Can my boyfriend and I go on forever? It s all adults, thank you, I hope you give some advice 10

He's testing you. Say something meaty. If he ignores you, you'll be sad.

Isn't that all the same?

Chinese are still very conservative from the bones, so you can't be too active, you have to use your advantages and charm to attract him, don't take the initiative to give her **, want to capture and indulge. Don't worry, don't blame him, you think that you love him, then your task is to make him fall in love with you too, maybe now he is just 60 points for you, you can turn it into points. Have faith!

In fact, if both parties feel good at the beginning, they will enter the run-in period earlier, which is the most difficult time, at this time both sides are a process of mutual temptation, not necessarily if there is less talk is not like you, maybe he thinks you also like him, there are things he can know without saying anything, some people are like this, they are very enthusiastic about you at first, and then suddenly they are cold to you, sometimes he is testing you, if you are also cold to him, he will be cranky, and then take the initiative to contact you, But it can be done occasionally, it is very important to maintain the freshness and heat of the relationship, it will hurt the feelings if you treat it coldly, sometimes the more you like it, the more you have nothing to say, because he thinks you know, you don't need to explain, so you can be more appropriate, enthusiastic, occasionally cold treatment, see his reaction, if he wants to see you, he will naturally look for you, so you must know how to put it away freely, if you want to catch the way of indulgence, love also requires skills, come on.

What do you mean? Now tell you, he doesn't like him as much as you do, can you break up Ao? How can there be as much as two people when they are in love, that only exists in the phone story, the prince and the princess are in love, and they live a happy and sweet life!!

, there's no such thing in reality. I still call my boyfriend every day that I don't like him as much, isn't it very good now?

Well... Feelings are something you have to feel by yourself, if you like it, you like it, if you don't like it, even if you break up, you have to leave no regrets, and the relationship is to fight for yourself [I hope you and your boyfriend have been going through this paragraph].

Your mother is more vain, and your boyfriend is not very rich, so there are these contradictions. Just because your boyfriend's family is not extravagant and wasteful, so you can live a good life, and your mother is like this, it is indeed excessive, but there is also a compromise, or you discuss it with your boyfriend first, and then discuss it with your mother, bargaining at both ends is your business, pay attention to respect both sides, your mother is like this, your boyfriend and his family must be a little unhappy, you have to be more considerate of him. And Mom, although it is not easy for her to pull you on her own, it is enough to have a basic living condition.

Besides, if you talk about things that are very bad before marriage, you can be tactful, and slowly fight for your mother in the future, and you don't necessarily have to put it on the table. In one, boyfriend, also let him understand your mother, don't worry if it's not suitable, take your time.

Everyone is different. I don't know what happened to other people, I just know that my mother didn't spend so much, I wonder if your mother is planning to save some money? I feel that your boyfriend is good enough for you, but what I want to say is that the third clause of the prenuptial agreement that your mother made for you is probably not to let you suffer, because your boyfriend's family is very rich, even if you divorce later, it is not difficult to find a girl again, after all, you are still too young to get married so early, and it is very difficult to find a boyfriend after you are afraid that you will get divorced in the future, and it is even more difficult if you have children.

So what I want to say is that most parents want their children to live well, and they don't want their children to suffer. Listen to your mother in general and don't let yourself suffer. Listen to your boyfriend on the small side.

But you also have to be in a good sense of proportion.

I wish you happiness.

Belle.. I can call you that. Because if you want to find a good condition, you must be beautiful, have temperament, self-cultivation, education, and connotation.

I think you have everything else, but the most important thing is to have a parent who loves you, even if you only have a mother, that should be the premise of loving you. Isn't it?

But judging by the conditions put forward by your mother. I really didn't see that he ** loved you. Just think of you as a money-making pole, an ATM for her enjoyment...

I'm sure this kind of thinking is not only unacceptable to your boyfriend. Because your boyfriend is married to you, he is not married to you and must also support your mother, it is obvious that your mother's calculation is wrong, she introduced your boyfriend to you from the beginning when you were 17 years old, she thought that you might not learn as well as marry, so he did not urge you to study hard but introduced your boyfriend to you. She thinks she can control you and thus your boyfriend.

She thought wrong.,Take your filial piety and your boyfriend's respect as it should be.。。 That's the biggest mistake ...

Friendly reminder. Your boyfriend is a very nice man. It's true..

He promised to give your mother living expenses every month, which is impossible for ordinary white-collar workers in ordinary families, not to mention that your mother still has a salary, your boyfriend has promised to give a few thousand yuan a month, isn't it great?

You directly reject your mother, hoping that she will think about your happiness and don't let your boyfriend and in-laws think that you are an extremely mercenary person, even if your mother is, you are not !。

Happiness is something you have to grasp. Don't wait until your boyfriend loses patience with your mom and loses patience with you to regret it. Your mother's conditions are not acceptable to normal people at all.

So it's okay for you to just refuse it yourself. Don't let your mother-in-law think that your mother's conditions are too harsh, and think that your mother loves money at all... If that...

Then even if you marry him, your life will not be easy ...

I hope you are happy... Take control of your own happiness. Do not north your mother to sway and destroy ...

Your mother is indeed a bit excessive, this matter has to be thought about by yourself, whether you are marrying your boyfriend for love, or for his big house, car, your mother's vanity ideas, to put it mildly, is that a mother, that is a "human trafficker".

Your mother is too much, it's best to find your aunt is a sister to your mother, provided that your aunt is reasonable, let your aunt communicate with your mother! I know you're embarrassed! But it's true that your mother has gone too far!

I want you to rethink the issue of marriage, at this time, it is a pressure for you to mention marriage!

I think your mother's request is a bit excessive, to put it simply, your mother is a greedy person. Your boyfriend is already benevolent enough to do this.

Ask your mom why she is doing this, for you or for herself.

You're so young, and your mind is not yet mature!

I think I want to break up, the ones I saw earlier, I feel that he is all to satisfy his self-esteem or cover up his place where he doesn't want others to find out, I can only say that he is more inferior, but the last one who plays the game, is it not a harmless little shortcoming, this is gambling, okay, it's too scary, maybe the average person doesn't have any gamblers, but I have personally felt it, if there is a person in your family who gambles, it is like someone taking drugs, it will drain all your property, if he is addicted to gambling, It doesn't matter if you live or die, take the money to gamble first. And every gambling person, is a small gambling start, and then gambling for a long time, I know a lot of people, these people will pull him to gamble, when you really hang yourself too late, I have a deep understanding, and gambling addiction, absolutely absolutely no possibility to quit, is really quite terrifying, I tell the truth, you may not like to listen, listen to it will not do, but I don't score, I said: this kind of man hurry up and leave, you will never be happy with him, let alone happy, You will never be able to live in the future, the "person" I have seen is exactly the same as your current boyfriend, I won't say that I am my Shenma person, fortunately I don't have much intersection with him, otherwise I would have fallen into the frieze, but I saw with my own eyes that his wife was about to give birth, and knelt down everywhere to borrow money from him to pay off his ......debts

Also, do you think he really has a good temper, I haven't seen a gambling person with a good temper, you two are not married now, he also knows what he has done, and he himself feels that he is at a loss, so let you, once you get married, I really can't imagine what kind of thing he will do. It's only been two and a half years, and many people talk about seven or eight years of separation, you don't give up your future life, your children's future life, and even your parents' future life for the sake of two people having such a sweet relationship, I really really watched how "that person" harmed his family.

Maybe you think, "It's as serious as you say", I really ......The "person" I saw, graduated from the party school, worked in the local super popularity, all kinds of benefits are very good, and won what awards in the province, enough to be motivated, enough to be promising, is gambling, at the beginning everyone felt that "he will not do this kind of thing", and later because the debt collector went to his unit to make trouble, okay, go home to reflect, everyone felt that "he should get a lesson to change", but no one thought that he is really not a ghost now, borrowing money to gamble, borrowing money to pay off debts, Therefore, there are signs of great evil. Your boyfriend is really not a good sign.

1, he shouldn't be a **:) he said his white lies, which is indeed reasonable. A lot of people around us wouldn't even admit that it was a lie, at least he did.

2. In fact, many behaviors are difficult to define, such as whether the family conditions are good or bad, there is no certain standard, and he is not wrong when he says it is not bad; He is unemployed, anxious for his self-esteem and afraid of your worries, saying that he is still working, which can even be understood as loving you; But when it comes to the game, he's really going too far.

3. Overall, your boyfriend should be a person with a more flexible mind and more skills. In his eyes, he is the most important, interests are the most important, and then feelings are the most important. Many people appreciate such people.

4. You can find these problems, which shows that you are a person with high requirements for moral character, and you must be an upright and good person, only in this way can you find these problems of his, and he can admit that they are lies.

5. A person can change anything, but virtue is difficult to change. You should think calmly, what are your ideals for your future marriage and family? Have a car and a house, which is enviable?

Or do you live a simple life, happiness and beauty? Marriage object, can not be measured by the pros outweigh the disadvantages or the disadvantages outweigh the pros, the future road is still very long, if you want to be down-to-earth and at ease, I advise you to be cautious!

First of all, you are very conflicted now, it has been two and a half years, it is not easy to remember, after a long time, the rest is not how much you love him, but habit.

Secondly, according to psychological analysis, it can be seen that your boyfriend is a dishonest but self-esteem person with a flexible mind, and you can see through so many disguises of him, but you are a smart woman, and a smart and strong woman has a way to change him.

In the end, these problems can be found in different places all the time, what happens if two people are often together, some people are one before marriage and the other after marriage.

So, although I didn't give a direct answer, because we don't understand the situation, I suggest that the two of you stay together more, observe more, try to change your bad habits, and make him believe in you, if there is no trust between two people, it is difficult to go on, if you find out that he is lying to you, the first time, it doesn't matter, you can tell him: "The family conditions are not good, I don't dislike it; It's normal to be unemployed; You like people, people don't like you, and you are not RMB, how can you make everyone like it; There's no money to play the game, I'll give it to you, as long as you don't lie to me.

I don't think there should be cheating between boyfriends and girlfriends. He really can't quit playing that game, so you have to ask yourself if you can tolerate this shortcoming of his, and if not, then divide it. Even if you don't divide it, you will still feel uncomfortable, and you will definitely have to quarrel in the future.

As the saying goes, a man is from a slave to a general. Accommodating you now does not mean that you will be paid for later. I think that this man is idle, he doesn't miss his business, and you won't be happy if you follow him.

It's not easy to be together, it's fate, in fact, your boyfriend is okay like this, it's better for you than anything, the most important thing is not to be in a long-distance relationship, and the more time you spend together, you have more opportunities to get to know each other.

It's up to you to put your mind on top! Will you trust someone who lies over and over again Maybe one day you know that what you think is a lie You will collapse =0= to the point where you talk about marriage What do you think you will be told a bigger lie after marriage?

Divide it! On the one hand, you just said that although he is very hard working and motivated, he does not have an exorbitant salary and borrows money from you to play games. On the other hand, he always likes to lie to you, one day he brought the mistress back, he said that his distant cousin can deceive you, have you ever heard of boiling frogs in warm water, first heat the water slowly until the temperature can boil the frog to death, and the frog is boiled to death I don't know what's going on!

Don't forget!