It s very difficult, what should I do? Are you embarrassed about yourself?

Let him chase you again, if he really wants to get back together, he won't give up because you pretend not to feel it, and if he gives up, it means that he doesn't really love you.

Good horses don't eat back grass, the scenery in front will be better, you should be open-minded to find a better boy, why hang yourself from a tree, you feel like you can't let go of him now, that's the feeling that you are still attached to being with him, real love won't be broken like this. Think about it yourself!

Hehe, I have also encountered this situation, I was moved at the time, but later regretted it, no matter how good he was to me in the future, it was not the simple heart that he used to be. So, I don't think it's better to say yes. Forget him slowly, there is no grass at the end of the world, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

Actually, you don't feel too restrained to avoid it. Will it be hard for yourself?

In fact, you can go if you want. Don't bother with so much stuff. If he wants to get back together with you, I don't think he'll be willing to let you say that. I'm just giving some advice...Support you.

Maybe he just understands the truth that "it's best to lose it", and that's it - people sometimes overcomplicate things.

Talk to him well and I'm sure you'll have the best choice!

Bless you 1

Hehe, you're really conflicted right now.

Is it because of you that he is making peace with you now? Did you just find out how good you are as a person? Still is. What is the purpose. It's not good to be suspicious under it.

Find out why he broke up with you and make a decision.

It depends on why he proposed to break up and why he wants to reconcile

Category: Annoyances >> in love.

Problem description: My current boyfriend has no future, he is a part-time worker, and there is a person who likes me, who is in graduate school, in comparison, he is better than my boyfriend, I am sometimes very annoyed by my current boyfriend, he always quarrels with me because of very small things, he doesn't know how to tolerate me, sometimes he really wants to leave him, but he has not been able to make up his mind, it is really difficult for Huaiwu. My parents met my boyfriend and weren't very happy. What do I say, what should I do?

Analysis: You will annoy your current boyfriend because he will not be considerate of you, and will not comfort or coax you. But you love him, and if you don't love him, you won't be inseparable from him now.

Love will fade because of time, but it is not gone. Why don't you think about how he feels? Maybe he knows that there is a boy who is better than himself who loves you, and he is afraid of losing you; Maybe when he met your parents, the look your parents gave him made him understand that they were not satisfied.

These are all pressures, there is no way to compare with a graduate student who works part-time, but the hundreds of dollars he earns from his part-time job are all spent for you, you will be happy with his money like liquid, and you will be sad when you watch him work hard for you. It's all love.

Love will not be blamed by everyone, you love him, whether he is a leader or a country boy, you will not dislike him, because you love him. That's enough!

Have you ever heard of "Love When You're Dead"? Did you think about it in his heart? Happiness, what kind of happiness do you want?

Is there a man who truly loves you, is willing to take care of you with his labor all his life, and is willing to work hard for you? Or something else? Think about it, and you'll know what to do!

— Ernest Hemingway.

1.Embarrassing yourself.

When we first joined the work, we all had longing and curiosity, and we would eventually face difficulties and challenges in the face of many unknowns.

At this time, in fact, it is embarrassing for yourself.

For a goal, for the obsession in your heart. We will seek, explore and experience. I thought about giving up, but never gave up. Because, how hard you worked in the past, if you choose to give up, then the efforts of this process will be in vain.

In the process of embarrassing myself, I experienced a real sense of anxiety. Confused and hesitant.

Finally, it grows. I am willing to accept everything in life from the heart, and I also have the courage to face difficulties.

Every sublimation is built in a less comfortable environment. Start new experiences again and again.

In the process of embarrassing myself, progress has been made.

2.Don't embarrass yourself.

As you improve your abilities, you will slowly indulge yourself. I also choose to do the work. Likes to do things that aren't so annoying. Live in your comfort zone.

Sometimes I give myself some excuses and give up.

If we try to jump and try our best, but in the end we still don't get results. We will doubt ourselves, and we will also bring more confusion and low self-esteem to ourselves. If you choose to give up as soon as you start counting the burns, deep down, there is still a trace of comfort, and you may be able to achieve the goal you want, but you are not willing to try.

Sometimes they just choose to give up.

Some of the past experiences have taught us which difficulties are meaningful and which are meaningless. Directly choose to give up based on your own experience. Was this decision really the right one? If it's right, it makes sense to choose to give up.

How easy it is to give up. chose to give up, and naturally there was no anxiety. Mental and physical state is good. That feeling is addictive.

If you choose not to embarrass yourself and give up, you will naturally not be able to make progress.

3.Or choose to embarrass yourself.

At the end of 2020, I changed to a new job. There are two jobs.

One point is that the salary is a little lower, the skill growth is average, but there is no overtime, and the pressure is less.

One point is that the salary is a little higher, and the skills have grown well, but there is a lot of overtime and a lot of pressure.

4.My impressions.

The beauty of flowers is because they sway again and again in the wind and rain.

The freedom of the fish is because it has been shuttled again and again in crisis.

You are strong because you choose to embarrass yourself again and again. Even though the snail crawls slowly, it never stops.

I believe. You will make the same choice. Like a snail, crawl slowly in the wind and rain.

Because, that's how everyone crawls over.