How to Be True to Yourself

How to face up to your true self.

After thinking about it for a long time, I don't know what to do with my Chinese topic. Be true to yourself means to follow your true will and not force yourself; Don't give up your true self in order to prove yourself to others.

Perhaps the truth is that many people tell us that life is made up of a series of choices, that there is no right or wrong choice, and that the key is to prove to others that your original choice was correct with your own behavior. I don't agree with this sentence, the choice is different for everyone, and some people at the crossroads at that time chose a path that was not suitable for them, which is the so-called process of finding oneself through experience. And how sad it would be to blindly prove yourself to others, if you don't follow your own heart in the process.

So, I propose, be true to yourself, live and strive for your true nature.

After graduating from graduate school and working in a foreign company, my friend needs to be assessed at the beginning. In order to show his career ambitions and abilities, he has been very active in the process of training, and even if he is tired, he does not dare to show his fatigue and take a nap before class; My friend also showed admiration for the company's manager, so he wanted to behave better. The motivation inspired by this career pursuit and the worship of admirers is understandable; But it reversed the nature of the friend.

The friend herself is not a person who Yeqing particularly likes to smile and show her edge, which greatly consumes her energy. At one meeting, she was not smart and even a little stupid, which made her extremely annoyed, for fear that the people she admired would look down on her, and she was afraid of being seen by others. So, it's a tragic cycle of showing a false self and caring about what others think.

Things can also be carried out according to another set of logic, which is to show your true side, try your best and not be forced. I don't like to compete for joy and quiet, so I listen quietly and ask carefully; Love someone, but don't lose yourself, do your best, and like it with all your heart. If the other party likes you because of the real you, this is a match made in heaven; The disguise of inauthenticity does not last long, but only adds to the factors of instability.

So after listening to my opinion, my friend no longer suffers from gains and losses as before, but is himself, working hard without regrets, and some are relaxed and less nervous. Good love and work are always about enriching your life and making yourself feel worthwhile.

Be true to yourself, let yourself enjoy the bits and pieces of life to the fullest, facing the sea, shouting; When I saw the touching people, I shed tears to my heart's content; Don't worry about it, be yourself. Perhaps this is also an acceptable state of life.

A long time ago, I thought that being myself was about staying the same way I was, living or dying and not changing, even if it hurt me, made me uncomfortable, and made me uncomfortable. I thought to myself, if I change something when I encounter something, then am I still me? Am I just following the crowd like most people?

So how else do I feel my presence?

At that time, to be yourself was to oppose everyone, to build yourself, to protect yourself, and then to insist on being your self-righteous self.

Recently, I realized that I was not who I was at all, and that the real me was hidden in a deep, deep place. For years, she tried to release the signals that were me to me and let me see that she was as stupid as I thought those signals were me. The real me has been ignored by me, never seen.

My little self was abandoned by me in a dark corner......

I'm sorry, dear me. Now that I finally see you, I will always pay attention to you, love you, and care for you in the future, we are the best and best partners

Maybe in the future, sometimes I will be stupid, and there will be times when I ignore you unconsciously, please don't be too sad, believe me, I will always try, try to see you, try to peel off those fog and rent, try to kick away the mess and those stumbling blocks, I will eventually walk towards you and finally hug you. Love you!

so，how to be yourself?

if you want to be yourself , you must be know who you are.

so who you are?

feel your every feelings and find what it is .then maybe you will find yourself.

To be yourself at this time is to discover yourself, accept yourself, and reconcile with yourself and the world. Then know what you want and what you don't, and then become a better version of yourself.

Discovering yourself, accepting yourself, and then overcoming your own obstacles, I think that's also growth!

Of course, everyone's growth path is different, and for me, this is what it is: growth is a process of constantly discovering oneself, returning to oneself and constantly surpassing oneself to become better. It is also at this time that I really understand those so-called famous quotes. Extinction.

How to be true to yourself.

Key Vocabulary Explanation:

1、toprep.Toward; Situated......; to somewhere; to a certain state; Difference; To give; About; Compare; Attached; Against; Amount; ......Show respect; Chaperonage; In order to give ......; Fit; Press ......views; (at the time of settling the accounts).

adv.(door, etc.) closed.

2、true

adj.True; Right.

adv.Truly; Exactly.

n.Authentic; Accurate.

vt.Mounting.