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If people's emotions are not controlled by their minds, like a wild horse that has lost its reins, and it runs desperately forward, the result is two things, one is similar, and the other is falling off a cliff and dying.
The performance of an emotional person can be physically defined by the human body, and the impulsive response that produces is the lowest level of impulsive response, just like a person without a brain.
On the one hand, emotions do not obey the arrangement of reason, on the other hand, reason resents their own emotionality, in fact, this is not a two-sided personality, it is completely a contradiction between reason and impulsiveness, to put it bluntly, you are not confident, a person who is not confident is the most tired, not chic at all, because he himself does not believe in himself, as long as he does it, he thinks that what he is doing is wrong, and he regrets it when he finishes speaking.
In fact, this kind of person is not a low IQ, but he doesn't know how to use it, and he ends up becoming a traitor to himself, and the vicious circle is out of control.
But before you cause the bitter fruit, your conscience is finally a little awakened and remorseful, and my advice to you is that in addition to not doing it, do it with a clear conscience, don't blame and slander yourself for no reason, learn to protect your self-esteem, don't let your self-esteem leak outside, let the wind and rain blow, and learn how to comfort yourself, give yourself an account for everything you do, and build an impregnable fortress for your self-esteem.
Learn to change your mentality, don't be hard, even if you do something wrong, find a reason to comfort yourself, don't resent yourself, always analyze, summarize and accumulate lessons, and do the unity of "mind" in order to be chic and free, do what you want, and be at peace with what happens.
Do you understand, take your time.
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Your typical paranoid personality.
You are overly sensitive, plus underconfident!
Here's some advice: check out books on psychology. Usually cultivate your hobbies, exercise often, walk around the streets more, listen to soothing **, and chat with good-natured friends.
Very effective! Speaking of which, I'm not talking about it, but if you can't do it, it's really hard. You continue to be paranoid, first hurting the people around you, and finally the most painful thing is yourself!
I hope you will get out of the state of mind you have created for yourself as soon as possible!
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Everybody has a sub-personality, which is what you call a different side. Even the simplest people will have more than one, and the average person will have 10-40. There are parts that can be perceived by oneself, and there is another part that is not self-aware but has an effect on people.
According to the different number and degree of emphasis on the sub-personality, as well as the harmonious state between the sub-personalities, it is the reality of the self.
According to what you said, the harmony between the sub-personalities should be adjusted, there should be mutual acceptance and care, and at least one sub-personality should be unhappy and causing trouble. After adjustment, you can improve your self-knowledge and mental cultivation. In reality, I will have fewer worries and handle things with ease.
Of course, the experience of the general sub-personality needs professional guidance) I hope that your different sides will accept each other and live in harmony. Best wishes.
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First of all, I want to say that. You have low self-esteem. You can see it in your words. You have a low opinion of yourself. You have to know that a man who likes people must have self-confidence. Think you can.
There are also people who are emotional creatures. Even when he is impulsive, he swears people. But I will apologize after the incident. You want to find your way in life. Find your own direction. Don't go on like this. Brace yourself.
Buy more books to read. No one else can help you. Napoleon said that there are too many people. No one can be trusted. The only one who can really help you is yourself.
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Having a bad relationship with someone who is very emotional can make you feel uncomfortable, nervous, or tired. This is because their mood swings are frequent, and they may experience sudden emotional reactions such as anger, sadness, and anxiety, which are both difficult to ** and difficult to control.
When dealing with such people, you need to stay calm and avoid arguments with them, while giving them enough space to deal with their emotions.
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In real life, some people are very emotional, and their words and actions in the process of interacting with people are uncomfortable. For these people, they will have different feelings when they get along with them, and they need to take corresponding measures to deal with them. ......Specifically, it is easy to get emotionally hurt when dealing with emotional people, you need to be calm and rational when interacting with emotional people, and you should avoid unnecessary interactions with emotional people.
1. When you get along with emotional people, you are more likely to be hurt emotionally.
Emotional people will be very impulsive in their words and deeds in the process of interacting with others, and will not take into account the feelings of the other party, and decide their words and deeds according to their own personal preferences. ......Such a state is bound to have a very big impact on oneself, and even hurt one's feelings. ......Therefore, it is a very uncomfortable feeling to associate with emotional people.
2. When interacting with emotional people, you must take care to stay calm and sensible.
Because emotional people are very easy to make irrational words and deeds because of impulsiveness in the process of interacting with others, causing harm to the other party, when they interact with emotional people, they must remain rational and calm, so as to avoid affecting themselves because of the other party's impulsive words and deeds, and making themselves make the same irrational words and deeds. ......This is a very important issue that you must be aware of when dealing with emotional people.
3. You should avoid unnecessary interactions with emotional people.
In daily work and life, I need to interact with people often to achieve my own goals. However, when you associate with emotional people, you are vulnerable, which is not good for you. ......Therefore, you should pay attention to avoid unnecessary interactions with those emotional people in your daily life, so as to avoid unnecessary trouble for yourself, so as to effectively protect your own interests.
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In real life, some people are very emotional in the process of interacting with people, words and deeds make people feel uncomfortable, and these people will have different feelings when they get along with them, and they need to take corresponding measures to deal with them, specifically, getting along with emotional people are easy to be emotionally hurt and emotional people, and they need to remain calm and rational in their interactions, and they should avoid unnecessary interactions with emotional people, these three aspects.
P1 When you get along with emotional people, you are more likely to be hurt emotionally. Emotional people are very impulsive in their interactions with others and do not take into account the feelings of the other person. Deciding his words and deeds according to his own personal preferences is bound to have a very big impact on himself, and even hurt his feelings, so it is a very uncomfortable feeling to associate with emotional people.
Second. When interacting with emotional people, care must be taken to remain calm and sensible. Because emotional people are very easy in the process of interacting with people, they will cause harm to the other party because of the impulsive impulsiveness of irrational wild ant words and deeds.
Therefore, when you interact with emotional people, you must remain rational and calm to avoid yourself being affected by the other party's impulses, words and deeds, and making yourself make the same irrational words and deeds.
Third, you should avoid unnecessary interactions with emotional peopleIn your daily work and life, you need to interact with people often to achieve your own goals, but you are vulnerable to interacting with emotional people. This is extremely bad for yourself. Therefore, you should pay attention to avoid unnecessary interactions with those emotional people in your daily life, so as to avoid unnecessary troubles for yourself, so as to effectively safeguard your own interests.
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In life, you will inevitably meet some people who are easy to be emotional, the so-called emotional people, can be described as "emotional + extreme", why do you say that? Because emotional people are generally emotional people, they are easy to be moved by some things, and there is an extreme psychology that is easy to be infected, so that the emotional "emotion" infects their hearts. I would like to analyze it comprehensively from several aspects.
First, why do people become emotional? Emotions are mostly caused by the surrounding environment. There is a saying that does not know what is not useful:
If there is oppression, there will be resistance", yes, when a person's opinion is always constantly denied and beaten by the people around him, there is a range in the heart, especially related to the environment in which he has lived since childhood. If a child's parents always reject their children's opinions, the child will always become more rebellious, and more rebellious means more emotional, and will do some radical things.
Second, we are not emotional people, what should we pay attention to when we get along with them? I think the most important thing to get along with them is to be calm and pay attention to your words and deeds, otherwise it is easy to provoke them and cause extremely serious consequences. Isn't there a saying?
Fighting is not afraid of the fiercest roar, and the most afraid of the person who will not die, it can be seen that it is a very terrifying thing to provoke them. The best advice to get along with them is - be obedient and disobedient, you can't ignore them, you can't be stubborn, because they are all very irritable people, and those who disagree with them but insist on fighting to the end, emotional people are very, very resistant in their hearts. I forgot to mention the premise that when dealing with emotional people, you must respect them to the greatest extent, otherwise if you do something that is not in line with their wishes, you will find fault infinitely.
Thirdly, I think the most important thing is to drive them out of emotionality, because the human heart is flesh and blood, and no matter how big the angle is, it will be smoothed out.
Anyone can have such emotions, after all, if it is a friendship with a purpose, not a real friendship, then it is meaningless. It's just that some people react differently, everyone will want to be the focus of others, it's vanity that is doing the trick, so this girl is eager to have real friends, and she has a strong vanity. Hehe, this girl has to adjust her mentality, otherwise it will not be beneficial to the body.
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