I m 16 years old, and I don t know what my future will be like or what I m going to do

Silly child, how can you give up studying, if you give up now, your future will be even worse. You're going to be seventeen soon, you live in Italy, your English must be very good, you're about to go to university, all you have to do now is work hard, I know you should have heard a lot of changes in these similar words, but it's a fact, you need to work hard to do your coursework well, if you study now, it will only bring more pressure to your parents, your family and yourself. I know it's hard to get you to learn a lesson you don't like, but there are so many things you want, and you have to overcome it.

I really don't believe that you can't learn two or three points a day? You put in four or five times more effort than others, and you can't succeed in the time. I don't believe the world is so unfair.

Your schoolwork will be easier for your parents, and you are their hope! They give you so much that you can't even satisfy them with learning? I'll tell you the truth, I used to be a star, I really worked hard for it, and when I said this dream of mine, my mother said in front of the family, you are a fool!

Ignorant, you want to be a star, you don't study well, and you don't look good, get out! I kid you not, she really told me that. What a hurt for a little girl!

Since then I've made up my mind that I'm going to show you if I can do it! I'm trying, I can't get better! But it's still sad to think about that sentence.

You said you didn't make good use of it, and now you don't want to make good use of it? For your own future, the future of your family, learning is your way out! You can't give up your way out!

You still have unfinished dreams, how can you stop? Really, study well and your future 。。 Pure hand-to-hand, you can still ask me about any troubles.

I have also experienced your experience, I once didn't find a suitable job for half a year, I was very disappointed, and I lost confidence in life! I can't stay scared all day, and I don't dare to contact my friends.

Later, I persevered, I first found a random job, worked for three months and then changed jobs, found a job that I was interested in, and my circle of friends gradually expanded, and now I have met a few very good friends.

Only after experiencing it can you know that no matter how strong you are on the outside, you may be as fragile as a straw on your heart.

You need to re-establish your faith, God, there is no endless way! Believe in yourself, existence is reasonable! Take your time, life is still a long way to go! Yesterday I just passed my 26th birthday, and I have entered 27, and I believe that as long as I persevere, I will be able to make a difference before I turn 30!

In the same way, you must persevere! First of all, you have to find a job to restore your confidence, and then you can start a better business!

You should think carefully about what kind of life you really want and determine a direction for yourself first. It may be that you suddenly change to a different work environment and are very uncomfortable, so you can't persevere. Life is like this, this is the process that every job seeker must go through, you should adjust your mentality and become strong as soon as possible.

In fact, life and work are just a tool for human survival, as long as you like it, then what kind of decisions you make are good.

Then you don't have to do something blindly, it's easy to make mistakes when you have no direction and no opinion! To be a man must have goals, ideals, and directions, I hope you can find your life sailboat to navigate, and happily sail to the other side of your life's happiness Come on! Don't panic!

Be patient and wait for the opportunity to change your sense of confusion and loss

Married? As the saying goes, starting a business after starting a family is for those who have no direction in life, because after starting a family, you will have a sense of responsibility, and your wife and children need you to protect them. The same is true for women, with a family and him, and with a child, there is motivation and direction.

In your spare time, adjust your mentality, ask yourself, what strengths, or capital, and then recreate your own blue sky.

Life is inherently plain, as long as you don't worry about food and clothing, be happy, don't think so much.

Then empty yourself and think about it quietly.

The problems you have are common in your generation and are universal. Let me give you some advice.

1. You are more aware of the communication difficulties you encounter, family parent-child conflicts and other problems. But what the root cause, I don't think you know. The first is that some of your parents' educational ideas about you are wrong, which leads to your rebellion, even though they have good intentions, you do not accept it.

The second is that there is a problem with your way of life, your values, and the principles of interacting with others, which may be related to your upbringing when you were a child. However, these things are causing you a lot of trouble.

2. It is recommended that you adjust your mentality and the way you interact with people. If you want others to be kind to you and enthusiastic about you, you should also treat them with the same attitude, so as to receive the effect you want. In addition, you should have a kind of you are stronger than me, and I am stronger than you through hard work, and you can gain psychological self-confidence.

A person learns to do things, and learning to be a person is to learn in specific things, such as the way of dealing with others, the recognition of others, etc.

I think you just need to adjust yourself a little bit, and at your wonderful age of 16, you're going to get good results.