My friend never told her boyfriend how old she was and how many months older she was.

The first question is that because the girl has a feeling of deceiving the other party in her heart, the age must be made clear, otherwise the girl will be very awkward to put this matter in her heart.

Then determine the question, does her boyfriend really mind the fact that his girlfriend is a few months older than him?

If you don't mind, there's no need to worry about it. Your boyfriend may also think she's kind and cute.

If he minds, it depends on how much he minds, and if he minds less, then it can be resolved with their feelings.

If he minds very much and feels cheated, it can only be said that this man is too cautious, and the age is not determined by himself, and if the two break up because of this incident, it can only be said that God is destined.

The key is how much the boy loves your friend now, if he loves her very much and cares about her, I don't know if he likes it, then it will only be better to say it, if he is the kind of person who wants to find someone younger than himself, and then after seeing your friend's real age, he feels that he has an idea in his heart and feels cheated, some people can't pass their own level, for this type, I think you also need to say, the reason is very simple, this is the end or say that it is just a different result.

It's only a few months away, so it shouldn't be a knot. If this matter becomes a knot, it just means that you are not mature for each other.

It's okay to have a sister-brother relationship now.

I think you should tentatively ask him if he wants to call this again, and if he does call again, you should tell him that long-term pain is better than short-term pain, because I am afraid that one day he will know the truth and make everyone unhappy, or divorce will not be good.

It's only been a few months, so it's not a ......

It's just a few months old... Are they really serious???

Old husband and young wife, old wife and young husband, such a husband and wife are not much different from the comparison of husband and wife, but are relatively harmonious in the process of getting along with each other. Here to reiterate: our next problem is definitely not to encourage soft rice, sugar daddy and other biased marriage choices, we pay more attention to the sincerity of emotions, the harmony and happiness of marriage!

So, is it normal for couples to have a 10-year age difference in age? Normal, of course! There are three reasons for this:

Clause. First, the family life is more harmonious, and the run-in between husband and wife will be smooth;

Clause. Second, the conflict between husband and wife is easy to resolve, and it is easy to accept empathy;

Clause. 3. Age is not a big issue, any marriage needs to be sincere.

Next, we will elaborate on these three specific reasons and give reasonable suggestions, I believe you will get what you deserve.

Family life will be more harmonious, and the run-in between husband and wife will be smooth.

As the saying goes: "A female freshman holds a golden rooster; Female sophomore, Golden Slam; Female junior, hugging gold bricks; Female senior, blessed longevity; The fifth female college, the old mother; Female sophomore, not enough fun; Female big seven, smiling; Female eighth, quasi-rich; Female Dajiu, everything; Female college ten, everything is worth. ”

Although this widely circulated saying can't explain anything, in real life, the marriage model of "old husband and young wife, old wife and young husband" can indeed be more harmonious. The reason why it is more harmonious in family life is mainly because couples have advantages in getting along in two aspects:

Run-in of living habits: small conflicts between husband and wife caused by trivial family matters will rarely occur for couples with a large age difference. Looking at this from a psychological point of view, older couples may be more tolerant and mature.

Older partners are often able to tolerate their partner's minor faults and accommodate each other in their habits. This mode of getting along is conducive to the run-in of living habits. In fact, as long as both parties are attracted to each other and the husband and wife fit well, such a family life will naturally be more harmonious.

Run-in of the personalities of the two sides: The personalities of people are very different, and everyone has their own personality, which in itself cannot be unified. Under such a premise, husband and wife need to accept each other's personalities and try to understand each other with a more mature and tolerant attitude.

This kind of relationship is more willing to be endured by older couples, because of their ability to behave in the world brought about by their social experience. Acceptance, tolerance, and understanding are conducive to the run-in of the personalities of husband and wife.

In short, after experiencing the baptism of society, the older partner is more mature and stable, and this quality will be used by the other party in all aspects of life, including marriage. Because of this, couples with a large age difference will be more harmonious in family life, and the run-in between husband and wife will be smooth.

The conflict between husband and wife is easy to resolve, and it is easy to accept empathy.

Conflicts between husband and wife are inevitable, and the key lies in how we resolve them, so as to avoid the continuous accumulation of marital conflicts and cause a greater marital crisis. If you want to resolve the conflict between husband and wife, the most effective way is to "empathize".

Empathy is a process of psychological experience between people and people. Will.

This is the protection of your love, because tell others the truth about your age, let others judge it, what is the need?

It's too big, even if it's true love now, it won't be in the future. Women are not anti-aging in the first place, let alone so much. He is reluctant to reveal your age to others, which shows that he still minds deep down.

If you tell someone that you are ten years older than your boyfriend, you are proud to have face. On the contrary, the boyfriend will lose face.

Good afternoon, it's nothing, it has nothing to do with whether or not you are in true love. There are a number of other aspects that can be considered.

The reluctance to disclose your age may be to protect you and fear that you will be harmed? Think about it.

The above is my opinion for your reference.

I hope it can help you, and I hope to be able to adopt it.

Whether true love is true or not has to pass the test of life! It would be child's play to draw conclusions based on one sentence.

This all requires a process, and if you don't want to, you have concerns. Thinking a little too much. In fact, age is not an issue between true love.

What true love is, I think is fearless.

No, a person who loves you will show it unconsciously, there will be no hiding, you think clearly, a man who does not announce that he has you as a girlfriend in his circle of friends is still greedy for the outside world.