A gentleman is more terrible than a real villain, help explain the meaning

Hypocrites are more terrible than real villains.

Ordinary hypocrites seem to be loyal and honest, and some are very modest and enthusiastic, and no one will doubt that they can do bad things.

In fact, it is not the case, once the hypocrite's character is refined, he has a wonderful set of masks, and he wraps his true face very tightly, and he never shows the slightest flaw. This generation specializes in stealth arrows to hurt people, and its strengths include borrowing knives to kill people and blame others. Plain, no matter how calculating in his heart, he never moves on the surface, and even sells you secretly, and you have to count the money happily for him, without noticing at all.

This generation is quite accurate in grasping the whole person's mouth, never taking it lightly, and once the time is ripe, he will be extremely ruthless. And the conscience is gone, even friends don't want to be spared.

Hypocrites are more terrible than real villains. True villains are like vicious dogs chasing and biting people, you can be on guard in advance, dodge, and you can also fight back when appropriate. And the hypocrite is the dog who steals the bite behind his back, so that you have no defense, only the part of the injury.

In this way, who dares to say that hypocrites are not more terrible than real villains? In my opinion, it is not only more terrible, but simply more hateful and hateful!

Gentlemen are very stubborn and often fail to compromise and cater to the team. Although the villain is hateful, there are some critical moments that can often be consistent with the interests of the team, and the punishment for the villain's mistakes is that the gentleman makes mistakes, often apologizes and everyone lets her go, and the result is a mistake after mistake.

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Summary. Dear, hello, the true gentleman of the non-villain means that the description of this person is not a selfish person. He is a person who is responsible, responsible, and dedicated.

A villain is a selfish person. Self-interest is the center of the situation, and it is possible to harm others. A true gentleman is often used to describe a person who is true and noble, and the true gentleman is consistent in his words and deeds.

Hypocrites are inconsistent in what they say and what they do. The deep meaning of this sentence is that the other party has recognized your character and feels that you are a real good person and a real gentleman. is a person worthy of deep friendship.

Dear, hello, the true gentleman of the non-villain means that the description of this person is not a selfish person. It is a person who has responsibility, responsibility and dedication. A villain is a selfish person.

Bending the chain with self-interest as the center may harm others. A true gentleman is often used to describe a person who is true and noble, and the true gentleman is consistent in his words and deeds. Hypocrites are inconsistent in what they say and what they do.

The deep meaning of this sentence is that the other party has recognized your character and feels that you are a real clan, a good person, and a real gentleman. is a person worthy of deep friendship. <>

1. Gentleman: Having both ability and political integrity, being courteous in writing, doing something and not doing something, helping the world at the same time, and being poor is the ideal personality pursued by the Chinese for more than 2,000 years.

2. Villain: refers to a person with a low personality.

Source: The so-called "near gentleman, far villain" is from (Zhuge Liang's "Teacher Table").

Meaning: We should have more contact with characters like the gentleman and less with characters like villains. And what is a gentleman, that is, magnanimous, loving in his heart, thinking about things openly, and not caring about things, while a villain is narrow-minded, small-bellied, possessive, jealous, and behind the front of people.

The more formal definition is: the villain is said to be profitable, and the gentleman is to be righteous.

According to the Confucian method of division, people are generally divided into villains, gentlemen, sages, and sages. The simple way to distinguish is to do things that are beneficial to others as the standard, the villain is deceitful, has no integrity, and does not do what he says;

A gentleman does what he says;

A virtuous man is one who does what he says;

The saint did not say anything.

Based on the above simple judgment criteria, you will know that you should trust people above the gentleman. But the difficult thing is that some people sometimes behave as gentlemen, and sometimes as villains. It's up to you.

Gentleman: Be able to sincerely point out the shortcomings of others in front of others.

Villain: often point out the shortcomings of others after others'Dot.

The meaning of this sentence is: although the gentleman suffers, he will still meet other gentlemen in the end and achieve his success, and the villain should not care about him, because the villain will finally get retribution for the actions of other villains.

From Zhao Wenzhu's "Song of the Layman". Original text: I can see through it, I can't bear it, and the fire in my heart is hard to extinguish because of Youhe. It is difficult for a gentleman to be a gentleman, and the villain has his own villain. Suffering losses and accumulating blessings, debts are hard to hide, what are you angry about?

The villain is greedy for profit, and the gentleman is famous.

The first thing the villain does in order to get the desire for profit is to observe, the more exquisite the villain, the more he can always discover the essence of all things, wait for the opportunity, and always do not easily expose his true purpose and strength. It's a lot like a woman. Therefore, the things he discovers are always very close to the objective facts, and he will not do it if he is not sure.

In the absence of discovering the true strength of things, he is not willing to take the plunge.

A gentleman pays attention to honor, believes in benevolence and righteousness, and has a cause and effect. A gentleman is open-minded, not chaotic, and his heart is kind and gentle. But it was also this honor that finally ruined the gentleman's life.

A gentleman, as his name suggests, must be proud, and what he thinks of must be how to help others, how to cultivate himself, work together, and rule the world with a lot of theories. and ignoring the objective facts, ignoring the human heart, and ignoring the use of villains. He pays more attention to the spiritual level.

It is undeniable that the will and character of a gentleman will not change due to the changes of the current situation, and consistency is his tone. But let's not forget that circumstances change and times can be turbulent. The better the gentleman, the worse the ending, and in terms of flexibility, the gentleman is not as good.

The reason for this is because of intolerance and unwisdom. It can be said that the gentleman, who may be a little more stupid, does not have the habit of observing things and improvising. When a gentleman sees a disaster, his heart is always full of sympathy, he is not afraid of death, but he lacks the means, the means to achieve.

It often ends in depression.

Sometimes, you might as well learn from the villain, the villain's observation, the villain's methods, and the villain's trade-offs. The silence of the villain, the formlessness of the villain. These are all very good skills.

Only in this way can we learn from the Yi and govern the country. A gentleman is frank, introverted and self-disciplined, and trustworthy in terms of character and humanity. It can be said that the gentleman is the temperament brought by the innate reed, while the villain needs to be constantly run-in.

Those who win the hearts of the people will do what they like, and they will learn from them. If you want to get a gentleman, give him enough fame and honor, and if you want to take advantage of the villain, give him a little sweetness. To be a man, you should take the villain as a teacher, learn to transcend, practice iron-blooded means, and treat the gentleman as a friend, encourage yourself to strive for self-improvement, and achieve immortal will.

The villain is good, and the gentleman is good. Each has its own merits, and each has its own failures.

A small person, may be more detail-oriented.

A gentleman may pay more attention to attitude.

One material, one spiritual.

As for the person you love, as long as you love enough, you will change for the rock, arrange your life in an orderly manner, and be happy and happy. Even to the point of giving up their lives. In this world, there is only family, and there is no care.

A villain, after all, is a villain, just like a cat, and a gentleman is a gentleman after all, just like a dog. But if the owner is smart enough, it is actually useful.

Look at the chapter of "Xingshi Hengyan" Zhang Xiaoji Chen Liuzhi Confession Uncle, there is a passage in which the text is very classic, and I will record it here, "If you can be born, you can't be rich; You can be rich, but you can't teach it. Dead and alive, poor and rich, villain and gentleman. "The ancients paid attention to education, and education is to teach and transform, what to teach and how to teach, there must always be a direction, and this direction is to turn the people who are taught into what they are.

It is the parents who give life, and the parents can give life to their children, but they may not be able to give their children wealth, even if the parents give their children wealth, they may not be able to educate their children to be excellent people. Xiao Hegui is the Xiangguo of the Western Han Dynasty, and he must live in a poor place when he buys a field house, and he does not govern the house for his home. Said:

Later generations of sages, teachers and I am thrifty; If you are not virtuous, you will not be taken by the powerful". It can be seen that although the wealth and nobility of children are rare, they can always be obtained, but their virtuous or unworthy are almost uncertain, and education is an extremely important thing.

The three-character scripture says, "If the son does not teach, the father is wrong, the teaching is not strict, and the teacher is lazy." The education of children is not only the responsibility of the family, but also the responsibility of the teacher, and in this era, it is the responsibility of society. Education and education, both to teach, but also to educate, teaching is the means, education is the goal, education is education, today's education seems to pay too much attention to cultural achievements, and the requirements for virtue are relatively less important.

Especially between parents and society, if parents' personal practice and social exemplary role are contrary to what is taught, then what children listen to and watch, learn and do will be completely different, so how can they educate people. People who are educated in this way, even if they are born wealthy, may eventually be gained by powerful families.

This education cannot be understood as a matter of the school only, but also the matter of the whole society, and this society must have some pursuit of "life from death, rich from poor, villain and gentleman". I have been working for 16 or 7 years, and I have met all kinds of people, and I used to naively think that "people who do bad things are not necessarily bad people, maybe they just do wrong things". I always tell them some examples of the prodigal son who does not change his money, but the reality has always made me see people who make mistakes again and again and never look back, which also shows how difficult it is to be a "villain and a gentleman".

Whether it is the country and society, or parents and teachers, we must form a common goal for what kind of people to educate and what kind of future to build, and strive to cultivate more gentlemen and build a moral future. "Talent and virtue are all called saints, talents and virtues are called fools, virtues are called gentlemen, and talents are villains. Whoever takes people by the art of taking people will not be able to get a saint, and a gentleman will be with him, and it is better to get a fool than to get a villain."

Moral education is very important, and to educate people, we must first cultivate a moral person.