I had a new boyfriend in less than 3 months

Think you should ask him what he's going to do first? If he won't tell you, don't lend it to him, and how much do you know about your boyfriend and how do you know him, which is also a consideration for whether you want to lend it to him, in short, whether to borrow or not or not is up to you to decide, but what do you want money for or tell your mother the truth, parents will generally be more thoughtful than they think!

You've only been dating for 3 months and started borrowing money from you, you'd better be cautious, but only you know the specific situation, so the final decision is still in your own hands, but it is recommended that you ask your boyfriend what he is borrowing this money for? If you decide to give it to him, if possible, it would be better to see for yourself how he spent the money. Is it urgent, is there no lie to you!

Personally, I don't think it should be, is he too casual? Let's find a way to get the money first, and then when he asks for it, you say no, depending on his attitude at that time!

What kind of person is he, and how much will he be present!

It's better not to borrow him, let him figure it out on his own. Why didn't he ask where his family had borrowed? Why don't you ask a friend to pick it up and borrow money for. But if he really needs it urgently, and you use it properly, you can also lend it to him.

Don't borrow, it's indispensable to guard against people, at this time, you have to be careful with the boy who borrowed money from you, really, I dare to say that others are unreliable.

No, a normal boy will not open his mouth to borrow money from his girlfriend, and he actually asked you to borrow money directly from your mother, then it is difficult to say, whether he has a bad motive for being good to you. After all, you've known each other for a short time, girl, you should keep an eye on everything, unless you can be sure that his feelings for you are not mixed with anything other than feelings.

Don't borrow. I don't think this kind of relationship can be talked about at all.

He was in dire need of money, didn't he have any other friends?

I think I'm trying to cheat you out of money.

I think this kind of thing should be known to your parents, they must be older and know more things than you, and you have to discuss it with them.

What kind of relationship is it after only three months? Do you really think it's as affectionate as on TV? Don't borrow.

Some men are very bad, if you want to test his character and test him, then you can borrow it. If you pay it back, it means that you are not lying to you, and if you don't pay it back, you will be taught a lesson, and you also know who he is, so I made a decision early!

Women chase men, and the ending is generally not good. Take the initiative to keep a distance from him, and if he doesn't have nostalgia, then you have nothing to look forward to.

Ignore him, what a big deal, the more you take him seriously, the more he looks down on you!! ~

There are many men in the world of sisters!! Let's find someone who can really love and feel sorry for themselves!! ~

It's a big deal for the first time!! It's all over the time!!

So so what about feelings without feelings? What if you are clinging to someone who doesn't like you? Happiness is only known by oneself, and feelings also need a little reason.

I suggest you find another one, he doesn't love you at all.

Hello, I am the same age as you and can understand your feelings, and I have some insights that I would like to share with you!

First of all, I think you are a brave and open-minded, kind little girl. Your honesty and generosity, and your courage to confide in your heart speaks to your bravery; Being able to empathize with your boyfriend's mood and try to maintain his self-esteem can confirm your empathy and kindness; At the same time, the attachment and dedication to your boyfriend also shows that you are a delicate and gentle little girl.

Well, this mood of "feeling like this is your own loss" comes from your grasp of the scale of life, you are a girl with high moral character and purity, and it is precisely because of the constraints of this moral scale that you have this sense of shame, first of all, you feel that you should not be, and then you have a feeling of regret. In other words, a girl who is more open-minded may not have this kind of thinking (morally despises her). However, I personally understand your feelings.

After all, you are a girl, and compared with boys, the precious wealth of a girl lies in her gentle beauty and a clear and jade body, these two things, the former is to be shown at any time, it represents the outside and inside of a girl; The latter is to be given only under the premise of legitimacy and legitimacy.

Then I would like to say that in today's complex social situation, your behavior may not exceed the bottom line of morality, but in terms of China's national conditions and traditional moral concepts, there are indeed considerable risks in what kind of behavior you have.

Lovely girl, have you ever thought that loving someone and being with him is not the only way to feel love. In the days of college students, there is a lot more happiness than the average person, as a college student with both wisdom and talent, you can share a lot of things with each other in addition to the body, always talk cordially, often talk to each other, hold hands happily, meet in the beautiful scenery, you can do a lot of things...

Love is an addictive thing, once you lie next to him, you will feel inseparable from him, and you want to have this feeling all the time, this is your current thought. Baby, don't let this behavior develop any further, and don't try this kind of communication again, no one will be responsible for you, only you can be responsible for yourself, so do you have to think about your way of interacting?

It's okay, it's in love, it's an adult again, and if it's not good, let's talk about it.

It's not too much, you're both adults and you're of legal age to marry. Even if you go to college, as long as your family agrees, you are all married.

It shouldn't be too much, because it's already 20, but it's better not to break the bottom line, because you still have a long way to go, and you still have to work, and you may meet excellent ones at work, but love is blind, because you love him now, because you've done everything, it's just that one step, it's easy to break through the bottom line, and it depends on your own heart, if you want to marry him for the rest of your life, then you have to think about it.

Because that's very important for women.

Hehe, the current society is normal!

As often as it happens, you quickly lose yourself. He is a man, not a saint, and his control is limited. Don't create such opportunities, you're safe.

Don't think how open society is, that's an excuse for men, in order to get more, the brides of men on the red carpet have to be small, only for him, this is called selfishness, very cute selfishness.

If you don't believe me, you can search everywhere on the Internet, do men care about small things? If you don't ask the brother next to you, the kind you want to get married, don't ask the little pup. 22.。。

To be honest, he hasn't been out of society yet, what does he know, does he know what the competition outside is like? Know the pressure on house prices? Do you know the sadness of wages?

Know the family's payment? He doesn't understand any of this, you just say that he is mature, and when he graduates and looks for a job, he will be silent when he asks him about marriage, do you believe it? You have seen too few people, don't jump to conclusions about a person.

I don't think you can go any further, although this society is open, but you have to think about it, can you guarantee that he will be good to you for the rest of your life, after all, you have only been dating for three months, can you be sure that you have understood him in these three months, if you have a relationship with him now, you are not responsible for yourself. After all, you're still a student. What if you have children in the future, then your future will be gone, if he loves you, he will respect you, and then have sex when you really enter and exit society, are truly independent, and have the ability to take responsibility.

Hope you think it through. Be responsible for yourself.

Well, grasp the last hurdle.

I feel that he is still quite cautious, 8 over, emotionally mobilized, but it takes a lot of perseverance, oh, if you really don't like some of his actions, just communicate with him, if he is as he says, he will respect you.

Wishing you all happiness!!

It's not too much, the little girl in junior high school now has to sleep with whom.

No, this boy loves you very much, have you watched "The Love of the Hawthorn Tree"? I feel that your boyfriend is like the third child, very considerate of you, even at the last moment, I can restrain my desires, I hope to save the best for the newlywed, such a boy is really rare, I hope you can take good hold of him, don't regret it after losing it.

I think it's too early for you to think that you will get married and have the determination to go on for the rest of your life, and you can't say anything until the moment it happens, I hope you will grasp the bottom line as a girl, and if he loves you, please respect you, so it will only be good for you, no harm. I read a **: A man says to a woman that you are not willing to give me your most precious things, which shows that you don't love me enough.

To prove your love, please give it to me. Remember, it must have been said by a brute. Once you get it, you'll be discarded.

So please have self-respect, self-esteem, and self-love. That's how he will love you.

It's nothing, it's all an adult. As long as he is sincere and good to you.

Hehe, laugh it off.

It's a similar story.

How to say! Everyone has their own values, outlook on love and outlook on life, it still depends on how you treat it, some people feel nothing, there is nothing strange about being together if you love each other, and some people think that you can only talk about very simple love.

Not too much, I think ......Now in this world, if you are too much, how many people will not be able to live......

When you're an adult, it's okay, isn't it okay to get married in college?

Isn't it nice to have both wishes?

I wish you all happiness

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Happy...

Everyone is pretty much the same, just think about it for yourself and think it's okay. It's not a kid anymore. Right.

It's better not to, because no one knows what will happen in the future. Dedicate yourself to your husband, the one you really love.

This is not too much, such a sweet and sweet love should be cherished.