The man who cheated on me for a year and now doesn t know how to face it

Updated on society 2024-02-08
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Be yourself and stop thinking about him.

    You don't need to be nostalgic for a man who doesn't love you, it's not worth it, you have to live a more self-fulfilling and wonderful life!

    Be worthy of yourself, worthy of the people who love you!

    Therefore, others say that they would rather choose one who loves them than choose one who they love.

    Keep this lesson in mind!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not all men are like that. It's just that you're less fortunate than other women.

    You are a woman, and you should be cautious in terms of feelings, but you are dizzy in order to love you. Before determining the relationship with each other, it is necessary to understand whether he or she is good or bad, whether the relationship is true or not, and whether he loves you or not. When you understand it clearly, you can devote yourself to it.

    And you, I think you're doing it wrong. It took 1 year and I still didn't know that person.

    So, forget all about it, as a nightmare of the past, a cold wind blowing through your ears. A rain that once drenched my mood. Forget about everything, and after that, you'll be good to go.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't resent him too much, because you chose at the beginning, and now scolding him is a denial of your own beginning, in fact, people have taken the wrong path, life is to face the future, think more about the future, happy life, you all treat him as a fart and let him go, the future is more important, you know? Keep your eyes open, find a good husband, and wish you happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I can only say that he is like that, I hope you don't hate men.

    I was also denied by women, I hope you will be better than me in the future!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Think of it as a test given to you by life, there is no such thing as a smooth sailing life!

    Love is not about facing each other, but about looking in the same direction together!

    He is not the only man like that, and he is not the only man. It's not worth it to accompany your life for this kind of man.

    You will find someone who looks in the same direction as you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I can understand your feelings very well, and I don't know what words to use to comfort you. Because you can't believe it no matter what. I guess the only way for you to get rid of this is to think of it as a favor from heaven for you not to marry that disgusting man.

    I hope you get better!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are still a lot of good men in this world, don't be pessimistic, and wipe your eyes the next time you have a boyfriend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Think more about your future life, don't think about that man and that woman anymore, they are not good people.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't be sad yet, it's not worth it for such a man, I believe you will get better soon. You said he thought it was his former girlfriend when he did it. It's called sexual fantasies.

    Many people have this problem, but some people don't say it. And that's no surprise. I've heard some people say that when they do it, they still think of doing it with a certain celebrity, hehe, he will have a dependence on that person.

    Since he's like that, there's nothing to say. Therefore, it depends on the real party before deeply interacting with him. Bless you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you die like this, it is not lighter than a feather, you must live strongly, there is weight and Taishan!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Everyone will have love, and everyone will fall in love with someone informably. It's just that he doesn't love you! Because loving someone will automatically give a lot--- but you really give a lot, because you are truly in love with him.

    It's not your fault, it's fate playing its trick on you. For a man, reject you from the beginning. He will owe it.

    When he finds out that he can't love you when he is with you, he will be very confused. You believe"Fate"Is it? Thousands of miles to find him, that person is at the place of the lamplight.

    You will have a man who will give you a lot and will really love you. Put this paragraph aside for a while and make it a memory. What you give, the sky will give you a sweeter one!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Although he has hurt you, you have to thank him for making you grow and make you understand life better.

    Only then will you not make the same mistake.

    Cherish the good life now, find a man who really loves you, and your happiness will come!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    All I can say is that I sympathize with you!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First of all, congratulations on the fact that you have a chance to turn back when you didn't make a bigger mistake. How many people are not as lucky as you. So learn your lesson, start a new life, and cherish it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you believe in love too much, you should let him get away from him and forget about him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello, if a man cheats on you, you don't need to believe him, because he can cheat on you for the first time and many, many times.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Personally, I don't feel credible, since I deceived you before, you have to be more careful, and it's best not to have too deep a relationship with him. So as not to be deceived again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's hard to say, if he is important to you, if he is important to you, you will still believe him, if you are important to him, then he will try to make you feel at ease to believe in him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think as long as this man cheats on you, I don't think you should trust this man, because this man will also cheat you again, so you should not listen to any words of this man, or you should do what you should do.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It depends on what has deceived you, and if it is a good lie or a last resort, then it can be forgiven. If there are other things, especially big things, you can't believe it, after all, there are countless times of lying.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't believe the man who cheated on you, once there will be a second time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    One infidelity is not used for life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In life, we may all encounter this kind of thing of being deceived by the other party, if we are deceived by the other party, and then we also find out. So we also need to listen to the other party's arguments and see if the other party has any difficulties.

    Or look at the quality of the other party, if the other party has always lied, there is no need for us to continue with him.

    First, it depends on the nature of the fact that he deceived you.

    In life, if he cheats on you, or if the nature is not too serious, you can forgive it, and if it is a matter of principle, if you can't forgive it, you can also confess it to the other party.

    Second, look at the other party's attitude.

    First of all as a victim.

    We also have to look at the other person's attitude, if the other person feels that he is not wrong at all, or if the attitude is very bad, then there is no need to continue.

    Third, you can also tolerate each other.

    If the other party does something to deceive us, it may be that we are not generous enough, so we also try to tolerate the other party, to forgive the other party, and make the other party feel that it is easier to confess.

    So in life, when we face feelings, we must talk to each other and go to each other, there is no one to hide, if we can deceive each other in the relationship, such a relationship will not last too long, because after all, between two people, it also needs a lot of trust, if the other party has been deceived, he will also be very angry.

    So in life, whether it is a boy or a girl, we need to cherish each other, in the relationship, we don't want to deceive each other about anything, so that two people can have a better relationship, and two people can go longer, so in the face of feelings, we must be tolerant, considerate of each other, and be able to understand each other, so that we will not have this kind of deception.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think it's okay for you to face him with a calm mind, and at this time you need to calm yourself down, and if you have anything to say, you can just say it and see how he explains.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Face him with the mentality of a friend. Your boyfriend has cheated on you for more than a year, which means that he doesn't love you at all, so in the face of someone who doesn't love you, you communicate with him as a friend.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your boyfriend has cheated on you for more than a year, you should face him with a normal mentality, don't feel that you have been wronged or what's wrong, you don't take it to heart and treat this matter as if you were blind.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If your boyfriend has been cheating on you for more than a year. When you know the truth, you have to stay away from this**. Because your boyfriend's integrity is not high.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You should face it with a calm attitude, since you know that your boyfriend cheated on you, at the right time, I think you should still break up with your boyfriend and don't take this man to heart, because he is not worth it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The boyfriend cheated on himself for a year, and this psychology is unacceptable. The most intolerable thing for a girl in a relationship is deception and betrayal.

    So you and your boyfriend are separated for a while, and the two of you calm down and think about whether you want to continue or not.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think we should face it calmly, everything goes with the flow, if you can get along, if you can't, you can separate, after all, no one can tolerate deception.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Why would he lie to you? It depends on what the reason is, if it is for your own good, it is afraid that you will be hurt and lie to you, it is a white lie that can be forgiven, and if it is a deliberate deception that deceives you for the sake of deceiving you, it cannot be forgiven.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    In your love life, if the other party cheats on you, I don't think it's necessary to live with him. If it's a white lie, it's barely acceptable. If you really like him, you can listen to his explanation.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It depends on what your boyfriend is cheating on you, and if it's a matter of principle, I don't think it's forgivable. If it's a small thing, then you can teach him a lesson.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    has deceived you for more than a year, you should wake up in time, she has no real feelings for you, or cut off all contact with him early.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Summary. Hello, dear, it's a pleasure to serve you If a man cheats on you just by cheating on your feelings, I don't think you have any other way but to break up with him immediately. But if he hurts you or owes you money, you can call the police and let the police deal with him.

    Hello, dear, it's a pleasure to serve you If a man cheats on you just by cheating on your feelings, I don't think you have any other way but to break up with him immediately. But if he hurts you or owes you money, you can call the police and let the police deal with him.

    First of all, be calm, be calm! Impulsiveness is the devil, it will cause things to become more chaotic, and impulsiveness will not solve the problem, you must stabilize your emotions first; Analyze the problem and analyze the severity of the matter, if it is just a joke or an unimportant thing, if you feel that you can tolerate it, simply mention or ignore it, if the matter is very serious, you must understand it clearly.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Summary. Kiss Keep calm 1, first of all, calm down, be calm! Impulsiveness is the devil, it will cause things to become more chaotic, and impulsiveness will not solve the problem, you must stabilize your emotions first; 2. Analyze the problem and analyze the severity of the matter, if it is just a joke or an unimportant thing, if you feel that you can bear it, simply mention or ignore it, if the matter is very serious, you must understand it clearly; 3. Find a time to sit down and talk to each other, provided that the emotions of both parties are stable, and listen to how your boyfriend explains; 4. Self-judgment says that a person in love is like a child, don't simply listen to what the other party says, it is possible that the other party's explanation is also deceiving you, you must have self-judgment, you can also ask your friends around you, and the bystanders are confused;

    Kiss Keep calm 1, first of all, calm down, be calm! Impulsiveness is the devil, it will cause things to become more chaotic, and impulsiveness will not solve the problem, you must stabilize your emotions first; 2. Analyze the problem and analyze the severity of the matter, if it is just a joke or an unimportant thing, if you feel that you can bear it, simply mention or ignore it, if the matter is very serious, you must understand it clearly; 3. Find a time to sit down and talk to each other, provided that the emotions of both parties are stable, and listen to how your boyfriend explains; 4. Self-judgment says that a person in love is like a child, don't simply listen to what the other party says, it is possible that the other party's explanation is also deceiving you, you must have self-judgment, you can also ask your friends around you, and the bystanders are confused;

    Kiss 5, selective forgiveness If you only occasionally deceive, the relationship between the two parties is very good before, you can forgive once, after all, people are not saints and sages who can do nothing 6, quickly cut through the mess If your boyfriend is often cheating on you, you must break up, a man who often cheats on you is unreliable, the most important thing for the two to be together is honesty, the boyfriend has been cheating, there is a crack in the emotional foundation, and it is difficult to be together for a long time.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Everything can't be generalized, that's too arbitrary, in fact, sometimes it's a good thing to suffer a little loss, we can learn a lot, isn't it just that people experience these unhappy and unpleasant things to grow up slowly? In the future, pay more attention to yourself.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    First of all, you have to think about why men lied to you, and why you were so easy to be with them in the first place

    Are you cautious and careful, even if it takes a little longer to test it, if the person who leaves you after a long time will definitely be eliminated first.

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