My mother didn t understand my hard work at all.

It's a mother-in-law, and my own mother won't be like this. My mother only cooks all kinds of food I like, and I wipe my mouth and watch TV, and I never have to clean up.

In fact, your mother is so good to you, you don't need to treat her like that, he should actually be very happy in his heart, after all, his child cooked for her!!

In fact, you should find a time for the mother and daughter to have a good talk, so that the mother can experience it from your point of view, and it is good to communicate!

Mom didn't actually mean to blame you, she just said it. Menopausal mothers will be a little nagging, but in fact, they don't blame you in their hearts, they just don't find the right tone to talk to you. Don't throw a tantrum with your mother.

This is the reaction of your parents' inertia, you don't force yourself too much, feel tired, why don't you try to divide and cooperate, for example, you cook a day's food, your mother cooks a day's food, it's fair, in fact, I have experienced your emotions, but you said that you cook for her to share, what's wrong with your mother, she is very busy and tired or what is the reason for you to share? If that's the case and you're cooking, then your mom should clean up the kitchen and try to communicate with your mom, and you can't always solve the problem by saying your boredom here.

Alas! Your mother also works hard, and sometimes I think about it from a different perspective, so bear with it. In fact, sometimes we complain that our parents don't understand us, but how much do we understand them?

Communicate with your parents... My mom sometimes does that, but I just hold back. Think more about how good our parents are to us, pity the parents of the world, you are their flesh, how can they not feel distressed?

There is a generation gap between children and their parents, that is, there is a lack of communication, and if you have something to say, don't hold it in your heart.

First, unintentional.

Second, if you feel tired, you can communicate with her, she will understand you, don't bury it in your heart, the only person in the world you can say to her is a mother.

The maintenance of family affection also requires mutual understanding and communication.

It's just this time, it's not that your mother doesn't understand you, it's that you misunderstand her, maybe your mother just said it casually, as for it?

She is your mother, and it is right to do things for her, saying that you have to accept it with an open mind.

Talk to her more, it's not easy for her to raise you so big with a handful of and urine.

Mom just talks casually, don't mind too much, how can two mothers and daughters have an overnight feud?

Anyway, parents love you, and it is recommended to watch the movie "Children Are Not Stupid" may inspire you.

The generation gap between the two generations plus the fact that she doesn't understand you or doesn't trust you.

This is the sorrow of the current society, and it is also the sadness of this generation.

I don't know what it is.

Just one word, a combination of work and rest, try it.

Someday she'll understand.

Do you understand her painstaking efforts?

Maybe your mom is exercising you.

Mom doesn't understand you, it may be due to the big age difference between you, there is a generation gap, or it may be a lack of sufficient communication and exchanges, not particularly familiar with and understanding each other, and do not consider the problem from each other's point of view, always think about themselves, so there will be a lot of contradictions, so I will give you some advice from my personal experience, I hope it will help you.

1. Empathize and understand your mother's feelings.

Mom will always treat you as a child who has not grown up, and when your mother cares about her life and work in every detail, you must learn to empathize and understand your mother's feelings.

Mom worked hard to raise you, her concern for you is not that she is not at ease with you and wants to control you, she is just reluctant to let go, and she can't adapt to your growth too fast for a while, away from her protection.

When you learn to empathize, you will not be disgusted by your mother's care for you, and you can take the initiative to tell your mother about your situation to reassure her. Mom is relieved, and she won't ask you in detail.

Second, don't collide, take a step back and open the sky.

Mom will always intervene in your life with her own life experience, guiding your life with "I eat more salt than you walk".

In this case, you don't have to confront your mother, the stubbornness of the older generation is often reflected in the fact that the more you contradict her, the more she wants to interfere with you.

When she uses her life experience to guide you, you can pretend to agree to her advice.

Take a step back and don't contradict her, as for how you carry out her guidance, just use your wisdom.

3. Learn to communicate and coax your mother with sweet words.

In your heart, you may feel that your mother is old and has a big generation gap with you, and sometimes you just don't want to communicate with your mother.

If you don't communicate with your mother, the more the gap between you and your mother will be, and the more you won't know how to get along with your mother.

If you often coax your mother with sweet words and communicate more with your mother, you will find that the generation gap between you and your mother has narrowed, you will communicate smoothly, and you will get along with your mother more and more smoothly.

So in the end, I summarized a little experience and education, that is, no matter what, my mother is my elder, and it is not easy to support myself from childhood to adulthood, so as Xiaobo, especially for children, it is better to understand and bear more, don't be angry with them, or have general knowledge with them, and know how to be filial to my mother and give my mother the most sincere love, only in this way can we make the relationship better and better, do you think what I said makes sense? If you agree with it, then support it.

The method is as follows: 1. Think calmly and don't get angry. When your mom doesn't understand you, don't get upset, calm down and think about what is causing this phenomenon.

2. Learn to face it calmly. Some people may not be able to accept this situation for a while, especially children who have always been very close to their mothers in the past. As the child grows, the amount of time spent with the mother will inevitably decrease, which is also a cause of problems.

So, learn to face it calmly, it's just a small problem between mother and child.

3. Seek solutions to problems. Don't ignore this situation, it will only make the generation gap between mothers and children widen, and we should actively seek solutions to solve the problem. Have a serious talk with your mom and tell them what you want, and I'm sure they will understand you.

4. Find someone to talk to. If you feel wronged and depressed, you can also find someone to talk to and listen to their opinions. In fact, this kind of thing will happen in almost every family in the Regret Cave, and the advice of others can make you better understand this matter.

This problem, my understanding is that the parents don't love their children, the parents are all from the past, and they haven't learned anything about their friends, and the seniors have eaten more virtuous salt than we have walked. It's not that my parents don't understand me, I'm afraid that you have the wrong way, no matter what you want to do, you must communicate with them first, parents must weigh whether it works, how much power there is in the family to help you, etc., can't help you, I will definitely not agree, now you young people go out with a gun, do whatever you want, think about things are more crisp, say that you young children have a lot of things that you can't communicate with your parents, don't understand each other, it's incredible, no matter what you do, you think about it first, You do a few good things to let your parents see, parents admire you, so that parents don't trust you, parents feel that their children are okay, what they do like what, it is a quick and useful material, so that you do anything in the future Your parents trust you, and you will understand each other well in the future, whenever you communicate with your parents in the future, and persuade them of your reasons, they will not be unwilling, I am also a person from the past, I also have children, and I say that I know these problems, I am the last, the child is older, It's just that the children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and Kitan doesn't care. When you are older, you will understand the responsibilities of your parents, and it will be good to communicate with your parents more in the future to achieve mutual understanding

There is a cognitive gap between you and your mother, and if you can't be unified, there will be a lot of friction. It is closely related to a person's thoughts, insights, and emotional intelligence.

The environment in which my mother grew up determined her cognition. If she was a person in the sixties and seventies, the social background, economic situation, and interpersonal relations at that time would not be the same as today. For example, they are simpler in thought, and the trust between people is relatively high.

The way they communicate is to write more and play less. The food they eat is more natural and GMO-free. Then in the mother's consciousness, everything in life is worthy of affirmation.

However, after twenty or thirty years of changes, the economy has taken a rapid turn. The gap between rich and poor is wide, and some people tend to enjoy life. The pursuit of fame and fortune for money is stronger.

Desires break people's hearts, and people's minds will be subverted in an instant. People have become no longer trusting, and the human touch is cold.

Through this contrast of time and space, there is an element of catharsis in the mother's cognition. And you were born in modernization and grew up in a period of high economy, so naturally you can't understand your mother's past and the way you do things.

There is only rational analysis, and the reason between mom and you is there. In real life, be true to yourself. Calmly handle the relationship with your mother.

Let the voice that the mother does not understand become a word of advice. And it's not up to you to decide how to do it!

I don't think my mother understands me, I've been so sad lately, I feel like I'm the only one in the world who doesn't understand.

Some time ago, I listened to the "Break and Leave" in the Himalayan app, I think it makes a lot of sense, when it is broken, when it is broken, when it is gone, when it is left, when it should be separated, but my mother doesn't understand this truth, the family is very messy, but she always feels that these things at home will be useful in the future, and those things have to be kept. And there are always a lot of things, toilet paper, toothpaste, and shampoo at home. But she said to buy more while it was cheap, in case it will be expensive in the future!

I'd like to say what if it's cheaper in the future!

Today's classmates asked me to eat Malatang, my mother asked who there was, I said that the last time I ate barbecue, today there are two men and two women, my mother didn't say agree or disagree, so I went out, and when I came back, I said, don't play with those men, don't wait for people to misunderstand or something, what I said made me very reluctant to listen, I retorted a few words, it was also, it was impossible, it was just junior high school classmates, I had to be interesting to you for a meal, do you have a good impression of me, it's so big, After my mother cooked, she asked me if you were going or not, and I said that people would finish eating at twelve o'clock, and my mother was cooking at twelve o'clock. I feel very aggrieved, this is obviously a very normal friendship, but she doesn't think so. When I was a child, I lived at my grandmother's house, probably in the fourth grade, and then I never went out to play, when I was in junior high school, they went out on Saturdays and Sundays, but I couldn't, I sometimes had work to do at home, and there was almost no chance to go out anyway.

I envy those classmates, for whom the weekend is beautiful and exciting, and I am thinking, it's the weekend again, what work does I have to do at home, and I have to finish my homework quickly. Also, watching TV at home requires my mother's consent, and I don't dare to turn on the TV casually at home, and now that I think about it, I feel a little pitiful when I was a child!

My personality is like this, a little timid, this has a lot to do with my parents, every time I want to do something, I have to think about it for a long time, whether to say it or not, under normal circumstances, I tell my mother, and the result is negative. This leads to a lot of things I don't want to say to her now, there is really no common language, it's not that I don't want to say it, it's that every time I say it, she will pour cold water on me again, and my mother has a short temper, every time we can't say good, then there is no need to tell her anymore, and my heart is even more blocked.

Mom doesn't understand!

Then communicate more with your mother. Try to understand each other.

Moms are getting old, and children are growing.

There will always be contradictions during this period. These issues should be viewed from the perspective of development.

Psychologically, parents and children do not understand each other.

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Hello, my mother doesn't understand me because I'm too busy at work, and I don't communicate with my mother much, and there is some estrangement between the two sides, so there are some things that my mother doesn't understand you very well.

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Hello, my mother doesn't understand me because I'm too busy at work, and I don't communicate with my mother much, and there is some estrangement between the two sides, so there are some things that my mother doesn't understand you very well.

My mom is okay with me, but I'm 20 years old, and I've stepped into society, my mom still likes to control my freedom, completely restricts me, can't see me, scolds me, he doesn't listen to what I say, I'm really annoyed with her.

The reason for this is because: Mother doesn't understand you, because your mother is old, usually you are busy with your career outside, there are fewer opportunities to go home, your mother communicates with you less, the two sides lack some communication, and your mother doesn't understand your young people's affairs too much, so you pay less attention to your mother, and the two people have some alienation, so there are some aspects that both sides do not understand, you can talk to your mother more, spend more time with your mother, and you can eliminate the estrangement between the two sides. Dear, if you ask this question, you can also tell the teacher about your specific situation, and let the teacher help you judge and help you.

I hope it can help you, I wish you a happy life and all the best, and I hope you will come to me next time you have questions.

Dear, if that's the case, you still have to communicate more with your mother, and it will be better if both parties reach a consensus on some things.

I can't communicate with her, she likes to think crankily very much, so she likes to take care of me.

Dear, what are your plans?

Dear, if you don't want to live with your parents like this, do you plan to go out and live alone, away from them?

I want to run away from home.

Dear, that's okay too.

Dear, you're an adult, you can go outside by yourself.

She was always bothering me and kept texting me.

Dear, why is that.

Dear, she always bothers you and affects your work and study.

affected. It also affected my mood.

Dear, what message did she send you.

Dear, you mainly want to live an independent life alone, you think that you have grown up and do not want to be treated as a child by your parents anymore.