Essay on the topic of being a person, essay on the topic of being a person 600 words

Educator Huang Yanpei greatly appreciates the idiom "outer circle and inner square". In the motto he wrote to his son, he said: "If you are like a spring breeze, if you are like an autumn frost, you will be like money, and you will be round on the outside and square on the inside."

In Mr. Huang's view, "roundness" means "harmony like a spring breeze", respect, honesty, approachability, and harmony to friends, colleagues, and neighbors; "Fang" is to be "solemn as autumn frost", to do things seriously, adhere to principles; "Taking the image from money" is a metaphor for the image of ancient copper coins, inspiring people to organically unify the "outer circle" and "inner square". This parable is concise and thought-provoking. In light of this requirement, I am afraid that some comrades still have some gaps in handling interpersonal relations.

Sometimes the inside and outside are also square, treating people and doing things, not talking about methods, cold as ice, and making the comradeship very tense; Sometimes the outer circle is also round on the inside, the eight sides are exquisite, and they are flattering everywhere, and they are unprincipled; There are also times when the inside is not square, the outside is not round, there is neither truth nor principle in the chest, and there is trouble everywhere. A person with "outer circle and inner square" must be a person who is "harmonious and group", and "harmonious group" is an excellent quality and an important prerequisite for building harmonious interpersonal relationships. Failure to achieve "outer circle and inner square" is not beneficial to others and oneself, and it is even more harmful to building harmonious interpersonal relationships.

How to achieve "outer circle and inner square"? The author can't help but think of the story of the couplet when Li Mi, a famous minister of the Tang Dynasty, was seven years old. Li Mi was known as a prodigy when he was young, and when he was 7 years old, Tang Xuanzong summoned him to the palace.

When Li Mi entered the palace to see him, Tang Xuanzong was playing chess with Yan Guogong Zhang with great interest. Tang Xuanzong wanted to test his talent, so he motioned to Zhang Shuo to test him. Zhang Shuo asked on the topic of chess

Fang, like a chess game; The circle is like a chess piece; Moving, as if making chess come alive; Quiet, that is, chess is dead. Can you use the words square, circle, movement, and stillness to metaphorically play chess? The young Li Mi immediately blurted out:

Fang is like doing righteousness, round is like using wisdom, moving is like presenting talent, and quiet is like wishing. Li Mi's "square is like doing righteousness, and circle is like using wisdom", and he said the "practice" method of "outer circle and inner square". "Fang" is the independence of personality and the integrity of the soul, which is the foundation of the world, and people should work the "inner side".

Fang" can't leave the word "righteousness", we must have righteousness in mind. This "great righteousness" means being infinitely loyal to the party's cause, loving the motherland and the people with full affection, and unswervingly pursuing the truth. On matters of principle, do not meet left and right, and go with the flow; In the face of wrong behaviors and bad tendencies, take a clear stand and be an upright person who adheres to the truth.

"Circle" is not old and sophisticated, but a superb art of life. The "circle" should be relaxed and measured, and grasp the proportion. "Circle" is a kind of open-mindedness, a kind of generosity, a kind of generosity, a kind of empathy, and a kind of kindness to others.

Therefore, it is necessary to give full play to your intelligence, control your emotions in interpersonal communication, stick to your will, and treat others with an open mind. Taking the "outer circle and inner square" as a yardstick for life cultivation and a criterion for building a harmonious interpersonal relationship, we should handle the dialectical relationship between "circle" and "square", so that we can stress the principle of big things and style of small things, treat people with sincerity, convince people with reason, and be enthusiastic with emotion.

On the road of my growth, although it was inevitable to stumble at times, the words full of trust made me linger ...... memories

One morning during this year's winter vacation, I felt my stomach rumbling and there was nothing good to eat at home, so I hurried out of the house, came to the noisy street, looked around, and saw if there was any good breakfast for me to eat early, at this time, a wrinkled but kind old man set up a stall selling xiaolongbao on the corner of the street, the fragrance of xiaolongbao quickly attracted me, I hurriedly ran over and asked, "How much is this bag a cage?" ”

The old man laughed at this and said, "Two yuan a cage." "I thought: smell this fragrance, maybe this bag is delicious! I said cheerfully, "Grandpa, bring me two cages and pack them." The old man said

Okay, wait a minute. "I conveniently packed the xiaolongbao and seasonings in a grocery bag, handed it over, I took this bun and touched it in my pocket, it's bad! I was embarrassed to say to the old man:

I forgot to bring the money, can I take the bag back first and then send the money over? The old man looked at me, smiled and said, "It's okay, I'll get the money later."

I took the bun and ran away.

Back home, I devoured this delicious xiaolongbao, and forgot all about the money. At noon, my mother came back and saw the xiaolongbao I left for her, and praised me for being sensible while eating, and it would be related to my mother. That's when I remembered it, and casually said it:

Heck, I haven't paid the old man yet. "Son, since the old man trusts you so much, you must be trustworthy, this is the code of life, understand? Mom said.

The next day, I got up early, went to give the money to the old man, and said sorry repeatedly, but the old man did not blame me, but smiled and said, "It's okay, I believe in you." ”

Through this incident, it taught me how to be a person, made me understand the importance of credit, and made me go wider and wider on the road of growth, and grow up slowly.

No matter how smart and capable an individual is, and how good his background is, if he doesn't know how to behave and do things, then his final outcome will definitely be failure. Being a man and doing things is not only an art, but also a science. The reason why many people do nothing all their lives is because they have lived their whole lives without figuring out how to behave and do things.

Everyone lives in the real society, is eager to succeed, and many people with lofty ideals for the dream in their hearts, pay a lot, but get very little, this question can not but cause people to think deeply: you can't say that they are not hard enough, not hard enough, but why did they end up with nothing? This is something that each and every one of us should think about seriously.

On the surface, it seems simple to be a person and do things, but who wouldn't? For example, if you are a teacher, your subjective desire is to be a good teacher, but in fact you are not popular with students. When you go to business, your subjective desire is to make a lot of money, but you lose money. Put aside these superficial phenomena and explore the crux of the problem, you will find that being a person and doing things is indeed a difficult science to master.

It can be said that being a person and doing things is a discipline that involves all aspects of real life, and it is impossible to get a full picture of it from any aspect of research. In order to grasp this knowledge and grasp its essence, it is necessary to refine and summarize real life and draw some laws of universal significance, so that people can have rules to follow and not be confused.

Be a down-to-earth person and do things in a down-to-earth manner. Anyone with their hands in their pockets will not be able to climb the ladder of success. Leave a solid image to people, add a solid foundation to their own success, start from reality, and be responsible for themselves.

My father often taught me to be honest, keep promises, and be upright and down-to-earth. Do things and talk about one is one, and say two is two.

But I also have a lot of friends around me, but they often don't keep their promises.

I remember one time, I borrowed a book from my friend called "The Most Beautiful Prose". She promised me that she would come and get it in a week. It turned out that on the third day, she asked me to return the book. I said I hadn't finished reading it and hadn't arrived yet.

One week. She said she didn't care, anyway, she could take her books whenever she wanted, and then I gave her the books back. You say, is she keeping her word? Even if it's her book, she has to wait for me to finish it, so if I don't finish it, she will take it, which I don't mean I read in vain. What's the point?

Another time, I went grocery shopping with my mother. I saw an old woman setting up a stall with tender and beautiful dishes. And it just so happens to be my favorite.

Huan's fresh and delicious Chinese cabbage too. White, white, green, and green, I really want to eat it raw! I immediately pulled my mother's sleeve, pointed to the cabbage in my mother-in-law's stall, and asked my mother to buy it. My mother took me to another stall to buy Chinese cabbage. There.

The Chinese cabbage is also quite tender, but it is not as good as the mother-in-law's. Confused, I asked my mother, "Mom, why don't you buy Chinese cabbage from that old woman?" The cabbage there is tender and green! "Mom is mild-mannered.

He said to me, "It's not that my mother doesn't want to go there to buy it, it's because the old woman in the stall is too greedy and lacks two pounds every time." "Oh... Is it? I don't think she's a dishonest person. "I don't quite believe that one.

The old woman is such a person. "You don't believe it? Hehe, then I can't help it. Mom said to me with a smile.

Have you ever heard the saying "words must be believed, deeds must be fruitful"? There are many things that can be bought in life, but honesty and trustworthiness are priceless.