What should I do with such a roommate? My roommates are always learning what to do with me

Updated on educate 2024-02-25
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You're paying too much attention to other people's feelings!! In a collective, you have to learn to express your thoughts and make them accept your thoughts, and blindly welcome others, and you lose yourself. In addition, you need to cultivate your own circle of contacts, and don't limit your vision to just a few people around you.

    Remember, wherever there are people, there are rivers and lakes. Where there are rivers and lakes, there are rules of rivers and lakes. You have to make yourself strong, and when you are strong enough, others will not dare to bully you.

    You have to learn to be tolerant and not to care too much about other people's faces. Don't make mistakes too often, and deliberately exercise your self-reliance and self-care skills. A harmonious society, to be kind to others, may you be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Nerve b Either I'm jealous of you, there are too many people like this, what's wrong with him, it's good to be worthy of conscience, just be worthy of principles, don't care about him!! Why bother yourself with pain, no such person is not worth your trouble. Be happy to be yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Through your above statement, I think you are actually a bit introverted and a bully, since that B treats you like this, you can't avoid it, don't meet her. At the same time, in the case that you can't change the dormitory, you can only make it clear to B. If she's still angry and ignores you, forget it.

    Because she doesn't see you as a friend at all. If this is the case, you should tell the teacher to change the dormitory, and you can't let the parents tell the teacher. Actually, it's not a hassle!

    Don't be indecisive, the last one to hurt is yourself! Life is just a few decades, why not live happily, don't let such trivial things spoil your mood!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why is your dormitory so chaotic...If you want to get along with them, be happy, pretend that nothing happened, and it's not a bad thing to be angry.

    Don't be a calculating person, always remind "your patience has no limit"...That's it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It may be that you make B jealous in some ways, you have to be confident, but you also have to adapt to the people around you, and you can get along with different people, so you won't feel lonely, you can't do without her, study hard

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Whether it's A, B or C, you have to rely on yourself in life, respect yourself in order to make others respect you, women, you should be broad-minded, people who can really be your friends will not treat you like this.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can't make a fuss, because you still have to live in college, and you can't go to the dormitory, so the school doesn't care about this little thing; said that I should endure the calm for a while, I have endured it for a long time, and every day is very painful; said that it was not worth the pain for this kind of person, although he secretly said to himself every time, the tears could not be stopped......I'm afraid that sooner or later I'll lose control and cry in front of her, and then I'll definitely blame myself for not being strong, embarrassing or something......I'm scared of that ......

    Everyone, please help me, what can I do with such a roommate so that I can live in peace without pain?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You're paying too much attention to other people's feelings!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, you have to be confident, because you have to feel that they need you, and then you have to be tolerant, even if they really have such tendencies, you must not be pessimistic, always know that it is better to have one more friend than many enemies, so to live optimistically, to see everything as beautiful... The main thing is to see how you deal with it and refuel what you can.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't be afraid, maybe he's jealous of you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. When someone is actually imitating you, it's very likely to annoy you, but you can't do anything about it. Then, when we are not sure of the real intentions of the imitator, we can ignore her for a while, at least it will make us feel more relaxed.

    If you don't know their intentions, let them imitate you, you just have to be yourself, no matter how good the imitation is, but it is fake, you have to know that you are unique.

    My roommates are always learning what to do with me

    Dear, you must be his idol, haha.

    Dear, are you going to solve the problem of not letting him learn from you?

    Yes, my roommate of '98 years has said that she is much braver with me. However, I feel consumed. She learns how you speak and behave, and uses the speaking logic she learns from you to quarrel with you. We're in a room, I don't really want to be learned, I want to acquire.

    Yes, don't want to be learned.

    She's not bad, like you said, I can feel like I'm kind to her, it's just that especially at home, I feel very consumed.

    If you find that the other party is indeed learning your dressing style, talking and doing things, and making yourself feel very annoyed, you might as well think about it from another angle, the other party imitates you, you must be sure in your heart that your dressing style is very good, and you must have advantages in speaking and doing things, and it is worth learning. If you think about it this way, it won't be so annoying. You can also use some dressing styles with her to help her find a style that suits her, which can not only get along with her colleagues, but also reduce the number of times she imitates herself.

    I actually think that these are her life issues, and they have nothing to do with me.

    I just want to work hard, I still have a lot of tasks to achieve, I don't have extra time to help others achieve self-improvement, life issues.

    When someone is actually imitating you, it's very likely to annoy you, but you can't do anything about it. Then, when we are not sure of the real intentions of the imitator, we can ignore her for a while, at least it will make us feel more relaxed. If you don't know their intentions, let them imitate you, you just have to be yourself, no matter how good the imitation is, but it is fake, you have to know that you are unique.

    It's good to have such a little fan girl, <>

    Yes, how comfortable I am, I do feel uncomfortable.

    What others do, we have no right to interfere, that is his freedom, what we do, is not to care too much about these things, things are man-made, the situation is created by the heart! Others can't change it, try to change the perspective of your own thinking.

    You must be excellent, haha, how nice. <>

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. Disrespect for personal space: Everyone should have their own personal space and privacy. However, my roommates like to ignore this and often use my stalker items without consent, or even borrow my stuff without asking my consent beforehand, which is really off-putting.

    Shouting: Dormitories are meant to be places to study and rest, so a quiet environment is very important. However, roommates often frolic loudly late at night or early in the morning, or often invite friends over for parties. Not sleeping in the middle of the night and not letting others sleep well seriously affects the rest of the socks.

    3. Unwilling to work, there are many shared responsibilities and tasks, such as cleaning, handling public affairs, etc. However, the roommates seem indifferent to these things and are unwilling to take responsibility for themselves. Just play on the Kaishou side or watch others do it.

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