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Honest people are always bullied by villains? Just use these 3 tricks to deal with them, it's simple and effective.
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Some people often move out of the cold mountains to find conversations to talk about things. Said yes:
Just put up with him, let him, ignore him, stay a few more years and watch him.
The Putian murderer has been tolerating, and after a few years, the matter has not been resolved, and their family is still being bullied.
Therefore, I think that if you find it, it will not be able to solve the contradiction without envy, and his words may be suitable for the contradiction between monks in the monastery, but it is not very suitable for society.
No matter in **, you will encounter the situation of unreasonable strong people bullying the weak, so if you want not to be bullied, what should you do?
I think it's okay to give one and two, but not three or four. If the other party bullies you for the third time, you must resolutely fight back, no matter how weak you are and how strong the other party is, you must try your best to fight back against the other party. Let the other party know that you let him before, out of courtesy, not afraid of him, you are not easy to provoke.
In human society, good people care for others. But some bad people like to bully others, and this other person must be an honest person who is easy to bully and is timid and afraid. Therefore, in front of the bad guys, don't be honest, be hard bones, if the bad guys want to gnaw your bone, you desperately have to knock his teeth down for him.
Only in this way can we protect ourselves, not turn small things into big things, and be safe and sound with each other.
Don't blindly endure it, keep enduring, after a long time, there will always be a time when you can't bear it, when the grievances and grievances accumulate too much, people will collapse, often lose understanding, and make big mistakes. Putian is the case, and in the end, both sides will lose.
Strengthen yourself, and solve problems as soon as possible.
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Perfection is God, mortal beings, there will always be some places that will provoke others. Even if you are sleek and have no ball thorns, there will always be people who don't like you, this is the subtlety of human nature. Nowadays, human relations have become an art, there is so much knowledge in it, as the saying goes, if you don't do things, you can't grow wise, and everyone is trying to find a shortcut that can make communication between people easier.
Where is this road in**? Let's look for it from the "people who have come over".
If two people's personalities are like fire, it is easy to happen when there is friction or dispute, and the final result can only be a lose-lose situation, which is not good for anyone. But if one side is willing to take a step back and is willing to play the role of the water system, then the result is bound to be more optimistic, and I believe that "fire" will eventually be subdued by "water".
Maybe you come into contact with a stranger every day, remember, no matter what others say about him, you must not treat him with any prejudice, you can assume that he is friendly, so that he can become your friend.
When you have a quarrel with others, you should take the initiative to "say sorry" and greet others, learn to discover the shining points in others and learn to tolerate their shortcomings, so that your mentality can be balanced and you will be more positive.
In the face of annoying people, people you can't understand, people who have a stalemate in a relationship, here are a few things you can try:
1. Consider the problem from the other party's point of view, look at the advantages of others instead of biting the shortcomings, and learn to be tolerant.
2. Respect each other, care about each other, praise each other more, and don't be reluctant to open Chrysostom.
3. Get along with aggressive people, and the other party's words don't have to be taken to heart, except for insulting people.
4. When the relationship is stalemate or deteriorates, you must take the initiative to express friendship, and don't love face and embarrassment.
5. Don't come hard, do what he likes, if the other party likes to rub it, then ask him to rub it privately to improve the relationship.
6. The ability of interpersonal communication is very important, and the ability of interpersonal adaptation is even more important.
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Why are you afraid of villains slapping your face?
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1. "The world deceives me, slanders me, insults me, laughs at me, despises me, and despises me, how should I deal with it?" The next sentence is:
Just endure him, let him, let him, avoid him, bear with him, respect him, ignore him, stay for a few more years, and look at him. ”
From "Cold Mountain Pick-up Question".
2. Original text: In the past, Hanshan asked and said: "There are people in the world who slander me, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, despise me, despise me, hate me, and deceive me, how to deal with it?"
He said: "Just endure him, let him, let him, avoid him, bear with him, respect him, ignore him, stay for a few more years, and you will see him." ”
Han Shanyun: "What else is there to hide?" ”
"I have seen Maitreya Bodhisattva, and now you hear me recite it." “
Interpretation: In the past, Hanshan asked: "If someone in the world slanders me, bullies me, insults me, ridicules me, despises me, tramples on me, disgusts me, and deceives me, what should I do?"
He said: "Just endure him, let him, leave him alone, avoid him, teach him patiently, respect him, ignore him, and wait a few years, you will see what will happen to him." ”
Hanshan asked, "Is there any mantra that can be used to avoid him?" ”
He said, "I once watched Maitreya Bodhisattva, and now you listen to me tell you." ”
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Maybe it will be useful to read Wang Yangming's book.