's relationship with the opposite sex is good or not, it cannot be said that appearance is not important, but it is certainly not the most important. Let's see if people treat others kinder than you? Does it seem more refreshing and sunny (for girls, it is not that being handsome means refreshing and sunny, such as whether he cleans himself up in front of people, whether he loves to laugh and love sports, whether he is more careful and considerate, these are the evaluation criteria), is he more mature and stable in handling things?

In terms of interaction with teachers and classmates, is he more active and enthusiastic? A lot of software that we would overlook will instead make up a person's vital attraction. It's not that my grades are better than him, my family background is stronger than him, my dad is Li Gang, so I should naturally receive more attention from others.

Regarding the opposite sex, do you just want to find a girlfriend, or do you want to be that little bit of green among the flowers? Personally, I think a little green in the flowers is not necessarily a good thing. For example, being surrounded by girls every day will hurt the girl who treats him sincerely, and finally the "buddy" who originally had the best relationship (the girl said that she treats you as a buddy, it doesn't mean that she really thinks so, it may be a variety of external factors that cause her to be unable to become a boyfriend and girlfriend with you for the time being, so she retreats to the second), but it is a stranger.

For example, some girls will think that this person is more attentive and suitable for being an ambiguous blue face, but not suitable as the first choice for boyfriends.

For the rest of our lives, we will only stay with one person of the opposite sex until we grow old. Therefore, maintaining a good interaction with other friends of the opposite sex and maintaining a certain distance from the relationship (or a circle relationship, you are in the center of the circle, your girlfriend is in the circle, and other female friends are in the circumference of the circle, maintaining a friendly relationship with the same distance) is actually a better choice. When you've been working for a while, especially if you've become a celebrity, or as a leader, complicated opposite-sex relationships will only create more trouble for you.

So if you don't have such a good relationship with the opposite sex, it doesn't necessarily mean a bad thing. Having a group of same-sex brothers who share weal and woe is also a precious wealth in life.

Finally, I would like to advise you that jealousy will not have any positive effects, it will only make your mind narrower and narrower. And the behavior caused by these psychological changes will be observed by the people around you in the unconsciously interactions, and you will feel that you are a narrow-minded person, and finally lead to fewer and fewer friends. It's better to be generous and look at others with appreciation.

If possible, make friends with him, learn more about his strengths, and try to learn from him. You must know that if you want to become a type of person, the best way is to deal with that type of person, and if you interact more, you will subtly become an insider in their circle.

And in fact, whether a man is broad-minded or not is far more important than the opposite sex.

Then you are very good, why should you be jealous.

Look down, some things are not as good as you think. Everyone has their own pain, and it's hard to say why so many mothers-in-law are still troubled by why so many mothers-in-law keep harassing him.

To give you a sentence "Gods and horses are floating clouds".

It's gold that always shines, so why care about a while. This can only say that the girls around you have only seen the surface, and time will test everything. Your fate may not have arrived yet. What awaits you is not indifferent fate, but unforgettable.

Jealousy is the devil, the devil is around you, no opposite sex will like you, and when you are not jealous of others, your opposite sex will come back.

The landlord is calm and calm, and the school grass is all floating clouds.

There will be one person in your life. Don't be jealous of others. Treat it with a normal heart.

The time has not yet come for such a person to appear.

Jealousy does not solve the problem, it is better to improve your ability and self-confidence, I am born to be useful, everyone has their own strengths.

Get the school grass done, and you will be king.

Be yourself, if you do what others imagine you are, then you will not be able to satisfy others in any way Those who are jealous of you If it is just because of the school grass, then their psychology is not very mature You don't care Let yourself be happy!

The girls of the world always think that they are proud princesses.

Except for a few extremely ugly and a few extremely intelligent girls).

Leave them alone.

Those who are not envied are lazy, go your own way, and others have no right to stop you.

If they're still obsessed, give them some color.

Tell them that you are gay and that you are with them because you sympathize with them.

No one cares about a dog that doesn't bark, you show that people are jealous, but it's better to have a good relationship with your girlfriend, it's beneficial.

You are you, don't be swayed by others!

You can't learn to retaliate, but if you can't bear it, you don't need to endure it anymore, and then remember to be forgiving and forgiving, and that's it!

You are not afraid of crooked shadows, as long as you are above board, you don't care about what they say, if they deliberately spread rumors and slander, you will beat them.

They're honest.

That's what I did, hehe! It works

If you are really a good friend, then you should not care about other people's eyes, if you give up a friendship, then you will regret it, I used to be like this, so don't argue what others say, you are living for yourself, not for others, so whatever others say, you don't care, you live happily, don't care what others think, you are not saying to go your own way, let others say it, so you don't give up on a friendship, your friend is not wrong, if because of this, you don't have any relationship with him, So what will he think, because of this, you don't associate with him, then he will definitely think that your friendship is more than one at all, so you must not give up, you know

Go your own way and let them say go.

I suggest you watch "Sparrow Wants Revolution".

This one**. The heroine is quite in line with your situation.

It doesn't matter what others say, as long as you're happy with him, is anything else important?

Restrain your behavior and retaliate if other girls do something excessive.

It's good to think it's good, and there's no need to pay attention to what others think.

Go talk to them! Go your own way and let others do the talking! ~~

Drag the girl and the school grass to live together, the silly girl accidentally bumps into the school grass heart The evil prince of the gentle princess, there are many more, I have seen all of these, very good-looking

President, stop playing with the jealousy of a few women.

Let the person you are jealous of you is also jealous of you, and play to your strengths and avoid your weaknesses.

There will be girls who like introverted boys like you, do you think you are too good for girls to chase you? Be careful and humorous when dealing with girls.

Don't think too much, come on, there will be girls who fall in love with you, I'm just a girl, when I was in school, girls like to judge people by their appearance, like to play, I feel very face-saving and find a very handsome boyfriend, and when the work comes out, I don't value appearance, because many years later, the face will be gone, the girl after the work, or a very sensible and mature girl will choose a more stable and responsible, good person, and will not find a handsome and fashionable but ignorant person, He can't give happiness to others, what girls need is a sense of security, a good home, people who can comfort life, and there will be girls who like you in the future, because you are really good, but you feel unwilling in your heart, why bother with yourself? The love in the school is childish, even if it is a university, the money is given by the parents, they don't know the pain and pressure of earning money to live on their own, come on, I'm optimistic about you, I like boys like you.

Hehe. Even if you have talent, you have to show it. You don't say, who knows? If you don't take the initiative, who will come to you? True love is not what you think. It's not what you call the school grass that you get. That's too superficial!

No matter how ugly a person is, he will also love him, but everyone's experience is different. Most girls like humorous and talkative, dancing and playful students, even if you are the first in your grade, what about it?

What women pay most attention to is security! If you don't give people a sense of security, will they be tempted by you? If you haven't worked hard and worked as hard as you study, why would others only send you a good person card?

Why don't you get a boyfriend card to you? Think for yourself.

Of course, maybe you're too good, and they don't think they're worthy of you. So, there are various reasons. Hehe. But the most important thing is that you haven't tried ...

In fact, whether you will soak a girl or not, it has nothing to do with appearance and anything else!

The main thing is action! As long as you dare to take the initiative to talk to girls, take advantage of them from time to time, speak humorously enough, and have a mature mentality! This way, you can have a few girlfriends you want!

If you don't dare to take the initiative to soak girls, don't complain here!

Hahahaha......(Excuse me, let me lose my temper for a moment).

Girls like handsome guys just like boys like beautiful women, natural, do you really dare to say that an ugly girl and a beautiful woman say the same thing to you, can the balance in your heart be maintained at a high level? Impossible.

As you said, if no girl likes you, it's just a personality factor, at least I think what you've written is good.

As far as you say "gentle and graceful", I said, how many real gentle and gentle ladies can be found in the real society?

As for the last three questions you asked: 1. That's not necessarily, it depends on your vision and luck, even a handsome guy can't guarantee that he can shine on the person who "really loves me", and he still doubts that the other party only likes his face.

2. That's still not necessarily, after all, the divorce rate in real life is too high.

3. Hehe, there is no best choice in the world, only what you choose.

"Isn't it, even if there are really girls who want to be with me in the future, they still look at my family's wealth and power, and don't they really love me?

Isn't it, even if they can live together for a lifetime, what she really likes in her heart is still a handsome guy?

Isn't it, in fact, it is the best choice for me to be a single person for the rest of my life? ”

Please don't say any more about the above, this is a negative performance, and I don't think it's right at all. Does appearance matter that much? People who just look at their appearances are not worthy of your love.

To be honest, I never think that a boy's appearance is very important, responsibility is the key for a boy, and most of the sisters around me think this way.

No sister has ever said that she has to find a handsome boyfriend, everyone knows that if it is true love, you will live together for a lifetime in the future, and the boy's good character and excellent quality make girls feel warm the most, and one thing is that they will care about others. After getting along for a long time, you will find that appearance is really that important.

Live well, be optimistic!

All I can say is.

Fate is hard to come by.

The fact that there are so many people around him does not mean love.

And the person who happens to be next to you may be your true love.

Personally, I think the landlord should not be so negative, or should be positive and sunny, I can only say that the person who knows how to appreciate you has not yet appeared, but she is watching you in a corner you don't know. Just stick to your style.

Don't be so extreme, there will be girls who like introverted boys like you, do you think it's because you're too good for girls to dare to chase you? When getting along with girls, you should be careful and humorous, no girl will refuse to be gentle and considerate, humorous and funny boys, come on.

My boyfriend is not handsome and has no money, but he is good to me and can give me a sense of security, which is enough! Don't be too extreme, there are a lot of good girls!

Love is waiting to come.

Inadvertently.

Doesn't it say that good things are more grinding? If you give, you work hard, then you are close to what you want.

It's not that it won't appear, maybe it's just that it hasn't been encountered yet, so why envy others and be jealous of others? Everyone is a single individual, everyone has uniqueness, blindly complaining will only make your life more gloomy, maybe there is someone in the corner you don't pay attention to? Why don't you live well when fate has not come, make yourself more sunny and fulfilling, the good or bad of others cannot affect your own life, only you can affect you, see what you still lack, what else you need, what is the shining point you already have, then you continue to let it illuminate your life.

I don't know if this passage is your real life, if so, then at least I think you have a lot of complaints in your life, adjust your life well, be cheerful, sunny, and diamonds won't shine without light sources