Is it true that a person, how strong he is on the outside, how fragile he is on the inside?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-24
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because the heart is fragile, the appearance is strong, and the reason why the appearance is strong is not necessarily fragile on the inside

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How strong the appearance is. The heart will be doubly fragile.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    People are fragile, a needle can hurt people, and a word can make people sad.

    However, people are very strong. Hardships and hardships will not defeat a person, but will make him more and more frustrated and make eye-popping achievements.

    Therefore, whether a person is weak or strong depends on the person's mind.

    For a strong-hearted person, this person is a strong person......He will not be afraid of hardships and hardships. He will overcome the odds and achieve success.

    For a weak-minded person, this person is a fragile person......A little thing would break him. Such people are doomed to achieve nothing.

    In addition, whether a person is weak or strong also depends on his sense of responsibility.

    For people with a sense of responsibility, no matter how hard it is, they must also assume their own responsibilities and do what they should ......do wellThis kind of person is a strong person.

    For people who lack a sense of responsibility, they want to escape when they encounter difficulties, and they are at a loss when they encounter difficulties......Such people are fragile people.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People have times when they are vulnerable, and of course there are times when they are strong, which is normal;

    Some people usually look so strong and can carry everything by themselves, but in the dead of night, people hide in the quilt and cry and no one can see it;

    Some people usually look weak and incompetent, but they may also fight back at critical times.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, people and things are the same, they are a comprehensive unity of contradictions, and people also have two sides, there is both a fragile side and a strong side in the body, and sometimes it is very fragile, because it encounters some things that trigger the softest part of our hearts, but sometimes it forces us to be strong, such as facing some life, facing some things, and when we need to be independent.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Are people fragile or human, are they fragile or strong? Sometimes people are very fragile, but sometimes they are very firm, I think people are still strong, when they are fragile because they are completely defeated, they will be vulnerable, but sometimes people will fail, the stronger they are, the more they will work hard, this is how people are sometimes strong, sometimes fragile, a person's strength and, a person's strength and fragility are him, a person's strength and fragility, is he able to persevere? The strength and fragility of a person is whether he can hold on?

    If he persists, he is strong, and a person's strength and fragility are whether he can hold on? If he can hold on, she will be strong.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you're right, people can be fragile sometimes, and the slightest little thing can make you break down and cry. Sometimes people are very strong, and no matter how great the ordeal or the great pain, they can be strong enough to get through it. I think this is the preciousness of human beings, who can bend and stretch, be strong and weak.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Life is like this, sometimes it is fragile, sometimes it is strong, so the road of life depends on how you go, and when you encounter vulnerability, you must be strong, so there are troughs in life. When there is a trough, we must be positive and adjust our mentality.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, people's fragility and strength are often beyond their imagination in many cases.

    Time has gradually erased the frivolity of youth, and what has precipitated is maturity and silence, and self-knowledge. After we mature, we are becoming more and more silent, it's not that we are unkind, it's just that we have seen through more things, and we have chosen to remain silent about many things, and finally slowly become what we hated before, and we are becoming more and more unhappy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I feel that human fragility and strength coexist. It's not that a person is vulnerable, she will also have a strong side, it's just that the environment, events or relationships between people are different, causing her to show vulnerability or strength.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Some people are fragile, some people are strong, and the growth environment casts character. Fragile people can be strong, and strong people can be vulnerable, as long as there are exceptional things.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In the face of disasters and diseases, human life is so fragile and useless to struggle and resist, but when encountering difficulties and dangers, human life is so strong, working hard to overcome difficulties.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Are people fragile or strong? Sometimes people are very fragile, but sometimes they are still very strong, this is certain, everyone's benefits are different, and sometimes they pretend to be strong when they encounter things that they can't handle, but sometimes they are strong.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    People are resilient, so they are both strong and vulnerable. (If a person is not resilient, they can easily get injured).

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think it should still depend on a person's own thoughts, after all, when encountering some things, if he has a firm goal, she will be very strong, if not, it is possible to change, relatively mastery.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on the time and environment!

    I never feel tired or lonely in my work and life!

    But sometimes at night, I sit alone in front of the window, watching the traffic coming and going, looking at the bright lights of thousands of homes, and they all have a reason to be on! Some wives are waiting for their husbands, some are husbands waiting for their wives, some are parents waiting for their children, they all have bright reasons and their own stories!

    And I'm like an outsider in this city, and I want to have a light of my own! Pushing open the door, there was a hot meal, and someone gently said "I'm back!" ”

    I don't even know if I'm strong or vulnerable!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Fragile and strong are relative, and everyone has a vulnerable side and a strong side.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Are people fragile or strong? Well, you must be strong when you should be strong, but when you need to be weak, you can also relax yourself appropriately.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Human beings have unlimited potential, both fragile and strong. It's also changeable.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    People are often strong when they are strong, and people's willfulness is great, but occasionally they are also very fragile.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    People should be strong, self-reliant, not afraid of difficulties, work hard, work hard, and achieve success in their careers.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Whether people are fragile or strongSometimes people are very fragile and big, sometimes they are very strong, and it is true that the door is a contradiction that is effective, and if it is okay, it is very happy, and sometimes it is very uncomfortable.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, man is a creature with rich feelings and easy to contradict.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Are people fragile or strong, sometimes people are very fragile, but sometimes they are very strong, I think it is better to be a strong person than Cui Yue's person.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I saw what happened to you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Some people are strong in the face of feelings, while others are very fragile, which may have something to do with their growth environment and their family of origin. But you must also know that some people only look strong on the outside, but they are very fragile inside, because the sense of security in the relationship can only be given to us by the other party, and it cannot be obtained by themselves. <>

    I don't know what other people's state is in the relationship, in the relationship is actually more fragile, obviously a very normal behavior, but will be cranky, think of no regrets, and wait until I say that idea, the object is also very helpless, and how can you think of so many strange things with a small head. From here, you can actually see how important the other party is to you? Some people are very strong in the face of feelings, and some people are very fragile, which may have something to do with their growth environment and education, the impact of the family of origin on people is very huge, what is like in their family of origin, what they are like in the face of feelings.

    Everyone should have said or heard such a sentence, and when you grow up, you slowly become the one you hate the most, mainly because of the environment. Some people's families are more optimistic, but some people's families are very noisy, and when they face their feelings, they will actually give real feedback to their original family. And this has something to do with how much they love their object, if they love this person very much, they will also care about each other's every move, if they don't love this person, they will be very strong, and they can even be said to be invincible.

    There are also some people who are really strong on the surface, but the heart is very fragile, on the surface it looks light and breezy, but the heart is churning badly, this kind of person actually does not gain enough security in the relationship, if you also meet such a boyfriend, or meet such a girlfriend, I hope to be able to give them what they need, so that they become happy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Because some people have a harder personality, they can be strong in the face of feelings, but some people are inherently inferior and sensitive.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Fragile people must have been hurt emotionally before they become particularly vulnerable, and even don't believe that they will have fear of marriage and fear of knowing the opposite sex. Think you're bad.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Everyone's personality is different, the environment in which they have lived since childhood is different, and their experiences are different, so their views on feelings are very different.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In real life, I have rarely seen someone who is very vulnerable, but from the Internet, many people are fragile inside, why is this so? Because in reality, many people are pretending to be strong, because they don't have any backing, there is nothing behind them, and if they also look very fragile on the surface, it is really a collapse, and many people are struggling on the verge of collapse. They are not willing to be defeated by vulnerability, but vulnerability accompanies them at all times, inseparable from them, they can only appear strong on the surface, making strangers think they are strong.

    In fact, many people don't want to pretend to be strong, but they have to pretend to be strong, there are strangers everywhere, or people who are ready to wait to see their jokes, you don't pretend to be strong and you are really sprayed by other people's spittle!

    In this society where profit is paramount, the focus is on profit, or everyone only wants to get benefits for themselves. Many people are frustrated when they see others gaining benefits, because they have not gained benefits, and many are happy when they see others being vulnerable, because there is one less opponent in the bullring of interests. So, when we feel vulnerable inside, we hear a voice from the subconscious:

    It's just that you are fragile inside, and you are also fragile on the surface, do you want others to think that you are weak?

    Many people are face-loving people, and they will show their strengths in front of everyone, but they will never expose their vulnerable side in front of everyone, because they don't want others to look down on them.

    In a group of people, there are not a few people with a big pattern, and many people have similar patterns, nothing more than you are a little higher, I am a little lower, everyone laughs at fifty steps and a hundred steps. People with a big pattern don't care about everyone's opinions and opinions, because they will always stand on the top and look down; And most people have a similar pattern, they are always a little bit higher than him, and he is a little better than her, so no one wants the other party to see their vulnerable side and make themselves lose face. And the strength on the surface just hides the fragility on the inside, making everyone think that we are all equally strong.

    Are you pretending to be strong? Let's talk about it, there are no people who laugh at you here, only simple and rude, and understand each other.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Seriously, we're pretty much alike. You're like me in the past.

    Career and relationship are different, first of all, the pressure in career can be bearable, and it is normal to be hesitant and weak emotionally.

    Professionally courageous is good for us, emotionally, maybe because you haven't found the right object yet. I used to be miserable, very unconfident, and didn't understand why I was so good in many aspects, but I was alone in the lack of assertiveness and overwhelmed by the disadvantages in front of the cherry blossoms. When you meet the right person, it all comes down with ease.

    Believe me. You will be happy. Believe me.

    Of course, don't forget to read some books about feelings (romance ** doesn't count), such as about cultivation, about psychology, more contact with men, it can be just a friendship. (Recommended: "Sixteen Types of Natural Lovers" "Men from Mars, Women from Venus") Men like gentle, kind, considerate, and simple girls.

    Develop towards these aspects, and don't abandon your own nature and go to the rough. This is a question of "degree", so use your wisdom to understand it.

    Besides, before you get the love that suits you, you will definitely fail a few times, which is normal repentance. No one is born with it.

    That's right, yes, haha, I feel the same way, I am not allowed to fall in love when I go to school, and when I work, I immediately began to rush to let us go on a blind date.

    You learn to be gentle, I think there's an emotional element in your personality, and there's a lot of it. It's just that we're being held back by academics and rules, and we're quite alike.

    Yes, it's all pretended on the outside, but it's actually very fragile on the inside. You can pretend on the outside, but you can't on the inside.

    Everyone has a vulnerable side.

    Trouble, thanks!

    Life may make him like this, the things he has experienced, the blows he has endured, he has formed a protective shell of himself, to try to be strong, not necessarily a disguise, just an adaptation to the outside world, a kind of prevention, maybe the heart is really broken at a touch, or it is possible to get used to this way and let yourself be patient.

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    Yes, the strength of the outside hides the fragility of his heart!

    Because of the forced nature of society, if you are not strong, you will fail.

    It's normal to be strong on the outside and vulnerable on the inside. The key is to give yourself a place to release, a place where you can show your vulnerability, and wait for you to pack up your mood before going out and fighting. If you don't be strong on the outside, you'll suffer. Even if you pretend, you have to pretend to be strong.

    Man is such an animal! Love to hide your fragile heart with a false appearance!

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