How do you think about people who are kind to friends and unfaithful to love?

People who treat their friends well but are unfaithful to love show that they value friendship more than love, and they are good brothers and sisters to their friends, but they are not good partners to their lovers.

This kind of person is not suitable for falling in love and getting married, they are very good to their friends, in their eyes, friends are more important than love, and they will give up love for the sake of friendship.

This kind of people regard friendship as more important than love, in their eyes love is just a spice, and friendship is more important, they are not suitable for falling in love, only suitable for marriage and having children.

It's just a norm. It shows that he is more concerned about gains and losses, because the management of friendship is relatively cheap compared to love. He only wants to be rewarded with what he wants.

Such people regard their brothers as siblings, and women as garments. You can stick a knife in your ribs for your brothers, but you don't want to be loyal to your girlfriend.

I feel that it can be forgiven, as long as you make a mistake, change it, start over, give others a chance, forgive others is a kind of open-mindedness, forgive yourself is a relief, learn to forgive you will find that you are relaxed, happy, confident, mature.

Sometimes, some words and practices of friends may hurt you, family members, colleagues misunderstanding and return to make you distressed, there are many things in life that make you not as you wish, or even painful, why not change the way of thinking and learn to forgive? Forgiving others is an open-mindedness, and forgiving oneself is a relief.

If you don't forgive, the hatred or resentment buried in your heart because you don't forgive is often due to our own narrow-mindedness, low self-esteem, vanity, inability to let go, and lack of objectivity. Just like we often don't forgive someone for unintentional hurt, don't forgive others for the inconvenience they accidentally cause to themselves, don't forgive the blows of competitors, all of these will make us miserable and unhappy, we often have a knot of depression in our hearts, we carry the burden of the past and can't let go, and it affects the happiness and happiness of the present and the future. You step on the blooming flowers, and the flowers leave you with the fragrance of flowers; You pushed open a door and window, and a fresh fragrance blew outside the window; You have climbed over a mountain, and the scenery on the other side of the mountain is even more charming; You wade through a small river, and when you see the ocean, you will feel so wide ......

Think about it quietly, is it necessary? Everyone's life passes in a hurry, just a few decades, it's too late to enjoy it, it's hard to be a day, and it's a day of happiness, why let these trivial things always exist in your future life? Why let those unpleasantness disturb our vision?

Why should those who have abandoned you and will not appreciate your blindness still exist in your mind? Learn to forgive.

I will find that those who are confident, fulfilling, open-minded, generous, and happy in life are more likely to forgive others.

Yes! Not being serious about love and being loyal to friends are two things that have nothing to do with each other and do not affect each other.

1 There is no such thing as an absolutely loyal person in this world. He or she is loyal to you, but he or she may betray others. He or she is loyal to one group of people, but in another group of people, he or she may become a traitor.

It is often said that this person is faithful and reliable, but it is possible that he will become cunning and treacherous when he comes to you. This is normal. So don't trust one person to do things that fit everyone's label because of their label.

In the same way, if he is not serious about love, it does not mean that he is not loyal to his friends.

2 There are reasons for not being serious, and there are reasons for being loyal. If he is not serious about love, then it must be that he doesn't want to have this love for a long time or is really a person with a heart. His lack of seriousness is caused by his thoughts about this love, and maybe when the next love comes, he will be very serious and loyal.

Love and friendship are two different feelings, there are heavy colors and light friends, and there are heavy friends and light colors. Whether he is loyal to you or not should be judged by your own heart and brain, not by the way he predicts others.

My husband has a friend who has a heart, and I call him Little A. Xiao A is almost forty years old, his girlfriends have changed countless times, and most of the breakups are caused by Xiao A's splitting legs. He still doesn't want to take a serious relationship and hold a wedding, but he has always been very righteous to my husband.

My husband once made a mistake at work, and it was Xiao A who helped share the responsibility for the mistake. Another time my family wanted to buy a house, and Xiao A lent us 100,000 yuan without saying a word.

Therefore, friends judge with their hearts, not with their eyes or ears. Isn't there such a saying? Please don't know me from other people's mouths. Therefore, people who are not serious about love may also be loyal to their friends.