If you want to be calm and find a way to solve the problem, how can you think about things calmly?

Love is originally a thing that extends from the spirit to the material and finally stays in the material.

No matter how strong the feelings are, there will be times when they fade, so material life and a strong sense of responsibility are the keys to maintaining the relationship between the two after the passion.

You've made a mistake, but you're now struggling with it, and that's the second mistake, and in the long run, you've fallen into an abyss and never got up again.

Stand up, everything is no big deal, since everything is wrong, then you have to live a better life. Because what has happened is always unchangeable. There is no other way to face it with a strong heart.

In this world, the poor are getting poorer and the rich are getting richer; The life of a pessimist is always getting darker, and the life of an optimist is always getting brighter.

The world is objective, but you are subjective, and maybe you can see a completely different world with a different attitude.

That man is so irresponsible to you, it makes you so sad. If you don't cheer up, is it just like the man is to you, irresponsible to your children? Can you bear to let your children suffer as much as you do?

What can people do about the pain they encounter besides being strong.

I admire you so much, I think you only have two ways to go now:

1. Transfer the child to a young couple who cannot have children for adoption and never contact (good for you and good for him)!

Second, find an honest and caring man to marry, divorced (regardless of each child) or infertile can also be considered.

Don't hate that man, thank him for letting you know more about human nature, then maybe you will live a happier life!!

Finally, I still want to wish you and hope that you and your children are happy!

The price of youth.

Everyone's youth comes at a price.

It's just that there is a price for being confused.

Reason comes at a price of sanity.

The price of sanity is a big deal, losing some romantic fantasies.

The cost of confusion sometimes takes a lifetime to make up, bear or resolve.

Obviously. You're not dealing with this question wisely.

What's even more worrying.

If you don't change the way you handle things.

Thankfully.

Your problems arise early.

There is also an opportunity to change yourself.

I won't live my whole life like those old people who bury their grievances all day long.

You first have to change the way you think.

Listen to others.

Let go of the single-minded character.

You'll be a little more mature when dealing with things.

It won't cost too much.

Listening to others is not stupid than others.

Contrary. People who are good at listening to other people's opinions are smart people.

You yourself have changed.

Your world will change.

For now.

You don't want to hide it from your family.

You can get this message out slowly.

They are not in good health right now.

It may not be as good as it is now.

So it's better to tell them now.

But to talk about some methods.

Your family will accommodate you for everything.

After your family supports you.

It is okay to leave small children at home.

You go and earn money to raise the children.

Slowly forget the past.

And then start your new life.

When your heart is clear.

You will find that your lifelong partner will appear.

That's how life is.

When you are ignorant.

It will educate you with pain comparable to ignorance.

I won't make much sense to you.

Only when you understand something.

You will live a relatively peaceful and happy life.

Meantime. When you've been through pain.

You are already on the path to happiness.

So. You can't always dwell on the past.

It does more than make you smart.

The rest is meaningless.

I don't know if you have a job, but first of all, you have to find a way to raise the child, and you also said that the child is innocent, and no matter what mistakes you adults make, the child cannot be involved

For the sake of your children, you should be strong, your family will understand after a long time, don't break their hearts first

I think you should give it to a family you are more familiar with, and then find someone to marry, if you have money, you can come over again, if the child is happy, you can't do it, in fact, although men have a lot of difficulties, but this is always wrong, such a man should not be worthy of love, do you want to go on like this, a woman, a young infatuated woman, according to your current situation, how much happiness can you enjoy with your children? It's better to find another man to marry, so that it will be a better choice for your children and you in the future.

You are a strong woman. You have to believe in yourself!

Don't give up on your children. Take charge and you'll regret it for the rest of your life.

One is your responsibility. Second, you're missing out on his growth. Third, after all, only you can protect him! Isn't it?

Stay away from the man. For you and for your children!!

Stay away from that poison!

For you and your children. Find a true love home!

Bless you! God help the self-helpers!

As long as you think.

Go for it. There is a solution to everything.

I'll send you a little poem:

If it is said. Love can't go on any longer.

Then it. Will it be terminated.

If it is said. It really will terminate.

Then it was at the beginning.

Is it really love?

But if. It did not terminate.

Well it really.

Can't it go on any longer?

Look at the open point, it's not the worst. There are also many single-parent families, and you must believe that the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge.

The best thing to do is to find someone who will accept you completely

Good luck!

Everything has become a reality, I hope you can face it bravely and be a strong mother.

Since ancient times, there has been affection and empty hatred, and this hatred is endless!

No one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful! Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just keep in mind:

Don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait Be brave to look up The sun is always after the wind and rain! I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.

Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't have to think about it, if you still want to, then let yourself be busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, Mu Sosun will get up when he wakes up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax his whole body, and let himself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.

Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.

Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.

Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.

Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful Xunlian. Go for it!

Finally, I wish you a happy life!