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It is useless to forgive people of low quality! He will not feel guilty for his mistakes, and he will come back next time, which may one day lead to tragedy!
For this matter, you can first complain to the bus operator, if the other party is still unable to deal with it, it is recommended that you let ** expose the matter.
Indulgence and nurturing adultery has never been a sign of good quality!!
Chinese people, wake up, don't worry about yourself anymore, hang high! Think about it, what would you do if someone in your family was treated like this?
Additional note to the landlord: Even if you don't write down the work number and bus number, please recall how many buses it is, what direction it is, what time it is at which stop, and the characteristics of the driver and the abusive shrew (most likely the conductor). If you are exposed, you can ask your friends to go to the bus fleet to point out exactly which two people are in person!
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Forgive me, this can show that you are of higher quality, and you don't care about people with low quality, and that's the only way, you have more important things, and there is no need to put your mind on it.
Unless they interfere with you severely.
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It can be heard everywhere now"Ethics and Law"If morality is no longer there for them, then the opinion can be punished! This kind of thing should be complained, otherwise they will continue to hurt others; But you must not scold him, then he will have no quality.
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Complain and complain again. But it doesn't work in many places, depending on your city
If there is no way to complain, then forget it, after all, it is just a small episode, and the past is over Why make yourself uncomfortable.
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If apologizing is really that important, if he doesn't apologize and you will lose a piece of meat, then what qualifications do you have to say that people are of low quality? When you feel that the other party is of low quality, you will disdain his apology. That way, there's nothing to solve, isn't it?
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Maybe some people are hateful, some people are mean. And when I put myself in his imagination, I realized: he is more pitiful than me. So please forgive all the people you have met, good or bad.
We do have a difficult life, we have to endure all kinds of external pressures, and we have to face our own inner confusion. In the midst of struggling, if someone looks at you with understanding, you will feel a kind of warmth of life, perhaps just a brief glance is enough to make me feel excited.
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The only way to deal with this kind of person is to fight poison with poison.
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If you can't change, accept it!!
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Forget it in the past, be smart in the future, and just remember the license plate number.
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Don't reason with unreasonable people.
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Show your self-cultivation to unreasonable people.
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When encountering people with low quality around us, we can deal with them from the following aspects:
1.Hold your horses. Don't lose your emotions because of the other person's behavior, keep a calm attitude, think calmly, and look for solutions to problems.
2.Try to avoid contact. If the other person's behavior bothers or affects you, try to avoid contact with them and reduce your interactions with them.
3.Lead by example and spread positive energy. In their own behavior, pay attention to quality and etiquette, lead by example, and let the people around you feel positive energy.
4.Express your opinion reasonably. If the other person's behavior affects the person, you can express your opinion appropriately and let the other person know how you feel, but pay attention to the wording and tone, and try to avoid arguments and conflicts.
5.Actively guide others. If you have the opportunity, you can guide others appropriately, remind them to pay attention to their words and deeds, and cultivate their qualities and etiquette.
In short, we should treat people with low quality, with a peaceful and lacking mentality, minimize negative emotions, pay attention to self-cultivation, and actively transmit positive energy to guide others, so that we and the people around us can live a healthier and more positive life.
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You can't control what the people around you are. Maybe you can't get used to what some people do, so you think it's all the other person's fault. There are objective factors in this:
Some people may not be very good, and there is also a subjective factor: your perception of others is not very good. Therefore it is recommended that you:
Relax your mind, don't pay special attention to the bad of others, focus on improving yourself, make yourself better and more confident. When you change your own concept of Sun Tangerine, the good or bad of others will not matter so much. But if you really encounter someone with low quality, just stay away, and you don't have to let irrelevant people bother.
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Stay away from them, or they will you off.
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It can only be said that it will be affected after a long time.
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You can communicate with him easily at work, and any normal communication is not necessary to avoid, but don't let him enter your heart, don't let him unconsciously show his low emotional intelligence and low quality in front of you, making you feel uncomfortable, which will outweigh the losses.
Another point is respect. Even if this person is not good, it is not good, and there is no need to deliberately stay away from him or complain about him with others, because after all, you still have to get along with each other, you also said, the other party is a person with a high IQ, I will temporarily understand him here as wisdom, agility, and ability.
Such a person usually does not make trouble unreasonably, as long as he can feel that you respect him, even if you are not close, he will give you the same respect, on the contrary, he is so capable and has a relatively low emotional intelligence, and openly provoking him is likely to make him slap your IQ on you.
In fact, as long as you take it easy, try to see the excellent parts of him, and encourage him if he doesn't.
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There is no need to argue with him.
When you encounter a low-quality person, you don't need to argue with him, no matter how reasonable you say, he will not agree with your point of view, but will make the matter bigger and bigger. So when you find out that the person you are talking to is a person who is not very good at quality, you should immediately end the conversation with him, there is no need for us to talk to such a person. Instead of wasting on arguing with him, it is better to change to a quality person, so that the problem can be solved faster.
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For people with low quality, it is necessary to treat them with a high profile. People with low quality will inevitably speak foul language and will be impolite. So you don't educate and criticize him directly, you have to know more about etiquette, speak and behave politely, and others will inevitably look at you with admiration.
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In real life, you must meet people with low quality, if you meet this kind of person, the best way is to turn a blind eye, or stay away, because you have no way to change him, what you can change is to change yourself, because your behavior has not been able to improve his quality, so just turn a blind eye, or stay away, this is the best way to deal with it, you are the best way to deal with it.
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When you encounter a person with low quality and can't be reasonable, the best way is to stay away from him. It's okay to be polite to him, but don't socialize, just be yourself.
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If you come across a person with low quality. The best way to stay away from him is to stay away from him. Because this person loves to gossip about other people. It's better to talk less nonsense with him. Save yourself a lot of trouble. So get away from such people.
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If you meet a low-quality person and are very angry, then it is possible to say that you have the same level of cognition as him, and a truly mature person will be very calm when he encounters a low-quality person, not to blame, but to be tolerant, and use his own behavior to give the other party a better and exemplary role.
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If you don't want to waste your tongue and energy to communicate with people with low quality, then just turn a deaf ear and let him toss by himself, saying that he is tired, he will naturally stop talking, and we also have to be affected by this kind of person's heart, affecting their own mood, which is very unworthy.
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There are many low-quality people, and there are also many people with bad morals, and we will often encounter such people. Then it's good not to have the same knowledge as them, because you can't correct their prejudices and qualities, but when you encounter conflicts, you have to fight for reason, justice is awe-inspiring, don't let these villains succeed, otherwise they will become more and more rampant, and they will also endanger other people.
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When you encounter a person with low quality, you will either oppose it and go back, or you will stay away from this person.
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He should be kept away. A person of low quality is like garbage, and whoever is next to him will be unlucky.
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When you encounter low-quality people, stay away and don't entangle too much with these people.
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No matter what kind of person you meet, just smile and smile.
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Go to someone who is more qualified than you who is willing to meet you, so that you can throw the problem at others.
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Walk away and avoid contact with people of low quality to save time and energy.
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I can use any method I encounter.
If the quality is very low, use a direct method, and it doesn't work to use indirect methods for behavioral influence!
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There is a saying that when a dog bites you, will you bite it back? I won't, but if someone with a low quality provokes me, I'll still give them a beating first.
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I used to meet a polite customer, I thought he was impressed by my temperament, and later found out that he was polite to everyone I realized that people were polite to me because of their high quality, nothing to do with me, ashamed of my life.
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In the face of such an unqualified person, I will give him a hint, and if he doesn't listen, he won't force it, because this is people's rights and freedoms, and I won't contradict him because of this matter!
1. Stop being angry and unbalanced. I've heard the logic: never deal with someone with low quality, because he will pull you into his logic and then beat you.
If we regret that we want to deal with them, we will become people with the same low quality as them, and we will fall into the trap set by others, and if we do not say anything, we will also become low quality in the eyes of others. The right thing to do: stop all negative emotions now!
2. Shift the focus. Don't blindly look at who is right and who is wrong in the end, but put it in the matter itself and consider how to solve it first. In this way, not only can the mood be better, but also the admiration of the people around you, because reason is always more important than the bottom of the matter.
3. Solution. Take retreat as advance, and go as the best policy. Since it has been determined that the matter cannot be dealt with satisfactorily, then in the face of this lack of acres of garbage, people do not have to bother to talk and go.
And keep smiling with a high profile. Because they can become garbage people, their lives must be full of all kinds of unsatisfactory, and time is precious, so don't waste a good time.
Fourth, start from yourself and set goals. If you can't change others and your surroundings, work hard and study, set long-term goals, and stay away from your current state and environment. People go to higher places, and the same mood changes when they go high, and they understand the feelings of compassion and compassion, even if they encounter the same garbage people again, they will look at it with different eyes.
I can understand and sympathize.
5. Learn to release and forget. You can choose some ways to vent your unpleasantness. For example, running, listening, and sleeping are all good choices. Use actions to make yourself forget all kinds of unpleasantness.
6. Don't pass on negative emotions to others. For example, tell your relatives and friends about today's unhappiness, and scold the garbage people for their lack of quality. In this way, there are also negative emotions in the hearts of others.
Negative emotions are contagious, and it is the right thing to do to quickly forget the unpleasantness and bring positive energy to others.
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Respect for others is a noble virtue and an outward manifestation of one's inner cultivation. But for what the subject said, someone yelled at you in public, deliberately stumbled to make you ugly, and called you "alas" without calling your name. These behaviors are all signs of disrespect for you.
So what do we do if we encounter such a thing in our lives?
1. Turn a blind eye.
There are long and short fingers, and the quality of people is also high and low. Respect is mutual, and if someone doesn't respect you, you treat him like air. If you feel angry, treat them in the same way, and you will not become a person like him.
Such things cannot be avoided, and it is inevitable that you will encounter some unqualified people in life, so you should not see anything and avoid it, out of sight and out of mind. You tell him by your actions that you don't take them seriously at all. He's just directing and acting like a clown.
2. Do the opposite.
He doesn't respect you just to make you angry, and the silver accompanies you to block you. You just pretend you don't know anything, smile at him, be polite to him, and show great respect for him. The more rude he says, the more polite you will be in reply.
This will naturally make the other party feel embarrassed.
3. Trying to communicate.
Some people may not have high quality due to tutoring. Sometimes it may be because you have some misunderstandings with others, so others will deliberately target you and deliberately disrespect you and embarrass you. You can find an opportunity for two people to have a good chat, and if the communication is fruitless, the farther away such people will be in the future, the better.
However, you must not blindly tolerate it, otherwise you will only let the other party gain an inch. You can confront him with a bright edge, a high level of stupidity, and a righteous land. But you must grasp the degree well, and you must show your self-cultivation.
Fourth, strengthen yourself.
This is the main method, only when you are capable enough, others will not despise you, let alone disrespect you. If you're a leader, who of your employees would dare to yell at you. People who don't respect you just look at you as a bully.
So you have to make yourself stronger, you have to tell yourself that you are not afraid of him, you have to overwhelm him in ability.
Again, respect is mutual. If you encounter such a situation in life, you must deal with it skillfully. In addition, we must also understand that if you want to be respected by others, you must first respect others.
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