Can you forget the pain, please 3Q

The more you want to forget, the more you may not be able to forget, go and experience more happy things, so that you don't have to think about those pains all the time.

Love is an emotion that arises unconsciously, and it is possible to forget love. It's really hard. Therefore, it is easier to love someone, and forgetting that it is difficult for a person to love will be remembered.

And forgetting, it's like taking something out of your body. will be uncomfortable,..I don't know why everyone after falling out of love forgets the person he loves. , after all, they have all loved. After all, there are good memories, why forget? Is it because he still brings you pain?

In fact, it is impossible to completely forget. I always think about why I forgot this question so many times.

I feel that I should forget it, the pain is just the pain, and he has no meaning in itself, so he should be forgotten.

I think that the packaging of the meaning of suffering is something that people have to do, if we don't find a reason for suffering to exist, find an emotional outlet, if suffering is meaningless, then why do we go through this?

All the days we have passed through are under thy wrath;

The years we have spent are like a sigh.

The age of our life is 70 years old, and if we are strong, we can reach 80 years old.

But what is boasted in it is nothing but toil and sorrow, and it is empty in the blink of an eye."

Suffering always accompanies us throughout our lives, and it is so endless that it cannot be escaped.

In the future, in the face of suffering, human beings have derived an idea called "hope", if the present is bitter, it must be for the future that is bitter first and then sweet; If you cry in this life, it must be for the sake of a future life in which merit will be fulfilled.

If there is no point in suffering, why should we bear it?

Perhaps the answer is that we have to bear it.

Those who feel it is important to remember that suffering is a treasure of life, and if you avoid it, you will not be able to absorb the nourishment that it brings.

This argument also has a certain practical significance, and there is an argument in the book "Farewell to the Hedgehog":

The setbacks experienced in life are a quantitative, the sooner you experience it, the sooner you can excuse it, take Hongsang himself as an example, when he first wrote an article, he saw some criticism and abuse, and he was always angry and fought back, and now he saw some hostility, and he was able to try to understand the other party's thinking angle.

It's easy to reconcile with the pain and draw from it, but it's too difficult to achieve.

I think the real forgetting is not to avoid and cover up the pain of the past, but to look directly at the pain, to transform the pain, we can not avoid the pain in life, only to face it correctly, treat it rationally, affirmation should be affirmed in order to negate what should be denied, only in this way can you look at it calmly, let it become a kind of wealth in your life An experience and memory, a kind of understanding, rather than simply forgetting and abandoning, at the same time we learn how to give up and cherish, know how to choose and bear, I understand that we must not escape, indulge or even force a face, that will only lead to deeper and deeper falls. If we can solve the painful things well, then our life will be happy, in order to face the past and maintain a normal heart, instead of forcing ourselves to forget, when we learn to give up we know how to cherish, when we learn to choose to choose, when we choose to face us can calmly look at the past, by no means simple forgetting and forgetting.

Don't deliberately forget, deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by talking about it, but also to see what type of person you belong to, If you are emotional, it is best to find something or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. You have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.

Some people will always be engraved in their memory, even if they forget his voice, forget his smile, forget his face, but the feeling when they think of him will never change A person always has to take a strange road, see strange scenery, listen to strange songs, and then in a casual moment, you will find that the things that you originally tried so hard to forget are really forgotten like this Deliberately forget, you will remember it deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, Explain that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by just talking, but also to see what type of person you belong to, if you are emotional, it is best to find a thing or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. I don't know about the other types, you have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.

If you want to forget someone, he may have hurt you, maybe there are other reasons, you have to try to find out if you are sad, or other aspects and the reason why you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to give up something, let your heart open, instead of thinking about it often, you will definitely think about it occasionally, this is also inevitable, right, time will make you slowly forget, if you really love him, you have to spend your whole life to forget, if you don't want to forget, please hide love deep in your heart.

Amnestics of pain!

In fact, to tell the truth, love has been painful, it is not easy to completely forget, how many people can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, and it is also deceiving yourself, some memories can only be buried deep in the heart forever, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the time of the years, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of reminiscing about the past Sui Sui shirt romantic feelings, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way like this, but let go to understand that everything is just two parallel lines intersecting by chance, guessing when everything disappears parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, they are also separated by the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, and helplessly wish them happiness. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's just that when you're too concerned about the individual, love becomes a burden.