How to educate the children in the first year of junior high school, and how to educate the parents

1. Family is the child's first school, and parents are the child's first teacher; Second, family education is the starting point and basis of educating children; 3. Good family education is a necessary condition for children to become talents.

How should children be educated?

Don't be too strict, let the child develop the habit of conscious learning, you can guide it appropriately, but don't be in a hurry, just enter the junior high school curriculum increase, to give the child an adaptation period.

The most important thing for children in this period is to guide and influence, and to influence and guide them psychologically! Children at this age are very rebellious, so if you use a tough method, it will not work, and it will only be counterproductive!

Don't worry too much about the first year of junior high school, your child needs an adaptation period. But the foundation needs to be laid.

Learning tasks are moderate.

Give your child free time, and let the saved time be at your child's disposal. Parents should pre-set in advance how long their child will need to complete their homework within the normal range, and give their child enough free time. For example, if it takes a total of one and a half hours, when the child completes the quality and quantity within an hour, the rest of the time must be at the disposal of the child and let them do what they like.

Once this habit is formed, children will seize the time to complete their homework, because there will be a lot of time to play after writing early.

Establish the prestige of parents.

Parents If they want their children to be willing to accept their own education, they must improve their self-cultivation, learn how to be parents, and be strict with themselves, so that they can talk about educating their children. At the same time, we should also actively supplement our own shortcomings and establish a tall image in the hearts of our children, so that parents can establish prestige in the minds of our children.

Learn to make a study plan and study in a planned way.

1) Children should be trained to learn consciously, some children can't control themselves, let themselves go, can not consciously preview, review, most of these students lack self-control, not hard.

2) Let your child be planned. In the process of learning, there will always be parts that you have learned well and parts that you have not learned well, and you must have a plan to check and fill in the gaps at any time. In addition, there are many difficult subjects in junior high school, so it is also important to allocate time in a planned way and avoid deviating subjects.

Have a certain amount of wit and rationality.

When criticizing and correcting their children's mistakes, some parents do not pay attention to methods and directly beat and scold, and as a result, not only do they not receive good educational results, but also make their children have a rebellious mentality. Smart parents, on the other hand, know how to reason and move with emotion, so that children know that such mistakes need to be corrected, and they also believe that their children can correct them, so that the educational effect is self-evident. When encountering a child's "top cow", parents should avoid their sharp edge, divert their attention first, calm down both parties, and then find an opportunity to talk when they are calm, the effect will be better.

The above is how to educate parents of children in the first year of junior high school that I have compiled for you.

1. Urge children to develop good habits.

1) Good living habits. For example, life should be able to take care of oneself gradually, and do things in an orderly manner, without friction or procrastination; Dress appropriately, not overly pursue fashion, be diligent and thrifty, and do not compare with each other in terms of lifestyle and consumption level;

2) Good work and rest time habits. If you go to school and leave school on time, do not make too many stops on the road, and do not enter commercial entertainment venues (such as Internet cafes, game machine halls, song halls, etc.) without authorization. The time arrangement of weekends and holidays is reasonable, and the homework is not completed by surprise.

3) Good study habits. Be able to complete the homework assigned by the teacher independently and conscientiously, without procrastination, perfunctory, or plagiarism; Able to review and preview according to the teacher's requirements; Listen attentively in class, think diligently, and develop the habit of taking notes.

4) Good interpersonal habits. Respect teachers, unite classmates, respect the old and love the young. Reduce contact with classmates from other schools and do not have contact with idle people in society.

For junior high school students who have not yet formed correct values and are not strong enough in self-control, they are too communicative and easy to get contaminated with bad habits, which will affect the healthy and happy growth of children.

2. Master your child's schedule.

In the process of our work, we found that a small number of students often take advantage of the opportunity to go to and from school to play outside the school. In this way, over time, it is easy for them to become infected with bad habits, which will affect their healthy growth.

Therefore, as a parent, it is important to grasp the time it takes for your child to get from home to school, and to control the time when your child goes to and from school. If your child often starts school early or arrives late at home, ask your child about the situation and get in touch with the class teacher.

3. Combination of rewards and punishments.

If the child is only rewarded and not punished, the child will not know what the rules are, and when he grows up, he will have no sense of the law, and it is easy to cause crime. If you only punish your child and don't reward it, your child will lack motivation, and when you grow up, you will easily lose yourself and lose the meaning of life, and they will often ask yourself what the meaning of life is. The combination of rewards and punishments is the best way to educate, and more emphasis should be placed on rewards on the basis of the combination of rewards and punishments.

Because punishment does not make bad behavior disappear, it is only a temporary suppression of bad behavior. Whether it is a reward or a punishment, it should be timely, and if it is not timely, the reward and punishment are ineffective.

Don't overestimate your grades.

In junior high school, parents should not only focus on grades, but should pay more attention to their children's hearts, and encourage them from a side perspective, which is better than verbal pressure.

In junior high school, parents should first affirm and recognize their children's contributions, and do not care too much about the results, so as to encourage children to have a healthy mindset to face the future.

Respect the child's personality.

How parents treat their children is an important factor in the healthy psychological development of their children. Some parents are too strict with their children, reprimanding them everywhere, controlling their children's activities, and making them obey their words. Children who are educated in this way appear to be cultivated, but because their independent personality is not respected, they often show self-inhibition and lack of confidence.

On the contrary, some parents try their best to meet any demands of their children, and as a result, their children develop selfish, selfish, and arrogant qualities, and even aggressive behavior. Parents should treat their adolescent children equally, respecting their independence and allowing them to learn how to behave as adults and behave in accordance with general rules of interpersonal relationships. The wrong attitude of parents is one of the important factors that contribute to the unsound personality of children.

Advice for the head of the first year of junior high school.

1.Cultivate interest. When children are young, learning esoteric knowledge is not the focus, the most important thing is to develop children's intelligence, cultivate their imagination, observation, memory and oral expression skills, which are all paving the way for future learning.

We should start by cultivating children's interests and hobbies, and this time should not be rushed, but should be taken slowly.

2.Develop good habits. Good lifestyle habits and the ability to live independently are both important. Developing good habits from an early age will help you a lot in your later life.

3.Communicate. Don't scold your child when they make mistakes, try to communicate with them and tell them what is right and what is wrong.

When communicating, you should lower your mentality, and imagine yourself as a child, so that when you communicate with her, there is no generation gap between you, and the communication is very good, and what you say will be easy for her to understand, and she can understand that she is wrong, and she will not make mistakes when she rushes down to make the state.

4.Be encouraging. At this time, some children have already gone to school, so no matter whether their handwriting is good or not, or what their grades are, then you should not blame them, but encourage them to strive for better writing next time.

Encouragement from adults is a motivator for children, and if you blindly blame them, they will lose confidence.