What should I do if I have a negative attitude towards life?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Is it that you are too demanding in life. You have enough to eat and dress warmly. In some areas, only two meals a day are eaten, and only one bottle of water can be drunk a day.

    You have a computer to play with, you have a mobile phone, some people can't even afford to use it. If you are poor, perhaps, you are thinking that other people's mobile phones are Apple, clothes are Nike, and BMW drives, but after all, such people are in the minority. Besides, people like you look like you are happy, but in fact they are not necessarily happy.

    On the one hand, the family background is good, the requirements for themselves are high, and the pressure on them to study is not necessarily small, on the other hand, the object of their comparison is not the poor, but richer than them, they still feel that they have less, they want to go abroad, they feel that their BMW car is not good (BMW cars are also good or bad), and they feel that their villa is not big enough. Maybe they will also think that the friends around them are fake. If you are rich, you have a BMW, a villa, an iPhone, and so many things, and your friends are sincere, they are sincere to you, and you doubt them, they naturally don't want to be friends with you.

    You have parents, no matter how bad you are, even if you are a murderer, your parents will not give up on you and want you to live. Although siblings sometimes clash over certain interests, if you do die, they will be sad. Because, you live well, there are few accidental disasters, and your relatives subconsciously think that you will live well, so they will grab what everyone wants with you, and grabbing something will not affect you, and it will be good for you.

    But if you are really dying, they will definitely let you, just because you are relatives and hope you are well.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What you need is performance, you often think of yourself as an outsider, and gradually you even think that you are, and gradually you feel that you can't fit into other people's groups, and you start to be disgusted with the world......The depressed mood is actually self-inflicted, what you need is the approval of others, objective approval, which is impossible. You should take the initiative, you know, you need to perform, go on the stage and podium more, friends gatherings are more limelight, really, don't dare to force yourself to be on it, otherwise you will be unhappy for the rest of your life, suicide I think you are unwilling, right, you try, listen to it or not.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You must have suffered some setback or blow in your life, right? It's okay, watch more positive, positive TV, books, listen to **, exercise more, and it's good after a long time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then look for the things or people that are important to you, because for a person, there is family, friendship, love, no matter which, as long as you love one of them, then you also have the motivation to change, I wish you happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Do you feel that life is sometimes a bit repetitive, but you are like an outsider watching things develop indifferently? Hehe, this is only occasional, and time will be indifferent.

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