Should I go on! Do you want to continue!

Girls are starting to be more reserved and need face. That's right, too. It's not good to say yes directly. Because if you don't have any difficulty with him, he may not cherish you in the future. So you are also right to reply like this.

If you continue to understand what he means. There is a way to do this now.

For example, one day, at a suitable time, you call him a ** and say that your bike is broken down on the road. Ask him if he can help? After that, eat together. By the way, talk about other topics.

So that your association may continue ... This solves the problem that he no longer contacts you and you want to continue to know more.

Also, how to tell if the boy can, I suggest 2 points.

First of all. People: to be good (to deal with people, responsibility, ability, etc.).

And then there's. Money: It is better to have a foundation (no or a poor foundation is also secondary).

The third is to show your gentle feminine charm through understanding and making him like you, because he is "good", so that the result is that someone will eventually become married.

Can you give points?

I just ran into a similar problem to you, I'm also a girl, hehe, I received 13 of them, and ten people persuaded me to give up. Personally, I also think that I haven't done anything with him now, and I have already started to look like this, and there may not be any big changes in the future, so I would rather gamble once in my life.

Try to get along.

Let's take a closer look.

Deepen understanding, deepen feelings, maybe he is not what you think.

Maybe he also has some scruples or other reasons for not contacting you, you can also take the initiative to contact him, such as sending one or two ** messages or asking Hou to do so, try to communicate, and then there is nothing to regret if you don't pull down, at least you have worked hard, don't leave any regrets for the future.

You can try to have a relationship.

Oh, let's try it...

Honest people are good. At least safe.

Have you tried to find him?

Or if you look for him ...See what happens.

Hehe. I am not a party. I don't know.

Or if you can. Why don't you try dating? On the premise of getting married, isn't it necessary to date first, become a boyfriend and girlfriend, and then look at it and then make a decision. If the relationship is not suitable, it is OK to break up again. If appropriate, then consider getting married.

Since they met on the premise of marriage, the boy naturally went to date you for the purpose of marriage, but you said that you just want to be ordinary friends, and of course the boy will not waste time with you, which should be the reason why he doesn't look for you!

I suggest that you don't hesitate or regret it, and think it out for yourself, after all, marriage is a big event, a lifelong event! Be careful.

I have a girlfriend who has been very troubled recently, and she has arranged a family affair at home, but she is not particularly satisfied with the man, but due to the pressure of the elderly in the family, she has no match to keep in touch with each other. There is an infinite tangle behind it. I feel close to your situation.

This situation is personally divided into the following situations:

1.The girl doesn't love you enough, she hasn't changed her state for you, and she is wandering between being single and you, because for her, what has changed is her own life status, so you need to give the other party more of a sense of security in the life state with you and deepen the degree of understanding.

2.The girl doesn't love you, but she has to contact you because of the pressure. This choice is in you, whether you accept that you love each other more in the early stage, can also be understood as an assessment of the weight of this woman in your heart.

3.She treats you as a spare tire, and keeps ambiguous with other men, you are one of the fish ponds, this doesn't take much, it's a matter of character, and you can retreat quickly.

In short, the key is in two aspects, whether a girl's character quality is good. It's just slow heating, entanglement, or examining you, or bad character. Second, how much you like the girl.

Hello, seeing your ** and text description, I can only say that this girl either has someone she likes for a long time, or she just wants to maintain an ordinary friend relationship with you.

Therefore, it is not recommended to continue to get along, because the other party has no intention of developing a relationship with you, just a friendship.

I talked to her openly in April, and she said that I wouldn't talk to her, and I might not message her for a week.

Brother, let's end it early. She is obviously not interested in you, chasing girls, setting a deadline for herself, one month, if you are affectionate, you can be three months, five months, but no more, more is torturing yourself, if she really has feelings for you, she will not let you wait that long.

The old brother upstairs said that it makes sense, I used to be in a similar situation to you, I have known you for 8 years, and I have also reached the point where you know, saying that you know more, but in fact, you don't like it or don't like it, there is nothing you don't understand.

Now that you have a certain understanding, and you know more or less what the other party thinks, why deceive yourself if you obviously don't want to be a partner, since you have already sent out the question, you dare to face the answer in your heart, in fact, you already know it in your heart.